Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Entries Tagged as 'Relationships'

Ka-Boom!

February 22nd, 2007 · No Comments

Sometimes you know something is wrong. Deep down inside you know. But you are told not to worry. That it’s not you. But it continues to gnaw at you from inside. But you are told not to worry. That you should just be patient and that it will pass. And you are patient. And you […]

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My birthday

February 21st, 2007 · 1 Comment

Tuesday was my birthday and I spent it perfectly. At home alone, just puttering around. And screening my calls. The fact that I was alone on my birthday worried a few people at first, like it was a bad thing. It’s not. It was how I wanted to spend it. There’s plenty of raucous partying […]

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Madeline

January 30th, 2007 · No Comments

So, Madeline is coming to town and I have a date with her and Jefferson. I am breaking one of my own rules. I never make a play/sex date with someone I have never met. It’s because I do not want to commit myself to an intimate situation and then meet face to face and […]

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Craig’s List

January 28th, 2007 · No Comments

From the best of Craig’s list. This is a great post. Funny. And I like the way he defines things. You know how I am into defining things so that everybody knows their places and what’s expected of them… (via Viviane)

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Talking

January 24th, 2007 · No Comments

We walked down the street. We hadn’t seen each other for a week and we had lots to talk about. And we talked a lot. Rapidly skipping from topic to topic, catching up. He unwrapped something as we walked. “Here, have some chocolate.” I bit into the dark hard chocolate. He held the rest out […]

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OK

January 23rd, 2007 · 1 Comment

My friend, Nayland, put out this challenge: Write an erotic story in fifty words. Here’s mine… Waiting. The conversation stalled. I want more. Waiting. The ball is in your court. Lobbed over nice and easy. Waiting. I am tempted to say something. Waiting. I am good at waiting. Waiting. I am making other plans. Maybe […]

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The meeting

January 20th, 2007 · No Comments

Back in the days of the Paris Peace Accords, before they could even sit down to talk, the North Vietnamese and the South Vietnamese argued for weeks about the shape of the table. I remember how everybody laughed and thought this was the most ridiculous thing they ever heard of. Well, now, I finally understand. […]

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Threesome with the Squirrel

January 11th, 2007 · No Comments

So, Squirrel shows up early. We sat and talked about all sorts of stuff. It was comfortable. But I really wanted to take Squirrel’s cock out and get my mouth around it right away. I don’t know if there is any etiquette out there for threesomes, but I figured it would be rude to start […]

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Negotiation for a Threesome

January 11th, 2007 · No Comments

I sent Don Quixote an email, “Are you interested in a threesome with him?” I included a link. It was someone he knew and he noted that he had never heard the Squirrel talk about girls. “DQ, gay men who have sex with girls never talk about it, because all the other guys would say […]

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Summer Nights

January 10th, 2007 · No Comments

You know how you go away on a vacation and meet someone and you hit it off and share special times with them? And then when you try to reconnect in the city, the magic is gone? That’s what I thought it would be like with me and Jefferson. Just a summer fling. When I […]

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