Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!

July 9th, 2008 · 29 Comments

I am so proud of my home group for hosting an amazing TES Fest. I loved the new location. Having everything under one roof removed a huge stress factor for me. Booking the entire hotel allowed us to play outside and in the pool (with its “watersports area” – yes, I did). The hotel staff […]

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Torture Consultant

April 16th, 2008 · 1 Comment

We were in Williamsburg to see The Dreamscape Project. It’s Midnight on Friday. Boymeat and I are looking for a parking spot in Williamsburg. My cell phone rings. “Who’s calling me at this hour?” I check and it’s Ruby. I answer. We say our hellos and howareyous and then Ruby gets to the point. “Well, […]

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A subtle shift

April 14th, 2008 · No Comments

It’s Sunday morning. I’m propped up with pillows in Don Quixote’s bed. A cane is lying next to me. I have extracted it from the case he keeps next to the bed. DQ comes back into the room. Naked, bearing two mugs of coffee, he eyes the cane. “What’s with the cane?” “I am going […]

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Don’t worry, you’ll like it

December 11th, 2007 · 1 Comment

Nikki Nievez and Penny Play on whippedass.com Barbara wanted a caning lesson. Such knowledge would give her skills that would greatly enhance her new relationship. Of course I was willing to teach her. We would just need a bottom. “Molly!” I called.She came in from the other room to see what was up.“Molly, have you […]

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Mattress Navigation

November 28th, 2007 · No Comments

I was fresh out of the shower and came back into the bedroom just in time to see a big queen size mattress being navigated into the room. And it needed quite a bit of navigation. There are five steep steps into the bedroom and the mattress had to turn a tight corner. A really […]

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I had a crazy busy weekend

November 20th, 2007 · No Comments

On Friday night I went to the LSM meeting with Glenda Rider teaching “The Joys of Duct Tape.” Glenda is a very fun teacher. She demoed on all sorts of people from the audience. I volunteered and was given an opportunity to select a color of tape. I chose neon green and was put into […]

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Sundry on a Monday

September 24th, 2007 · No Comments

Gloria Brame found this great video by Michael Moore about caning in England. And to file away in the Ask For What You Want And You Still May Not Get It file… The hot sexy Amanda Wildfyre thinks the 100 Divas Project is a cute idea, but she has declined to be a part of […]

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Floating World Recap

August 28th, 2007 · No Comments

I’m back and I had fun. My room was superb. I never got “lucky,” but I did get to relax in my jacuzzi bath and I hosted a pizza dinner for seven in my room on Saturday night. I had a few really nice scenes. I suspended Rita for her first time. She has the […]

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Going to Thunder!

July 19th, 2007 · No Comments

Boymeat and I leave early Friday morning for Thunder. We get back Monday night. No email. No blogging.

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You can read it in the Sunday paper

June 28th, 2007 · No Comments

This year’s Flamingo Times rocked. It was funny. People talked about it. They rushed to see it every morning because they wanted their morning laugh. The publisher was very happy with the results. I was pleased because I had recommended the new editor-in-chief for the job. I had a “special” subscription to the paper. Special, […]

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