Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

  What is going on with that Laura Antoniou? Have you seen the latest book of hers? She has totally jumped the shark with this one. For those of you who don’t know whom I am talking about, Laura is the author of the highly acclaimed Marketplace series and she is a very popular speaker […]

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NYC History Then.  NYC Art Now. Go see Nayland Blake’s new show. It’s up through April 19, 2013 at Matthew Marks Gallery, 502 West 22nd Street in NYC.

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My friend Barbara Nitke has a new book out: American Ecstasy. It’s really beautiful and fun. These photos are early works from when she would shoot stills for porn films. She also shot a lot of behind-the-scenes shots that portrayed life in the porn industry as not always so orgasmic and glamorous.

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Today is my day on the Say Please virtual book tour and I feel like I have messed up and not finished my homework. I have not read the whole book.  But I love what I’ve read so far. Say Please is an anthology of Lesbian BDSM erotica edited by Sinclair Sexmith. There’s lots of […]

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Barbara Nitke has launched a Kickstarter to publishe her book, American Ecstasy. This photo book of her early work has been a big dream of hers for a long time and I am happy to be one of the backers.

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The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge I have a chapter in this book! It’s Chapter Two and it covers Spanking, Caning and Flogging! The list of contributing authors to this book reads like a Who’s Who of BDSM: Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, […]

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Q.  What is the best way to store lots of dildos and vibrators of various sizes in limited space? I am trying to figure out if there is a sort of card catalogue thingie so I can put them all in a drawer? Help! 🙂 A.  First of all, go through your collection and decide […]

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The ingredients for my big birthday orgasm: Medium Njoy Pure Plug – $69.95 Black Dragon Latex Gloves – $20.00 Sliquid Organics Natural – $13.00 Acuvibe HT-1220 Mini Vibrator – $34.95 My lover’s fingers and hands – Priceless

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On Thursday I went to a kissing party held in the private upstairs of a bar. The hostshave a bunch of rules (like “Ask before you touch,” which is exactly the kind of rule I like having at a party) and they require that everybody attends with a Pal. You are responsible for your Pal’s […]

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Rachel Kramer Bussel has a sexy new anthology called Fast Girls.  Rachel says: I named this book after a song called “Fast Girls” by an indie pop/rock band called Sarge*. That song is a feisty, punk-rock ode to a hot girl who is captivating in all kinds of ways. I’m sure you know a girl […]

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