Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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June 12th, 2009 · No Comments

I like when Daddy buys me candy.

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Vagina Music

May 6th, 2009 · No Comments

“So, let’s get together for a meal at the event,” I suggested. She gave a sidelong glance at her partner, and then spoke to me. “I don’t think that’s a very good idea. Whatsname will be there.” “Oh, okay, then some other time.” “Yeah, I’m sorry, but, you know…” “Yeah, I know.  S’okay. Don’t worry.”

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Only around the edges, dear

April 19th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Don Quixote said to me the other night that this would be our third Leather Retreat together. I didn’t say much in return, but it did get me thinking. This thing with DQ has turned into a real relationship or something. I have two things to say about that: Yikes! I’m really having a lot […]

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SPLF 2009 Mini-Keynote

March 17th, 2009 · No Comments

This year, South Plains Leatherfest asked five people to deliver mini-keynote speeches.  I was honored to join with Mark Frazier, Midori, Master Skip and Master Larry on the podium.  This is a pared down version of what I said.  I did quite a bit of ad-libbing and the speech was longer, but this is the general gist […]

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Question #5

March 13th, 2009 · 2 Comments

I’m a hetreo man, mid-30s with a fetish and not able to find any partners. Just read “the Other Side of Desire”. One thing they say in the book again and again is that virtually everyone with a paraphillia is a male. I suppose that would explain my inability to find anyone. In your experience […]

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A Most Awesome Birthday Present

February 20th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Today is my birthday and so far it is great!  I have really wonderful friends.  Thanks to everybody who makes me feel so special today and every other day. I do want to share this really cool gift with you all. Hey, Lolita’s Birthday is coming up, and like so many other people in the […]

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February 9th, 2009 · 8 Comments

She emailed me two months before the party.  “I know your dance card fills up so I am asking you now for a playdate.”  I told her yes. I ran into her a couple of weeks before the party.  “Don’t forget that we have a playdate.”  I assured that I certainly did remember and that […]

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V-Day is coming!

February 5th, 2009 · No Comments

I am not a big fan of Valentine’s Day. Too much pressure. Too commercial. Only suckers buy flowers on Valentine’s Day; it’s the most expensive day of the year for flowers. I told Don Quixote that we should go buy some dark chocolate on February 15th. It’s still just as good and on sale! But […]

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Surprising Chris

December 31st, 2008 · No Comments

Son Chris and Daddy Derrick at Lester’s Diner One of the reasons I was very excited about going to Ft Lauderdale was because I would get to see Son Chris again and be able to spend time with him. He was excited, too. A few months ago Daddy Derrick decided to take care of the […]

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November 28th, 2008 · No Comments

I am grateful that I have some really nice people in my life. Jake again graciously invited me to spend Thanksgiving with him and his crew. The food was delicious and plentiful. All the people were really friendly. I’m very lucky. I made Jake pose with his trophy.

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