Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don’t just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Jack was a picky eater

December 22nd, 2009 · 3 Comments

Jack was a picky eater.  He didn’t eat a lot of veggies or fruits. He was a meat and potatoes kind of guy.
One weekend, I brought my girlfriend, O, with me to visit Jack. O is a pretty good cook.  I told her about Jack’s dietary preferences and she made us a [...]

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Like Rube Goldberg

January 27th, 2009 · 22 Comments

Don Quixote and I went to a play party. I had a caning date with an extremely cute puppy boy.
DQ asked, “Do you mind if I come along and watch your scene?”
“Sure! It’s not like anything at this party is private.”
We found the puppy boy and then the three of us went [...]

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Canes and Butt Plugs

November 7th, 2008 · No Comments

My favorite combination is caning and butt plugs. These plugs from Madame S are acrylic so that you can see inside your partner’s butt and watch the muscles contract and relax.

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Tags: Toy Reviews

The big dodge

October 30th, 2008 · 25 Comments

It was Thursday night at Dark Odyssey and we were hanging out on the porch of Oink. We had just finished the second and final part of a ritual scene where a boy had earned a pair of leather gloves. It was a perfect night. Momma Bear had gone into the cabin [...]

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Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2008

September 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Number one highlight: Thor sent us cookies!
The pink ones are Pretty Pretty Princess Cookies.
Thanks, Thor!

I’m back from Dark Odyssey. Once again, it was an amazing event where I could connect with people, expand my boundaries and grow, and play a lot and have fun.
Oink cabin rocked! We did have [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

My IML 2008 Trip – Part 14 – Final

August 13th, 2008 · 1 Comment

After the contest I took a boy up to my room and poked him with needles. It got him all high and goofy. He had a pair of hinged handcuffs with him but forgot the key at home. Of course I had a key so I locked him in those and [...]

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What I did on Saturday

August 7th, 2008 · No Comments

Met with friends for Dim Sum. It was yum yum. We walked to the Seaport.

I decided against buying a fake designer bag.

The weather cleared up and we rode the free ferry.

Went to IKEA and bought a pack of tealights. Such a deal!

Later I met up with other friends [...]

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Tags: NYC

Wednesday at Paddles

August 5th, 2008 · No Comments

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Paddles, the BDSM club in NYC, has been opening on Wednesday for the past few months. For various reasons, I hadn’t been on a Wednesday. However, last Wednesday, I was given an opportunity to play with two really cool women. I met up with them there. [...]

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Tags: BDSM · NYC · Reviews & Recommendations

TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!

July 9th, 2008 · 29 Comments

I am so proud of my home group for hosting an amazing TES Fest. I loved the new location. Having everything under one roof removed a huge stress factor for me. Booking the entire hotel allowed us to play outside and in the pool (with its “watersports area” – yes, I did). [...]

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Torture Consultant

April 16th, 2008 · 1 Comment

We were in Williamsburg to see The Dreamscape Project.
It’s Midnight on Friday. Boymeat and I are looking for a parking spot in Williamsburg. My cell phone rings.
“Who’s calling me at this hour?”
I check and it’s Ruby. I answer. We say our hellos and howareyous and then Ruby gets to the point.
“Well, [...]

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