Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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How to Pack for a Sex Party

February 2nd, 2010 · Comments Off

I went to a Chemistry party with a friend. While I want to be prepared for anything that came our way, I did not want to schlep a lot of stuff with me. I decided to take my shiny red patent For Your Nymphomation Adult Toy Box.  It’s a nimble 12″ x 9″ and holds [...]

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Tags: Reviews & Recommendations · Toy Reviews

Midori’s Rope Dojo comes to NYC!

January 8th, 2010 · Comments Off

Rope Bondage Dojo® comes to NYC! April 10 – 11, 2010 Stage I Dojo:  Suitable for all, 18+ Location:  The LGBT Center Time:   Noon – 8pm both days Cost:   Single US$350, Pair US$600. Limited to 30 students Registration opens about 6 weeks prior to the Dojo date. Are you serious about improving your rope bondage [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage

Wednesday 5/27 – NYC – Hojojutsu w/ tomo

May 27th, 2009 · Comments Off

Wednesday May 27 TES Bondage SIG presents “Hojojutsu-The Art of Tying the Non-Compliant” with tomo Hojojutsu – Japanese martial art of securing a prisoner with rope. Ties attack air, energy, blood pathways – struggle means pain. We’ll cover safety, history of Hojojutsu and several ties. This is a hands on class. Bring rope (20’ twisted [...]

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Tags: Bondage

Shibaricon

May 27th, 2009 · 1 Comment

I attended my first Shibaricon weekend and I had a great time.  I traveled and shared a room with Viviane and, once again, she proved herself to be a great travel buddy. I went to a lot of classes and learned a lot of new ways to tie.  Almost all the classes had a lot [...]

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Tags: Bondage · Event Reviews

Rope, Rope, Rope

May 20th, 2009 · Comments Off

Memorial Day weekend is tough.  In the past I have been to Camp Crucible which is a really fun event, and to IML which is awesome, too, but in a very different way.  And, for the last five or six years, I have been hearing about how wonderful Shibaricon is.  All these events are on [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · travel

Thank you, Jay Wiseman

May 17th, 2009 · 19 Comments

“So, you want to get tied up?” “I was hoping for that,” Don Quixote told me. “I also have this toy.” He waved a black rubber baton. I got out his black hemp and tied his legs into crab ties. I then had him kneel on the bed and let him arrange the covers in a way [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Scene Report

Lolita’s Holiday Gift Giving Guide

December 11th, 2008 · Comments Off

This is my incomplete and totally biased BDSM/Sex Toy Gift Giving Guide for the Holidays. There’s everything from Stocking Stuffers on up! Chrome Mini Clothespin $4.50 each This is a real top of the line clamp. For nipples, nether regions or anywhere. Shiny and heavy. Mini Bullet One Touch Vibrator $8.00 Keep one handy in [...]

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Tags: Reviews & Recommendations

Rope w/ Mac Koehler – NYC Wed 11/19

November 18th, 2008 · Comments Off

TES Bondage SIG presents “Tie Me to the Ends of Love” with Mac Koehler Wednesday November 19 in NYC Join Mac Koehler for a riff on Leonard Cohen of which the poet himself would approve. The ends of love have known many means: chocolate, diamonds, war…. bondage? Well, maybe not so much. Until now. From [...]

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Deadlines

November 10th, 2008 · Comments Off

Wash your hands! There’s a big increase of stomach virus right now in NYC. Midori’s next Rope Bondage Dojo Stage 1 will be in San Francisco, January 17-18. Advance ticket sales start on Friday, November 28th at Noon, Pacific time. It always sells out really quickly! I just found myself on WikiMedia Commons. New York [...]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

I get this

October 25th, 2008 · 4 Comments

Van Darkholme and Finn Damion on boundgods.com When I top, I love to step back and relax, maybe enjoy a beer, while I watch my bottom struggle with whatever bondage ordeal I have fixed for them.

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Tags: Bondage