Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

I previously wrote about Nayland Blake’s Free Love Tool Box show here and now I am in San Francisco for Phase Two! On Thursday I will do a decorative piercing performance with Nayland. I am thrilled to be doing this and a bunch of my friends are showing up for it. There’s a bunch of cool […]

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There’s a lot of discussion going on about money and presenters. See Mollena and Andrea Zanin, who both posted this week and have sparked many discussions on their blogs, Fetlife and elsewhere. I teach quite a bit as you can see on my teaching page. Sometimes I get expenses plus a payment. Sometimes I just […]

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I’m glad I visited Oscar Wilde’s tomb before they cleaned it and sealed it off.

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This weekend, I’ll be at Just Play, an event designed to bring women and transfolks together to play and socialize and learn from each other. The event takes place at Play House Studios in Baltimore, MD. You must rsvp to Glenda for the address. Friday night is open play from 9pm to 2am plus an […]

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Recently, I spent a week with six other kinky people on a 50 foot Beneteau sailboat in the British Virgin Islands. As you can see in the photo above, our ship proudly flew a pig flag. I don’t want to bore you with a full report of my vacation, so here are the highlights: Best SCUBA dive: […]

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I’m in Paris with Peggy aka O, my ex-girlfriend. I’m here for eight nights. I’ve been posting updates and photos to my Twitter.  We’ve been shopping, sightseeing and eating with friends. Tonight we are having a traditional non-Thanksgiving dinner of oysters and lobster with her folks. This photo is of some neat street art that […]

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I recently wrote about Wicked Grounds, the San Francisco kinky coffee shop. I loved the tables at the shop.  Each one was an art project made with love by various volunteers.  Some of rthem were obstructed when I visited because they had just opened and were gearing up for Folsom weekend. Ryan’s table Mollena’s table

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On my California trip, I made sure to stop in at Wicked Grounds in San Francisco. They are located in the heart of the Soma district on 8th Street right off Folsom. It’s a wonderful cafe that serves gourmet coffee, tea and soda along with delicious artisanal pastries and sandwiches. It’s also BDSM themed with […]

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Glenda, Larry and John Mudcub and Thor Christina and Peggy Sue Titleholders pose for a grand photo op. Boymeat, Kathryn and I rock the NCSF T-shirts!

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Mr and Ms Capital Pride Leather 2009, Matt and Jackie organized the NEM Leather contingent Tom, Bruce and Devon of NYC.  Bruce took a lead role in organizing the Leather contingents in 1987 and 1993. Ernie from NJ Greg from NJ David and his partner from Chicago It was a glorious, warm and sunny day […]

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