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TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!

July 9th, 2008 · 29 Comments

I am so proud of my home group for hosting an amazing TES Fest. I loved the new location. Having everything under one roof removed a huge stress factor for me. Booking the entire hotel allowed us to play outside and in the pool (with its “watersports area” – yes, I did). The hotel staff […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Event Reviews · Relationships · Scene Report

Overall Policy at Leather Retreat

July 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

During Leather Retreat, Nayland Blake, who is an overalls aficionado extraordinaire, went to Walmart with Boymeat and took his overalls cherry. Now, Boymeat is able to conform with our Leather Family’s Overall Policy.

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My IML 2008 Trip – Part 11

June 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Hookups happen and new friendships are formed at IML. But in so many ways, it is a big reunion where people from different parts of the world get to see each other again. TX/NY – Paul and Mike Mike was collared to Paul for the weekend. Look at how happy they look. They were smiling […]

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Shopping basket

June 12th, 2008 · 28 Comments

Don Quixote and I are food shopping and sharing a cart. At the checkout, I pull out all my stuff and begin to load it all on the conveyor belt. “Are you together?,” the young clerk asks. I am quick to retort, “No!” DQ quips, “We just met. Here.” “Trader Joes is better than OKCupid,” […]

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Wet panties

June 5th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Sexy Jade and Dante on tsseduction.com We’re at a sex party. Selina has found the big gaping hole in the crotch of my overalls. But she wants more access to my cunt. I let the overalls slide off. And I step out of the panties I am wearing. They are thoroughly soaked. I am so […]

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Diamonds

May 17th, 2008 · No Comments

photo by Barbara Nitke In an article about engagement rings, a quote from Kate Gielgud: “I have wanted an engagement ring for as long as I can remember. My first impression is of storybook princes giving storybook princesses vast sparkly rings. So I knew from a very early age that it meant being loved, desired, […]

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Spanking and Cranking

May 15th, 2008 · 2 Comments

photo by Lumpo Do you want a spanking? I am teaching spanking at TES on Saturay at 7pm and I am looking for at least one demo bottom. Preferably female. Have you ever come from a spanking? Or even get close to it? Email me at lolitasir (at) gmail (dot) com Ducky Doolittle is a […]

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1, 2, 3, 4! Sha la la la la la live for today

May 14th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Downstairs at Happy Ending I went to see Last Tango in Paris this past week. Mostly, people focus on the sex and the age difference. But forget that. I am not interested in that right now. It’s how they had this relationship where they did not talk about their past or their future. And then […]

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Two Lips

April 29th, 2008 · No Comments

Don Quixote bought me stockings from Sock Dreams! I never had anyone buy me intimate sexy stuff like that. Really. Okay, once before, at the Flea, he bought me panties with lace ruffles from Delicious Corsets. But he’s the first to buy me stuff like that. I think I am not really the type. You […]

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Relationship Creep

April 27th, 2008 · No Comments

Inopportune: Stage One by Cai Guo-Qiang I am trying to keep this relationship with Don Quixote in that “Fuckbuddy” mode. It’s a lot of fun, it’s sexy and it’s easy. I don’t want or need it to “go anywhere.” I just want to enjoy. And I am having so much fun. I think I sometimes […]

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