Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Susan Wright added to 100 Divas list

November 25th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Boymeat, Kelly, Susan and Kathryn at Folsom Street Fair 2009 I was honored to spank Susan Wright at Kinky Kollege.  She is one of the most spankable people on the planet!  Thank you to Kelly for allowing us to do this. In addition to being the founder and spokesperson for NCSF, Susan is a published […]

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Tags: friends · Spanking

Mollena’s side of the story

July 27th, 2009 · No Comments

Wow!  Mollena Williams wrote a glowing post about her scene with me at Shibaricon.  She starts off with saying some really flattering things about me and then it reads like porn!  I love it! My version is here. Thanks, Mo!

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Scene Report · Spanking

Mollena Williams added to 100 Divas

June 20th, 2009 · 14 Comments

The 100 Divas list is a perfect cruising tool.  At Sex 2.0 I told Mollena that she was eligible for the list.  She seemed pretty skeptical about the whole thing until Barbara Carellas, who was sitting with us, began to squee about the spanking I gave her.  It’s good to have references.  Mo emailed me […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Scene Report · Spanking

The New Gay Interview with Me!

May 13th, 2009 · No Comments

Chad of The New Gay interviewed me and it’s a fabulous interview.  I sound really smart!  Woo hoo!

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Tags: Art & Culture

Road Trip to DC

May 7th, 2009 · 1 Comment

I am off this weekend to Sex 2.0 which is an unconference type event focusing on the intersection of social media, feminism, and sexuality.  It’s a different kind of event for me.  I am really looking forward to learning, seeing friends and meeting new people. I’ll be spending an extra day in DC.  On Sunday […]

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Tags: travel

Spankings at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire

February 24th, 2009 · No Comments

Graydancer (There was no photography allowed at the event so this was pulled from my archives.) While I was at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, I was interviewed by Graydancer for his Ropecast podcast.  It was certainly not all talk, no action.  I spanked him while we were taping!  He’s been added to the 100 Divas […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Spanking

I’m a spanking expert!

October 29th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Look! My name is on the December cover of Variations Magazine. And there’s more of me inside! Six pages! It’s the 30th Anniversary issue. On newsstands now!

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Tags: BDSM · Find Lolita · Spanking

Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2008

September 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Number one highlight: Thor sent us cookies! The pink ones are Pretty Pretty Princess Cookies. Thanks, Thor! I’m back from Dark Odyssey. Once again, it was an amazing event where I could connect with people, expand my boundaries and grow, and play a lot and have fun. Oink cabin rocked! We did have to paddle […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

Don’t Slam The Door

September 8th, 2008 · 23 Comments

I’m preparing for Dark Odyssey Summer Camp. Whoo hoo! Camp is sold out. Oink Cabin will be very crowded this year with a great bunch of people. We are not a wild party cabin, nor are we a quiet cabin, but my cabinmates are conscientious of the other people in the cabin. Oink only has […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Spanking

We have a winner!

September 5th, 2008 · No Comments

The winner of my spanking scenario contest is kinkoverdrive! Here is her winning entry: Lately, I’m digging “surprise spankings.” Previously I preferred the more planned out scenes, but of late I’ve experienced some out of the blue spankings–my boyfriend and I in the middle of a conversation tossing me down, over his knee, pulling down […]

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Tags: Books · Spanking