Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Teaching 2 Classes This Week in NYC

May 19th, 2010 · No Comments

Thursday May 20th Rope Bondage for Beginners 7 – 9pm at Purple Passion Learn some basics that will be the building blocks for creating ties that will give you versatility in the bedroom or the dungeon. Come with a partner or we will try to match singles up. Bring two lengths of 30 foot rope. […]

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Tags: BDSM · NYC

I am teaching at the Novice Rope Share March 6th!

February 9th, 2010 · 2 Comments

Novice Rope Share Men, Women, Trans, Welcome! In this workshop we will go over the fundamentals of rope. We will teach basic ties, rope aesthetics, and rope safety. Participants must be over 18yr. Date/time: Saturday, March 6th at 1pm. Location: Greenwich St. (btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site) Specific building […]

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How to Pack for a Sex Party

February 2nd, 2010 · No Comments

I went to a Chemistry party with a friend. While I want to be prepared for anything that came our way, I did not want to schlep a lot of stuff with me. I decided to take my shiny red patent For Your Nymphomation Adult Toy Box.  It’s a nimble 12″ x 9″ and holds […]

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Tags: Reviews & Recommendations · Toy Reviews

Midori’s Rope Dojo comes to NYC!

January 8th, 2010 · No Comments

Rope Bondage Dojo® comes to NYC! April 10 – 11, 2010 Stage I Dojo:  Suitable for all, 18+ Location:  The LGBT Center Time:   Noon – 8pm both days Cost:   Single US$350, Pair US$600. Limited to 30 students Registration opens about 6 weeks prior to the Dojo date. Are you serious about improving your rope bondage […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage

Wednesday 5/27 – NYC – Hojojutsu w/ tomo

May 27th, 2009 · No Comments

Wednesday May 27 TES Bondage SIG presents “Hojojutsu-The Art of Tying the Non-Compliant” with tomo Hojojutsu – Japanese martial art of securing a prisoner with rope. Ties attack air, energy, blood pathways – struggle means pain. We’ll cover safety, history of Hojojutsu and several ties. This is a hands on class. Bring rope (20’ twisted […]

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Tags: Bondage

Shibaricon

May 27th, 2009 · 1 Comment

I attended my first Shibaricon weekend and I had a great time.  I traveled and shared a room with Viviane and, once again, she proved herself to be a great travel buddy. I went to a lot of classes and learned a lot of new ways to tie.  Almost all the classes had a lot […]

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Tags: Bondage · Event Reviews

Rope, Rope, Rope

May 20th, 2009 · No Comments

Memorial Day weekend is tough.  In the past I have been to Camp Crucible which is a really fun event, and to IML which is awesome, too, but in a very different way.  And, for the last five or six years, I have been hearing about how wonderful Shibaricon is.  All these events are on […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · travel

Thank you, Jay Wiseman

May 17th, 2009 · 19 Comments

“So, you want to get tied up?” “I was hoping for that,” Don Quixote told me. “I also have this toy.” He waved a black rubber baton. I got out his black hemp and tied his legs into crab ties. I then had him kneel on the bed and let him arrange the covers in a way […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Scene Report

Lolita’s Holiday Gift Giving Guide

December 11th, 2008 · No Comments

This is my incomplete and totally biased BDSM/Sex Toy Gift Giving Guide for the Holidays. There’s everything from Stocking Stuffers on up! Chrome Mini Clothespin $4.50 each This is a real top of the line clamp. For nipples, nether regions or anywhere. Shiny and heavy. Mini Bullet One Touch Vibrator $8.00 Keep one handy in […]

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Tags: Reviews & Recommendations

Rope w/ Mac Koehler – NYC Wed 11/19

November 18th, 2008 · No Comments

TES Bondage SIG presents “Tie Me to the Ends of Love” with Mac Koehler Wednesday November 19 in NYC Join Mac Koehler for a riff on Leonard Cohen of which the poet himself would approve. The ends of love have known many means: chocolate, diamonds, war…. bondage? Well, maybe not so much. Until now. From […]

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