Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

This year, South Plains Leatherfest asked five people to deliver mini-keynote speeches.  I was honored to join with Mark Frazier, Midori, Master Skip and Master Larry on the podium.  This is a pared down version of what I said.  I did quite a bit of ad-libbing and the speech was longer, but this is the general gist […]

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On Saturday night I went to Jack Restaurant, which is an “occasional” restaurant that sets up about one night per month at the Brooklyn Lyceum.  The chefs are Danielle Sucher and Dave Turner. She’s a lawyer and he’s a programmer and they do this on the side.  Every meal is different depending on what’s available […]

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Next weekend, I’ll be in San Francisco for The Citadel and IMsL One of these years, I’ll get to go to Night of a Thousand Gowns.

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My friend, Deb Malkin, opened up Re/Dress, a fabulous new store in Brooklyn.  It specializes in vintage and used plus-size clothes.  It’s got a lot of stock and the staff is very friendly and helpful. The prices are great.  I bought a bunch of new clothes including this coat. Deb is also involved with the […]

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I’m a hetreo man, mid-30s with a fetish and not able to find any partners. Just read “the Other Side of Desire”. One thing they say in the book again and again is that virtually everyone with a paraphillia is a male. I suppose that would explain my inability to find anyone. In your experience […]

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On March 13th, TheTrainingofO.com will be broadcasting a LIVE one-of-a-kind dinner party where members will join Peter Acworth, the Kink.com directors, Dominatrix Maitress Madeline and Guest of Honor Laura Antoniou (author of The MarketPlace Series) as they welcome the first official trainees that have petitioned The House to enter the Slave Class of Service on […]

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I have heard so many good things about the Suspension parties, but I’m either out of town or need to get up early the next day.  But now they are starting at 9pm.  I plan to go to the next one on March 29th.

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High end kinky retailer Kiki De Montparnasse sells these Smith & Wesson gold-plated handcuffs for $350. But, if you can forgo the chain and the complimentary fancy gift wrap, you can buy the same cuffs for $89.99 from Handcuff Warehouse.    They also offer personalized laser etching for an extra $3!

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Shameless personal whiney question: Do you ever miss me? I mean, really? Yeah, this is really whiney.  Of course I miss you.  But, really, what I am I supposed to do about it?  If you came and visited me, there’d be rope and spanking and bootblacking.  And we would hang out and cuddle. March is […]

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Mark Davis and Dia Zerva on sexandsubmission.com Thursday, March 12 Queens BDSM Munch Friday,  March 13 ClubFEM NYC Munch LSM: “Toy Bags Unzipped: A Show and Tell Workshop” w/ Goddess Roze DSF: “Hypnosis and BDSM. Using hypnosis in the Scene” by Lady Arielle Saturday, March 14 TES: Interrogations Workshop w/ Sir Guy & Goddess Roze […]

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