Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Chastity and the ensuing Punishment

May 24th, 2010 · 1 Comment

Don Quixote acquired a new chastity device. The last one had not worked so well. The new one was The Boy Trainer Silicone Cock Cage from Mr. S. It had some nice reviews, I liked the way it looked and I was looking forward to trying it out. We decided to experiment one evening at […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report · Toy Reviews

Teaching 2 Classes This Week in NYC

May 19th, 2010 · No Comments

Thursday May 20th Rope Bondage for Beginners 7 – 9pm at Purple Passion Learn some basics that will be the building blocks for creating ties that will give you versatility in the bedroom or the dungeon. Come with a partner or we will try to match singles up. Bring two lengths of 30 foot rope. […]

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Tags: BDSM · NYC

Jack was a picky eater

December 22nd, 2009 · 3 Comments

Jack was a picky eater.  He didn’t eat a lot of veggies or fruits. He was a meat and potatoes kind of guy. One weekend, I brought my girlfriend, O, with me to visit Jack. O is a pretty good cook.  I told her about Jack’s dietary preferences and she made us a fine meal […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships

Like Rube Goldberg

January 27th, 2009 · 22 Comments

Don Quixote and I went to a play party. I had a caning date with an extremely cute puppy boy. DQ asked, “Do you mind if I come along and watch your scene?” “Sure! It’s not like anything at this party is private.” We found the puppy boy and then the three of us went […]

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Canes and Butt Plugs

November 7th, 2008 · No Comments

My favorite combination is caning and butt plugs. These plugs from Madame S are acrylic so that you can see inside your partner’s butt and watch the muscles contract and relax. Ass seen on whippedass.com

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The big dodge

October 30th, 2008 · 25 Comments

It was Thursday night at Dark Odyssey and we were hanging out on the porch of Oink. We had just finished the second and final part of a ritual scene where a boy had earned a pair of leather gloves. It was a perfect night. Momma Bear had gone into the cabin and had just […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews · Spanking

Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2008

September 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Number one highlight: Thor sent us cookies! The pink ones are Pretty Pretty Princess Cookies. Thanks, Thor! I’m back from Dark Odyssey. Once again, it was an amazing event where I could connect with people, expand my boundaries and grow, and play a lot and have fun. Oink cabin rocked! We did have to paddle […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

My IML 2008 Trip – Part 14 – Final

August 13th, 2008 · 1 Comment

After the contest I took a boy up to my room and poked him with needles. It got him all high and goofy. He had a pair of hinged handcuffs with him but forgot the key at home. Of course I had a key so I locked him in those and took him downstairs through […]

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What I did on Saturday

August 7th, 2008 · No Comments

Met with friends for Dim Sum. It was yum yum. We walked to the Seaport. I decided against buying a fake designer bag. The weather cleared up and we rode the free ferry. Went to IKEA and bought a pack of tealights. Such a deal! Later I met up with other friends and we went […]

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Tags: NYC

Wednesday at Paddles

August 5th, 2008 · No Comments

Nika Noire and Hollie Stevens on chantasbitches.com Paddles, the BDSM club in NYC, has been opening on Wednesday for the past few months. For various reasons, I hadn’t been on a Wednesday. However, last Wednesday, I was given an opportunity to play with two really cool women. I met up with them there. There were […]

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Tags: BDSM · NYC · Reviews & Recommendations