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Wicked Grounds – the tables

December 7th, 2009 · No Comments

I recently wrote about Wicked Grounds, the San Francisco kinky coffee shop. I loved the tables at the shop.  Each one was an art project made with love by various volunteers.  Some of rthem were obstructed when I visited because they had just opened and were gearing up for Folsom weekend. Ryan’s table Mollena’s table

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Tags: BDSM · Reviews & Recommendations · travel

Wicked Grounds

December 1st, 2009 · 2 Comments

On my California trip, I made sure to stop in at Wicked Grounds in San Francisco. They are located in the heart of the Soma district on 8th Street right off Folsom. It’s a wonderful cafe that serves gourmet coffee, tea and soda along with delicious artisanal pastries and sandwiches. It’s also BDSM themed with […]

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Tags: BDSM · Reviews & Recommendations · travel

Folsom Fringe 2009

November 27th, 2009 · No Comments

Janice, Kathryn, Boymeat and Lochai In September, I made another California trip.  I taught at Folsom Fringe in San Jose.  A good event in a lovely boutique hotel with the dungeon parties held at the fantastic Edges dungeon. I taught classes and had a great scene with Mollena. Stay tuned for more from that trip.

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Tags: Event Reviews

Susan Wright added to 100 Divas list

November 25th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Boymeat, Kelly, Susan and Kathryn at Folsom Street Fair 2009 I was honored to spank Susan Wright at Kinky Kollege.  She is one of the most spankable people on the planet!  Thank you to Kelly for allowing us to do this. In addition to being the founder and spokesperson for NCSF, Susan is a published […]

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Tags: friends · Spanking

She brought her own toys

November 24th, 2009 · 5 Comments

I had a hot play date on Friday night. When we spoke beforehand to make plans, I had asked her what she liked to do. “Spanking, caning, paddles, floggers.”  She then added, “I have my own toys.” I love that!  Yes, I love those activities, but I really love a playmate who brings her own […]

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Protocols

November 10th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Rusty asked, “What do you think about those Butchmann’s Protocols?” “I love and respect Master Steve, but I prefer my own protocols.” “What are your protocols?” “I’ll teach you as we go along.  It’s different for everybody.” Later that day, Rusty spoke to me with her mouth full. “Don’t speak with your mouth full,” I […]

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I won the big prize!

November 7th, 2009 · 2 Comments

I went to the NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar release party tonight.  Monk sold me raffle tickets and I won the Njoy Eleven.  It’s stainless steel and huge!  It weighs 2.75 pounds! You can get one of your own at Stockroom or Babeland!

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Tags: Event Reviews

Black Rose 2009

November 6th, 2009 · No Comments

I taught and played at Black Rose last weekend, but really the best part is being able to spend quality time with my peeps! Nayland, Thor and mudcub Sharrin and pat Boymeat and Kathryn Our family dinner at the fabulous Art and Soul restaurant.

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Tags: Event Reviews · Relationships

Boymeat and Tim hit the mainstream media

September 29th, 2009 · 1 Comment

I’m back from California!  Lots to catch up on, but I wanted to post this photo of Boymeat whipping Tim at Folsom Street Fair.  This photo and more can be seen on SFGate.

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Tags: Event Reviews · friends · travel

Monotony Experiment Succeeds

August 27th, 2009 · No Comments

In many ways, it was a perfect weekend, or at the very least, a perfect way to tackle the complexities of attending Floating World and Jack’s funeral.  Don Quixote is a very good daddy and treats me like a Princess.  We are very comfortable, yet flexible, in those roles and are able to make them […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Relationships