Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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What Wont Wreng

February 10th, 2013 · No Comments

NYC History Then.  NYC Art Now. Go see Nayland Blake’s new show. It’s up through April 19, 2013 at Matthew Marks Gallery, 502 West 22nd Street in NYC.

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Tags: Art & Culture · friends · Reviews & Recommendations

The Panty Loan

November 6th, 2012 · 2 Comments

We share things at Oink. Like good friends do. When Jean mentioned that she had run out of clean underwear, I gave her a pair of my black cotton panties. I always pack extra undies and socks. One year later, we were back at Oink and she returned my panties. She told me how she would wear […]

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American Ecstasy

November 2nd, 2012 · 1 Comment

My friend Barbara Nitke has a new book out: American Ecstasy. It’s really beautiful and fun. These photos are early works from when she would shoot stills for porn films. She also shot a lot of behind-the-scenes shots that portrayed life in the porn industry as not always so orgasmic and glamorous.

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Charles Gatewood’s 7 Delightful Sins

November 19th, 2011 · No Comments

Friday night I went to Charles Gatewood‘s opening at the Leslie-Lohman Foundation. This is one of Kymara‘s mannequins at the exhibit. Those are antique love letter accessorized with a leather blindfold, collar and leash from Purple Passion, a sponsor of the show. Some really cool people showed up. Mike and Nayland were there!

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Happy 4th of July!

July 4th, 2011 · No Comments

Photo by Nayland Blake

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At Folsom Street East 2011

June 19th, 2011 · No Comments

Screwed up and left my camera at home so not many photos this year. Here’s a cell phone shot of my sexy Daddy. It was a hot sunny day and it seemed everybody was at the fair. This year was different for me because I got introduced on stage with the other titleholders. That was […]

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Mark Bialous aka Spanky

April 8th, 2011 · No Comments

Spanky at Folsom Street East 2008   Spanky passed away this week after a long battle with cancer. I met Spanky in the early 90’s when we were both active with National Leather Association. He was friendly, fun and a tireless volunteer.  I remember when he became the Northeast Drummerboy in 1993; there was a travel […]

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Augie Kalin

April 7th, 2011 · No Comments

  This brief bio was written by Gil Kessler and reprinted with permission.   August Kalin passed away in New York City on April 4, 2011 following a major stroke two weeks earlier. Augie was 55. He was born in Syracuse, NY and lived most of his life in the state. For the last 5½ […]

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Marriage does not equal Romance

January 5th, 2011 · 3 Comments

So, I just read Man Attempts to Restore Romance to NYC With Blog Admitting Interest in Marriage. Ya know, marriage is not the ticket to romance. Sure, getting married is romantic. Oh, the engagement! Oh, the wedding! Oh, the big white wedding dress! Oh, finding “the one!” Being together forever and ever. Dreaming of what […]

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Leo’s Queer/Leather NYC Happy Hour

January 3rd, 2011 · No Comments

Leo of The Pretty Boi Diaries organized a Queer/Leather happy hour at the NY Eagle last week. It was a fun night out at the leather bar.

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