Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Noodles and Mummies in Boston!

May 15th, 2016 · No Comments

One minute, you’re walking around Harvard Square, maybe eating some noodles, and the next moment you’re completely immobilized, swaddled like a mummy. Lolita, pictured here with one of her mummies, will show us how to perform this inexpensive and versatile form of bondage. We don’t have a pool rented for the workshop, but we do […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · events

Preferred Pronouns aka PGP

September 2nd, 2015 · No Comments

Nowadays many people ask “What is your preferred pronoun?” This is a tidy way of respecting one another’s gender identity. Gender is not always so obvious and it can get even more complicated with people who are genderqueer and maybe prefer they/them or zie/zir or something else entirely. A few months ago I taught at […]

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Tags: events · Identity

Deck The Balls

November 7th, 2014 · No Comments

I’m very excited that I will be a judge at Onyx Northeast Deck The Balls on Friday December 19th! This will be so much fun!

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Tags: events · NYC

Voodoo

July 23rd, 2014 · No Comments

We went for brunch at Tom’s Restaurant in Coney Island. I like the lemon ricotta blueberry pancakes. I also really love Coney Island. Afterward we wandered around. There was a guy on Surf Avenue near the Freak Show with a 3D printer. He showed us how he scans people and then makes a little statues […]

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Tags: Art & Culture · BDSM

When Pigs Float

September 8th, 2013 · No Comments

These are photo from my favorite camp event, Dark Odyssey Fusion. I’m on staff and do the programming for the classes. I love this event because I can play outside. I can even play in the pool! These photos were taken by NearlyCandy.

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Event Reviews

Judging IML 2013

August 10th, 2013 · No Comments

What an incredible honor it was to be chosen to be one of the judges for International Mr. Leather 2013. The other judges were amazing and I really enjoyed working with them all. We spent many fascinating hours together interviewing the 57 contestants who came from all over. The IML staff (especially, Billy Lane, Mike […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

Volunteer for Leather Pride Night., Sat. 6/22

June 21st, 2013 · No Comments

Would you like to be a volunteer at Leather Pride Night? This year’s beneficiaries are Bailey House, TLDEF (Transgender Legal Defense & Education Fund), National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and NYC Pride. Most volunteer slots are only one hour which is a short time for a four hour event. Volunteering enhances your experience of LPN […]

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Tags: events

My IMsL 2013 Keynote

April 28th, 2013 · 4 Comments

First I want to congratulate Sahra, the new IMsL, and Bella, the new IMsBB. This is a real milestone year with the Bootblack anniversary. Who could have ever predicted that we would ever have such a bootblack community of women? I am so honored to be this year’s keynote speaker. My first IMsL was in […]

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Tags: BDSM · events

The Panty Loan

November 6th, 2012 · 1 Comment

We share things at Oink. Like good friends do. When Jean mentioned that she had run out of clean underwear, I gave her a pair of my black cotton panties. I always pack extra undies and socks. One year later, we were back at Oink and she returned my panties. She told me how she would wear […]

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Tags: events · friends · Relationships · Scene Report

Midori in NYC

October 18th, 2012 · No Comments

 Midori’s coming to NYC and it’s a whirlwind visit with lots of events. There’s always something for everyone. Wed 10/24  “Kinesthetic Rope: Dynamic Movements to Revolutionize Your Play” Thurs 10/25  “Bawdy Luxe Sexy Storytelling”    Mon 10/29 “Real Life Protocol & Etiquette: The 4 Environments w Laura Antoniou & Midori” Tue 10/30 2pm-6:30pm “Afternoon Oasis of Pleasure: Play, […]

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Tags: BDSM · events · NYC