Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Entries Tagged as 'Relationships'

The Essence of Queer Sex

November 4th, 2014 · 1 Comment

  So, I had a date with Casey, who is a regular play buddy of mine. Usually we get together and I hurt her. She has the most beautiful eyes when she suffers. We were staying in Oink and she invited me to get comfortable on her bed so that she could massage my feet. […]

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The Panty Loan

November 6th, 2012 · 1 Comment

We share things at Oink. Like good friends do. When Jean mentioned that she had run out of clean underwear, I gave her a pair of my black cotton panties. I always pack extra undies and socks. One year later, we were back at Oink and she returned my panties. She told me how she would wear […]

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Huge Wood Penetrates Oink

July 3rd, 2012 · No Comments

Dark Odyssey Fusion 2012 will be forever known as the time our cabin got fucked by a tree. I had always loved how our cabin was shaded by these big trees. Oy! The first 48 hours of camp were really stellar and then the tornado threw us all into a major tizzy.  It was quite […]

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Q&A Number 1: Play Partners

April 5th, 2012 · No Comments

Q.   On FetLife and on various party/club invites they refer to the term “play partners.”  What does that mean?  Can one be happily married, yet have a separate “play partner?”  Is that necessarily sexual?  Does that sometimes lead to adultry and divorce?  I am both intrigued and frightened. A.   A play partner can be a […]

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Bondage Insecurities

March 2nd, 2012 · No Comments

We all have our insecurities. Right? Right??? Well, okay, that was a generalization. What I mean is that I have some things that I am insecure about. One of the people I have been playing with is a bondage professional. She has been tied by the best riggers in the business and she has tied […]

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The Collar of Complication

August 28th, 2011 · 1 Comment

  Back in July I wrote about the new collar for Don Quixote which we have dubbed “The Collar of Complication.” I’ve wanted to post a clean version of it. It’s made of rings that are gunmetal in color, except for one ring that is gold. Most people don’t notice the “mistake,” but we know it’s […]

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The New Collar

July 7th, 2011 · 3 Comments

Don Quixote is wearing my collar. It’s not a slave collar. Nope! And it’s not a training collar. That’s not right either. It certainly ain’t the collar of consideration. Huh! And it sure as hell is not a collar of protection. Puh-lease! We finally agreed that this is the collar of complication. And that seems […]

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Manual Dexterity

January 29th, 2011 · No Comments

It was a Sunday, I locked Don Quixote into the chastity device. We would not see each other again until Friday. He didn’t complain. He knew that I had the right to control him in that way. He did, however, mention that he had a date. One of those kinds of dates. A date for […]

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Poly Class and Sex Positive Pansexual Play Party in Baltimore

July 21st, 2010 · No Comments

Everyone is invited to a Sex Positive Pansexual Play Party hosted by the Friends of Play House and Baltimore TNG to be held at Play House in Baltimore on Friday night, July 30th from 9pm until 2am. I will be presenting a workshop about how to have more successful poly relationships at 9:30pm and open […]

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Highlights from my Birthday

February 22nd, 2010 · 1 Comment

The photo of me was taken Saturday night by Nayland Blake. The audience at Cinekink sang Happy Birthday to me. Mollena Williams wrote an awesome tribute for my birthday. And Cindy composed a poem – Our Lolita When ya meet’ha She might just beatcha Or maybe teach ya In the world of leather yenta Sex […]

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