Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

The photo of me was taken Saturday night by Nayland Blake.
The audience at Cinekink sang Happy Birthday to me.
Mollena Williams wrote an awesome tribute for my birthday.
And Cindy composed a poem -
Our Lolita
When ya meet’ha
She might just beatcha
Or maybe teach ya
In the world of leather yenta
Sex toys maybe that she [...]

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Don Quixote and I ate dinner at the Empire Diner with an old friend of his. I had the grilled salmon, he had the chili and the friend had guacamole. The waiter had the same snotty attitude that most Empire Diner waiters throughout time seem to have. But the food was good [...]

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I received this question through my website from a person who left a bad email address. It’s such a typical question that I thought I would answer it here.
Q. Years ago I was introduced to some very basic BDSM by an older female lover. In that relationship I was always dominant. After we [...]

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“You’re in charge of the music,” I told Don Quixote. I was driving home from our New Year’s weekend and DQ was riding shotgun. We were listening to the radio.
I like to delegate. Sometimes it’s stuff I don’t want to do, but usually it’s stuff that the other person does better than [...]

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Jack was a picky eater.  He didn’t eat a lot of veggies or fruits. He was a meat and potatoes kind of guy.
One weekend, I brought my girlfriend, O, with me to visit Jack. O is a pretty good cook.  I told her about Jack’s dietary preferences and she made us a [...]

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I taught and played at Black Rose last weekend, but really the best part is being able to spend quality time with my peeps!

Nayland, Thor and mudcub

Sharrin and pat

Boymeat and Kathryn

Our family dinner at the fabulous Art and Soul restaurant.

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In many ways, it was a perfect weekend, or at the very least, a perfect way to tackle the complexities of attending Floating World and Jack’s funeral.  Don Quixote is a very good daddy and treats me like a Princess.  We are very comfortable, yet flexible, in those roles and are able [...]

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I’m excited about going to Floating World. It’s not the event so much but what Don Quixote and I are going to do there. We are going to do a weekend of exclusivity. Exclusivity or, as I jokingly refer to it, monotony. We’re putting the poly in our relationship on hold and [...]

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