Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Vendetta and Claire Adams on wiredpussy.com I sat with a group of people and mentioned that I was single. “Awwwwww….,” said a pal of mine. It was said in a way to imply that being single was to be pitied. Like it was a bad thing. Like, who would want to be single? Like, don’t […]

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It’s October and that means that it’s the two year anniversary of hooking up with my fuckbuddy, Don Quixote. It’s not the kind of occasion that we’ll celebrate. It’s not that kind of relationship. But it is a milestone for me to pause and review the relationship. In a nutshell, I am having a great […]

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Folsom Fringe takes place in San Jose, which is also where Lady Hilary and The Marine live. They invited us to their lovely home and they are gracious hosts. And, oh my, Lady Hilary is the latest addition on my 100 Divas list.

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We celebrated Glenda’s birthday with a weekend in West Virginia at the Pond House. Lime cake and chocolate/peanut butter cake No internet, no cell phones. Just a lot of relaxing. We hot tubbed, played Pirate Monolpoly, and rescued damsels that had been left tied up in the woods (first we molested them). Of course there […]

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How can you tell when somebody really really likes you? There are many ways. But this Raggedy Ann doll is one sure thing. It was custom made especially for me. See my name is embroidered on her apron? And the apron fabric is dotted swiss. Her hair is real wool. All the materials are top-notch. […]

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A special evening with friends, good food, a stunning garden and lots of nakedness. Thanks, guys!

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Devi Emerson on fuckingmachines.com Don Quixote and I are both invited to the same party on Saturday night. Earlier in the week, he suggested that we have a play date at the party. On Friday he phoned. I took the opportunity to ask what he wanted me to bring. “I don’t know. What did you […]

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An important member of the sex-positive community urgently needs our help. Jefferson—blogger, educator, and friend to so many of us—is at this moment fighting a court battle with his ex-wife, who is seeking full custody of their three children. Jefferson’s love for his children has been well-documented on his blog One Life, Take Two for […]

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One of the concepts I teach in some of my classes is that people are too quick to slap a label on a relationship. I think many people are goal-oriented and eager to define what role a person should play in their lives. Often they decide that someone they recently hit it off with would […]

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On Thursday night a group of us celebrated Thor’s birthday. We went to Chelsea Cinemas to see The Ritz, which was very funny. Thor brought caramel popcorn and candy to share. Ray won a raffle prize. Afterwards we went to Moonstruck. Thor likes the food and the service there plus we could get a big […]

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