Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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LPN Flea Market 2012

January 29th, 2012 · No Comments

Leather Pride Night NYC will be presenting a special event: The Leather Valentine Market on Sunday, February 12th, 2012.  This afternoon of fun, frolic and bargains will be at the Eagle NYC , 554 West 28th Street, (between 10th & 11th Avenue), NYC. The Leather Valentine Market is a sale of gently used leather and [...]

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Tags: events · NYC · NYC Weekly Leather Dates

DQ Earns a Pass from Chastity

January 7th, 2012 · Comments Off

Don Quixote was locked up in a chastity device. It had been over a week. He needed to get out. He had a date with these two guys. A big overnight date with lots of bondage and sex. Sometimes he has dates and I don’t let him out of the chastity like here and here. His [...]

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Tags: Scene Report · Sex

Deck The Balls With Me

December 17th, 2011 · Comments Off

I am going to be a judge at Deck The Balls hosted by the guys of Onyx NY/Northeast on Sunday Dec 18th at the LGBT Center 208 West 13th Street from 5pm to 8pm. There will be Fun, Food, Drink, Family, Friends, Raffles and a Contest to boot! Come join us. HO! HO! HO!

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Tags: events · Find Lolita

Just Play

November 23rd, 2011 · Comments Off

This weekend, I’ll be at Just Play, an event designed to bring women and transfolks together to play and socialize and learn from each other. The event takes place at Play House Studios in Baltimore, MD. You must rsvp to Glenda for the address. Friday night is open play from 9pm to 2am plus an [...]

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Tags: BDSM · events · Find Lolita · Spanking · travel

My International Little Miss Littles Step Down Speech

November 5th, 2011 · Comments Off

I know that the Littles Contest was conceived as a parody, just for fun. And it is fun. And I entered to have fun with it. In my 20+ years in the scene, I had never run for a title before, but this contest just called out to me. It was so perfect for me. [...]

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Tags: Activism & Politics · BDSM

The Ultimate Guide to Kink

October 18th, 2011 · 1 Comment

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge I have a chapter in this book! It’s Chapter Two and it covers Spanking, Caning and Flogging! The list of contributing authors to this book reads like a Who’s Who of BDSM: Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Books

Bare Stories – My First Time

October 9th, 2011 · 2 Comments

Monday October 10th is the first installment of Bare Stories, which showcases people telling stories of sex, desire and romance. The topic is First Times. This will also be my first time on stage as a story teller! So please come out and hear me tell my story. Get details at Bare Stories.

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Tags: Art & Culture · BDSM · Find Lolita · Sex

Death By Bondage

July 19th, 2011 · Comments Off

Before I found the Scene, the only place I really heard about bondage was in the newspapers when somebody died. I was strangely attracted to the bondage, but conversely, I was repelled by the death. I yearned for the hoods and the handcuffs, but I figured nice girls don’t do these things, and that if [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage

Rope Camp

July 13th, 2011 · Comments Off

This August 3-7 I’ll be teaching at Rope Camp, a new outdoor event held in Northern Maryland. The line up of presenters is really incredible. I’ve been offered a $50 discount on the full event price for all my friends. To take advantage of this amazing deal all you have to do is enter this [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · events · Find Lolita

More Adventures in Chastity

June 21st, 2011 · Comments Off

It was a week before we were going to leave for Dark Odyssey Fusion. I called Don Quixote to discuss bedding and stuff. And then I sprung it on him, “I think you should be in the chastity device.” There was a pause. “Really? Now? Until Fusion?” He was incredulous. “Yes!” He began to explain [...]

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Tags: BDSM