Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Say Please

April 26th, 2012 · Comments Off

Today is my day on the Say Please virtual book tour and I feel like I have messed up and not finished my homework. I have not read the whole book.  But I love what I’ve read so far. Say Please is an anthology of Lesbian BDSM erotica edited by Sinclair Sexmith. There’s lots of […]

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Tags: Books · Reviews & Recommendations · Spanking

Sara Vibes Added to 100 Divas

March 21st, 2012 · 2 Comments

Amazing how you can live in the same city as somebody, but it takes being at an out of town event to make things happen. And South Plains Leatherfest was just the event. It is one of the premier leather events in the country with great workshops and dungeon parties. It was at SPLF that […]

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Tags: 100 Divas · BDSM · Scene Report · Spanking

Just Play

November 23rd, 2011 · Comments Off

This weekend, I’ll be at Just Play, an event designed to bring women and transfolks together to play and socialize and learn from each other. The event takes place at Play House Studios in Baltimore, MD. You must rsvp to Glenda for the address. Friday night is open play from 9pm to 2am plus an […]

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Tags: BDSM · events · Find Lolita · Spanking · travel

My First Title

December 9th, 2010 · 1 Comment

I competed for the International Little Miss Littles title at Kinky Kollege in Chicago. There were seven contestants and they were all very good. The judges were Hardy Haberman, Master Z Dallas and IML 2010 Tyler McCormick. The first part of the contest was Modeling. The stage had a long runway and the crowd was […]

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Susan Wright added to 100 Divas list

November 25th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Boymeat, Kelly, Susan and Kathryn at Folsom Street Fair 2009 I was honored to spank Susan Wright at Kinky Kollege.  She is one of the most spankable people on the planet!  Thank you to Kelly for allowing us to do this. In addition to being the founder and spokesperson for NCSF, Susan is a published […]

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Mollena’s side of the story

July 27th, 2009 · Comments Off

Wow!  Mollena Williams wrote a glowing post about her scene with me at Shibaricon.  She starts off with saying some really flattering things about me and then it reads like porn!  I love it! My version is here. Thanks, Mo!

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Mollena Williams added to 100 Divas

June 20th, 2009 · 14 Comments

The 100 Divas list is a perfect cruising tool.  At Sex 2.0 I told Mollena that she was eligible for the list.  She seemed pretty skeptical about the whole thing until Barbara Carellas, who was sitting with us, began to squee about the spanking I gave her.  It’s good to have references.  Mo emailed me […]

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Spankings at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire

February 24th, 2009 · Comments Off

Graydancer (There was no photography allowed at the event so this was pulled from my archives.) While I was at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, I was interviewed by Graydancer for his Ropecast podcast.  It was certainly not all talk, no action.  I spanked him while we were taping!  He’s been added to the 100 Divas […]

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Like Rube Goldberg

January 27th, 2009 · 22 Comments

Don Quixote and I went to a play party. I had a caning date with an extremely cute puppy boy. DQ asked, “Do you mind if I come along and watch your scene?” “Sure! It’s not like anything at this party is private.” We found the puppy boy and then the three of us went […]

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The big dodge

October 30th, 2008 · 25 Comments

It was Thursday night at Dark Odyssey and we were hanging out on the porch of Oink. We had just finished the second and final part of a ritual scene where a boy had earned a pair of leather gloves. It was a perfect night. Momma Bear had gone into the cabin and had just […]

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