Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

The porn world has “gay for pay” actors. Now are we seeing “gay for play” ball-players? The Exxxotica New York convention moves from Secaucus to Edison, NJ in the same space that hosted TES Fest 2006 and Floating World. TES Election results: Parliamentarian: Nayland Arbiter: Lady Velvet Board 2 year terms: Thrash, Goddess Coko, Wes, [...]

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On Friday night I am teaching for TES-TNG. I have a lot of fun things to do. It’s Amazing What You Can Find Don’t have to have a lot of money to stock your toy bag? Mix a little imagination with ordinary, everyday items and you can have some fabulous SM toys. This workshop will [...]

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Every year people ask me who I am voting for in the TES elections. Last night I attended the Meet The Candidates meeting and finalized my choices. Here they are for this year: Board: I am only voting for four people this year. (5 slots are open; 4 two year terms and one 1 year [...]

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Daniel and Bobbi Starr on captivemale.com The TES Bondage Group meets this Wednesday July 23 and is pleased to present: “Anatomy of a Scene” with Don Edwards Whether your bondage serves as a means to an end or as an end in itself, we’ll explore the formal structures of effective scenes. From foreplay and warm-up [...]

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Boymeat had highlights put in his hair for IML. To which a het friend said, “How gay!” And to which a gay friend said, “How straight!” Proving once again, that… what does this prove? … oh, yeah, right, something about Boymeat’s bisexuality. Whatever! So, my point, aside from posting another gratuitous photo of Boymeat, is [...]

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Wednesday, May 28 TES Bondage SIG presents: “Little Ropes: Creative Ideas on Using Smaller Size Rope” with Jocasta What to do with thinner rope? 4mm hemp rope or 1/8″ solid braid nylon rope will be used in a variety of ways. Hair ties, arm gauntlets, hand and foot bondage, cbt, and decorative touches on breast [...]

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I am so excited about the classes for this year’s TES Fest. Boymeat programmed them; Sue and I helped! Here they are (some of the titles will change but you can get the idea). Bondage Track 1. Defining Moments – GrayDancer 2. Military Style Bondage – GrayDancer 3. Fetish Performance Techniques – GrayDancer 4. Laughter [...]

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Yin photo be Michele Serchuk Yin came to Lesbian Sex Mafia last night to teach us rope bondage. The class was packed. There must have been like 75 people there. It was an overwhelming crowd for hands-on. Many more than anybody expected, but Yin taught graciously and I think everybody came away with a new [...]

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photo by Lumpo Do you want a spanking? I am teaching spanking at TES on Saturay at 7pm and I am looking for at least one demo bottom. Preferably female. Have you ever come from a spanking? Or even get close to it? Email me at lolitasir (at) gmail (dot) com Ducky Doolittle is a [...]

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I stole this photo from Ruff. Join us this Wednesday April 23 as the TES Bondage Group presents”Mummification Bondage” with Master Tip. Learn about Saran Wrap, Vetrap, and other mummification bondages, with variations that include duct tape, PVC tape, and colored wraps. Master Tip is a member of Iron Guard and GMSMA and is well [...]

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