Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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A date with Lumpo

April 24th, 2008 · No Comments

Photo by Lumpo Poupon Toot agreed to another date with Lumpo. At first she did not want to see him. He was so pathetic last time. But Lumpo promised her that he had changed a lot since then. Poupon decided to give him a second chance. Yes, Lumpo did change. Lumpo wore a new tie. […]

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Tags: Relationships · Scene Report

A subtle shift

April 14th, 2008 · No Comments

It’s Sunday morning. I’m propped up with pillows in Don Quixote’s bed. A cane is lying next to me. I have extracted it from the case he keeps next to the bed. DQ comes back into the room. Naked, bearing two mugs of coffee, he eyes the cane. “What’s with the cane?” “I am going […]

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Nazi Fantasies

April 11th, 2008 · 2 Comments

I went to see Stalags on Wednesday night at the Film Forum. It is a documentary that explores the phenomenon of the fantasy porn books based on the Holocaust. These were hugely popular in Israel in the early 1960’s, the time of the Eichmann trial . It also tells about how some of that fantasy […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships · Reviews & Recommendations

References and Recommendations

April 10th, 2008 · 2 Comments

96th Street Traverse, NYC I feel that I need to expand on what I wrote in this post. Ignorantia non excusat: If someone uses my name as a reference, I advise you to ask me about them. Some people bank on you not asking me about them. People drop names as a reference and think […]

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Morgan Lewis, HMQ

March 19th, 2008 · No Comments

Yesterday was HMQ’s birthday. She celebrated with an open house entertaining all sorts of visitors. I dropped in to hang out for a while and have a slice of yummy birthday cake. There were lots of people from TES and the Imperial Court. She allowed me to take this picture of her, but made me […]

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I Got Your Number

September 26th, 2007 · 5 Comments

On Saturday night, I traveled down to Trenton, NJ for the Knot For Everyone (KFE) get-together. I was accompanied by 705-468-560. He used to have a name but now he’s just got a number. He’s a slave who is owned by Julia and she sometimes loans him out to me. I call him 705 for […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Relationships · Scene Report

Thunder recap

July 25th, 2007 · 2 Comments

Great weekend. The best part was being able to spend quality time with Boymeat. In many ways, it was a weekend about us. While we normally do spend a lot of time together, this was different. In some ways it harkened back to old times. I have a new body mod! A swirly, curly cutting […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews · Relationships

The Green-Eyed Monster

July 16th, 2007 · No Comments

For the past few weeks, I’ve been working on my presentation for Thunder. It’s “The Greedy Pig Battles The Green-Eyed Monster” which is about jealousy in poly relationships. I had a lot of really good stuff, but holy shit! I have dug up some stuff while researching and now I am putting some stuff together […]

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New Classes

July 4th, 2007 · No Comments

So this month I will debut two new classes: M/s: Getting Started Can the fantasy turn into reality? And just what is realistic? Are limits appropriate? Is a contract beneficial? What is abusive? What’s all this about protocol? How can M/s work with the rest of your life? We’ll start with these questions and then […]

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous · Relationships

I vant to be alone

June 30th, 2007 · No Comments

Today I crashed. I was supposed to go to a party today and just did not go. I feel bad about blowing it off. It was a going away party for a friend. But I just could not motivate. I couldn’t move. Sometimes I need to hole up and be alone and not do anything. […]

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Tags: Relationships