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Priming The Pump

August 8th, 2008 · 1 Comment

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Don Quixote and I are both invited to the same party on Saturday night. Earlier in the week, he suggested that we have a play date at the party. On Friday he phoned.

I took the opportunity to ask what he wanted me to bring.
“I don’t know. What did you want to do?”

Ah, this is the bane of two switches hooking up. That back and forth of who is going to do what to whom. I nipped it in the bud. “You are going to top me!” I backed that up with, “You’re going to be bottoming on Sunday!”

He was in agreement with all that. So, I asked again, “What should I bring?”
“Whatever you want to play with.”
“Well, I am schlepping stuff for Sunday’s scene. I don’t want to bring too much more.”
“OK, what would you like to do?”
“Bondage, spanking, I could be your puppy or your captive or…”
He thought for a second, “I’m thinking you could be property.”
“Ooooh! I could bring a collar. I do have a few of those.”

My mind raced with the anticipation of being his property at the party. “Oh, I am so excited. I am going to jerk off as soon as I hang up.”
“I’m not.”
“Why not?”
“I’m saving it until Saturday.”
“Ha ha! Guys have to do that! Not girls. The more we come, the more we wanna come. I’m just priming the pump. Gotta go. Bye!”

After the phone call, I jerked off and thought about how I should make him save it until Sunday.

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