Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

How far in advance do your weekends get booked? Right now, I have a weekend event booked for February 2010.  But most of the time event weekends are booked four to eight months in advance.  See my appearances. Socially, I have a few weekends like Memorial Day and Labor Day weekend booked.  Otherwise, I have a lot of open […]

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KinkForAllNYC (KFANYC) was a real success.  Over 100 people showed up for some portion of the day.  It was an “unconference” and that means that those who showed up determined what would happen and made it happen.  The crowd was a mix of familiar faces and lots of people I had never seen before.  A […]

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I am liveblogging from kinkforallnyc. Check out the live feed at maybemaimed.com. I’ve been posting photos in the Flicker pool.

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If you can’t make it to KinkForAll tomorrow in NYC, you can follow some of the action online! 1) http://kinkforall.pbwiki.com/KinkForAllNewYorkCityLive – This is already a stream of tweets from Twitter Search and a thumbnail view of the most recent Flickr photos. It also has a chatroom. 2) http://maybemaimed.com – This is Maymay’s personal site which, […]

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Cunning Minx gave a great keynote address at the Poly Living Conference last weekend. Some of the best play at events happens on Sunday night in a room party with family. Midori’s next Rope Dojo will be in NYC on May 23-24. Registration opens on-line at Noon (Eastern time) on April 10th.  This will sell […]

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How fortunate that NYC had a big snowstorm on Monday so that Boymeat and I were stuck at DFW airport for an extra 10 hours! We were able to have extended schmoopy time with Kathryn. We had two lovely gourmet experiences: T.G.I.Fridays and Chili’s. We rode the Skylink 5 times and explored terminals C, D and […]

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My friend, Larry Iannotti, is writing an academic paper justifying the reasons for the recent Survey of Violence and Discrimination against Sexual Minorities and he is seeking stories: I’m interested in hearing from anyone who runs an SM-related business and has been blocked from doing business by credit-card companies, landlords, license or permit granting authorities, […]

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I have a question … how do feel about the term “sex positive” and what does it mean (if anything) to you? It’s a new-ish term that I only heard a few years ago.  I think I first heard it from Felice Shays.  I understand it to mean being open and accepting towards all kinds […]

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Read anything in your local (or national) paper that reported on sex in a surprisingly informed, non-hysterical way? The Sex-Positive Journalism Awards want to know about it. Last’s year’s winners were selected from over 100 entries submitted by both writers and readers, and they covered subjects from sex in nursing homes, prostitution, and sex in […]

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Okay, I’ll bite: Can you end up suffering from the Stockholm Syndrome when you have an intense monthly BDSM session with the same Pro Domme for years? Not about me, of course, but a friend. First, take a look at the definition of Stockholm Syndrome.  Stockholm Syndrome is a defense mechanism that allows a victim […]

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