Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

  Back in July I wrote about the new collar for Don Quixote which we have dubbed “The Collar of Complication.” I’ve wanted to post a clean version of it. It’s made of rings that are gunmetal in color, except for one ring that is gold. Most people don’t notice the “mistake,” but we know it’s [...]

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Don Quixote is wearing my collar. It’s not a slave collar. Nope! And it’s not a training collar. That’s not right either. It certainly ain’t the collar of consideration. Huh! And it sure as hell is not a collar of protection. Puh-lease! We finally agreed that this is the collar of complication. And that seems [...]

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It was a Sunday, I locked Don Quixote into the chastity device. We would not see each other again until Friday. He didn’t complain. He knew that I had the right to control him in that way. He did, however, mention that he had a date. One of those kinds of dates. A date for [...]

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Everyone is invited to a Sex Positive Pansexual Play Party hosted by the Friends of Play House and Baltimore TNG to be held at Play House in Baltimore on Friday night, July 30th from 9pm until 2am. I will be presenting a workshop about how to have more successful poly relationships at 9:30pm and open [...]

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The photo of me was taken Saturday night by Nayland Blake. The audience at Cinekink sang Happy Birthday to me. Mollena Williams wrote an awesome tribute for my birthday. And Cindy composed a poem – Our Lolita When ya meet’ha She might just beatcha Or maybe teach ya In the world of leather yenta Sex [...]

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Don Quixote and I ate dinner at the Empire Diner with an old friend of his. I had the grilled salmon, he had the chili and the friend had guacamole. The waiter had the same snotty attitude that most Empire Diner waiters throughout time seem to have. But the food was good and the conversation [...]

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I received this question through my website from a person who left a bad email address. It’s such a typical question that I thought I would answer it here. Q. Years ago I was introduced to some very basic BDSM by an older female lover. In that relationship I was always dominant. After we broke up [...]

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“You’re in charge of the music,” I told Don Quixote. I was driving home from our New Year’s weekend and DQ was riding shotgun. We were listening to the radio. I like to delegate. Sometimes it’s stuff I don’t want to do, but usually it’s stuff that the other person does better than me.  And [...]

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Jack was a picky eater.  He didn’t eat a lot of veggies or fruits. He was a meat and potatoes kind of guy. One weekend, I brought my girlfriend, O, with me to visit Jack. O is a pretty good cook.  I told her about Jack’s dietary preferences and she made us a fine meal [...]

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I taught and played at Black Rose last weekend, but really the best part is being able to spend quality time with my peeps! Nayland, Thor and mudcub Sharrin and pat Boymeat and Kathryn Our family dinner at the fabulous Art and Soul restaurant.

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