Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Spankings at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire

February 24th, 2009 · No Comments

Graydancer (There was no photography allowed at the event so this was pulled from my archives.) While I was at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, I was interviewed by Graydancer for his Ropecast podcast.  It was certainly not all talk, no action.  I spanked him while we were taping!  He’s been added to the 100 Divas […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Spanking

Permission

February 9th, 2009 · 8 Comments

She emailed me two months before the party.  “I know your dance card fills up so I am asking you now for a playdate.”  I told her yes. I ran into her a couple of weeks before the party.  “Don’t forget that we have a playdate.”  I assured that I certainly did remember and that […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships · Scene Report

KinkForAll New York City

February 5th, 2009 · No Comments

KinkForAll is an ad-hoc unconference born from the desire for people of the kink, queer, sex-positive and related communities to share and learn in an open and interactive environment. It is an intense, fast-paced event with discussions, presentations, and interaction from all participants. Anyone with something to contribute or with the desire to learn is […]

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Tags: BDSM · NYC

Southwest Leather Conference

January 29th, 2009 · No Comments

I was in Phoenix last weekend for Southwest Leather Conference.  It is a very different event.  The workshops, and the event itself, has a major focus on Master/slave relationships and Spirituality.  I taught two classes and I went to three great classes: Electronic Stapling with Master Z of Dallas, Blood Splatter Play with WhipMaster Bob […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · travel

Like Rube Goldberg

January 27th, 2009 · 22 Comments

Don Quixote and I went to a play party. I had a caning date with an extremely cute puppy boy. DQ asked, “Do you mind if I come along and watch your scene?” “Sure! It’s not like anything at this party is private.” We found the puppy boy and then the three of us went […]

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Tags: BDSM · Spanking

A rant about my evening at the TES Queer SIG

January 18th, 2009 · 2 Comments

I was happy to see the Queer SIG back at TES, this time at the able hands of Nayland and Liz. The first meeting was devoted to the topic of the meaning of the word Queer and various other labels. It started with a panel and ended with a lively discussion in circle. The group […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Really Miscellaneous

You don’t know how lucky you are, boy

December 24th, 2008 · No Comments

My plane landed at 9:40pm on Saturday night and I was at the New York Boys of Leather Bar Night at the Stonewall Inn before midnight. I quickly reassimiliated myself back into NYC and got to hang out with my NYC friends. Vacation is nice but it’s good to be back! Boymeat and Jake

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Tags: Event Reviews · NYC

Donald D.U.C.K.

December 23rd, 2008 · 15 Comments

That photo up there is my Donald D.U.C.K. paddle. At least it used to be mine.  I bet you are wondering why it is nailed to somebody’s basement dungeon wall. About six or seven years ago, I was invited to a D.U.C. party.  D.U.C. is an acronym for Dyke Uniform Club. They are extremely emphatic […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report

Graphic Sexual Horror

December 12th, 2008 · 2 Comments

My friends, Barbara Bell and Anna Lorentzon, have a new feature length documentary called Graphic Sexual Horror. It is all about Brent Scott (aka PD) and Insex.com. This film will make its World Premier at Slamdance, held in Park City, Utah, January 15-23 at the same time as Sundance. The website is still under construction, […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Reviews & Recommendations

A boy and his sleepsack

December 12th, 2008 · 20 Comments

He brought his sleepsack to the party. He was hoping to find someone to put him into it. He had a definite good shot at that because there were some other bondage aficionados there. And he wasn’t even the only one there with a custom Mr. S sleepsack! Well, being one of those bondage freaks […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Scene Report