Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Don Quixote and I ate dinner at the Empire Diner with an old friend of his. I had the grilled salmon, he had the chili and the friend had guacamole. The waiter had the same snotty attitude that most Empire Diner waiters throughout time seem to have. But the food was good and the conversation […]

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I received this question through my website from a person who left a bad email address. It’s such a typical question that I thought I would answer it here. Q. Years ago I was introduced to some very basic BDSM by an older female lover. In that relationship I was always dominant. After we broke up […]

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“You’re in charge of the music,” I told Don Quixote. I was driving home from our New Year’s weekend and DQ was riding shotgun. We were listening to the radio. I like to delegate. Sometimes it’s stuff I don’t want to do, but usually it’s stuff that the other person does better than me.  And […]

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Jack was a picky eater.  He didn’t eat a lot of veggies or fruits. He was a meat and potatoes kind of guy. One weekend, I brought my girlfriend, O, with me to visit Jack. O is a pretty good cook.  I told her about Jack’s dietary preferences and she made us a fine meal […]

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I taught and played at Black Rose last weekend, but really the best part is being able to spend quality time with my peeps! Nayland, Thor and mudcub Sharrin and pat Boymeat and Kathryn Our family dinner at the fabulous Art and Soul restaurant.

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I was at the airport on a long layover and I was listening to a conversation between these two guys who had just started talking. Not eavesdropping – just, it was loud enough for everyone in earshot to hear. The one guy offers the other guy some home-made cookies. “They’re really good.  A variety, chocolate […]

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I’m not big on processing, but sometimes I think it worthwhile to take a step back and look things over.  Relationships are not stagnant, even though I am not one to push them along.  Actually, I am loathe to push them along at all.  And just to where would I push it along that could […]

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In many ways, it was a perfect weekend, or at the very least, a perfect way to tackle the complexities of attending Floating World and Jack’s funeral.  Don Quixote is a very good daddy and treats me like a Princess.  We are very comfortable, yet flexible, in those roles and are able to make them […]

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I’m excited about going to Floating World. It’s not the event so much but what Don Quixote and I are going to do there. We are going to do a weekend of exclusivity. Exclusivity or, as I jokingly refer to it, monotony. We’re putting the poly in our relationship on hold and playing only with […]

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I dunno. Is the moon in the seventh house or something? There are some weird goings-on in my life. I have been contacted by not just one, but two, exes (no, not that one and not the other one either). Both of these exes dumped my ass over 10 years ago and then wouldn’t talk […]

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