Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

This week I will be teaching two classes in NYC Tuesday March 29 Single Tails – The Epitome of SM This sexy activity can range from delicate to cruel. Lolita will speak about using a whip for play, different types of whips, the physics of whip motion, buying a whip and the cleaning and caring […]

[Read more →]

Tonight (Tuesday) is the annual TES Holiday Potluck Social.  I’ll be Lolita Claus. Nayland and Pete will be my elves.  If you bring a gift (maximum price $15.00), we will make sure you get one in return. There will be plenty of good food and good friends to help make this celebration special. Remember, if […]

[Read more →]

This year is a pretty tough year choosing which candidates are the best for TES.   I have decided to vote for Jason, Lady Sabrina, Lou, Mary Ann, Sir Guy and Valentine. If you are a member, please make your best efforts to attend the membership meeting on September 8th.  Every year there are motions made […]

[Read more →]

Wednesday May 27 TES Bondage SIG presents “Hojojutsu-The Art of Tying the Non-Compliant” with tomo Hojojutsu – Japanese martial art of securing a prisoner with rope. Ties attack air, energy, blood pathways – struggle means pain. We’ll cover safety, history of Hojojutsu and several ties. This is a hands on class. Bring rope (20’ twisted […]

[Read more →]

Well, it’s a big week for me on the internets.  First The New Gay interview, then Judy McGuire’s column on the Seattle Weekly and now I got Fleshbotted for my “Thank you, Jay Wiseman” post. The theme forthis particular Fleshbot Sex Blog Round-up was The World’s Sexiest Couples.  I am very honored to be chosen […]

[Read more →]

I was happy to see the Queer SIG back at TES, this time at the able hands of Nayland and Liz. The first meeting was devoted to the topic of the meaning of the word Queer and various other labels. It started with a panel and ended with a lively discussion in circle. The group […]

[Read more →]

TES Bondage SIG presents “Tie Me to the Ends of Love” with Mac Koehler Wednesday November 19 in NYC Join Mac Koehler for a riff on Leonard Cohen of which the poet himself would approve. The ends of love have known many means: chocolate, diamonds, war…. bondage? Well, maybe not so much. Until now. From […]

[Read more →]

Wolf Hudson and Christian Owen boundgods.com TES Bondage Group presents “A Bondage Experience” Join our practical and practiced rope tops as we explore hog-ties, binding to furniture and point free immobilization. This is a hands-on opportunity for all tops and bottoms to work with Dov, Shibari Warrior and Lolita in a informal setting. Wear comfortable […]

[Read more →]

I am teaching Single Tails at the TES Dominant Women/submissive men’s Group on Wednesday night (Lady M had to cancel and I am filling in).  I am looking for a male demo bottom.  Please reply here if you are interested.  Comments screened.

[Read more →]

The porn world has “gay for pay” actors. Now are we seeing “gay for play” ball-players? The Exxxotica New York convention moves from Secaucus to Edison, NJ in the same space that hosted TES Fest 2006 and Floating World. TES Election results: Parliamentarian: Nayland Arbiter: Lady Velvet Board 2 year terms: Thrash, Goddess Coko, Wes, […]

[Read more →]