Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Take back your mink

October 8th, 2008 · No Comments

I am happy to see the NYC prodoms fighting back. I hope that their PAC can change the laws. So romantic. I love their stories. Glenn Greenwald talks about the Max Headroom verdict and contrasts it to the Bush administrations definitions of torture. Ahren Wolf has a selection of Dark Odyssey Summer Camp ’08 photos […]

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Fucking and Flogging

September 29th, 2008 · 20 Comments

This is another Dark Odyssey story. I saw Stew at Midnight snack on Thursday night. He gave me a big hug and a kiss hello. He’s really cute. We had met at camp last year. “I would love to try a flogging. Would you flog me?” I looked at his big eager smile, and said,”Sure!” […]

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Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2008

September 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Number one highlight: Thor sent us cookies! The pink ones are Pretty Pretty Princess Cookies. Thanks, Thor! I’m back from Dark Odyssey. Once again, it was an amazing event where I could connect with people, expand my boundaries and grow, and play a lot and have fun. Oink cabin rocked! We did have to paddle […]

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Lipstick

September 10th, 2008 · 1 Comment

The porn world has “gay for pay” actors. Now are we seeing “gay for play” ball-players? The Exxxotica New York convention moves from Secaucus to Edison, NJ in the same space that hosted TES Fest 2006 and Floating World. TES Election results: Parliamentarian: Nayland Arbiter: Lady Velvet Board 2 year terms: Thrash, Goddess Coko, Wes, […]

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Don’t Slam The Door

September 8th, 2008 · 23 Comments

I’m preparing for Dark Odyssey Summer Camp. Whoo hoo! Camp is sold out. Oink Cabin will be very crowded this year with a great bunch of people. We are not a wild party cabin, nor are we a quiet cabin, but my cabinmates are conscientious of the other people in the cabin. Oink only has […]

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The last straw hat

August 18th, 2008 · 5 Comments

If you like rubber and fetish, Kink.com is now hosting the Marquis videos from Germany. The White Room series is now available. Very slick! Tinkerbelll, Cinderella and Snow White were arrested and handcuffed! Dark Odyssey Summer Camp just posted their finalized list of presenters and classes. Rates go up August 25. Modern marriage. Some people […]

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Yes, but I am busy

March 27th, 2008 · No Comments

Boymeat and me at January’s In The Flesh readingphoto by Viviane An assembled group of interested parties have formed an LLC company and have found a new location (finally!!) for a NEW LURE in NYC!! To expedite the opening, they are seeking folks who might be interested in owning a part of this historic rebirth […]

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My First Erotic Awakening Massage

December 10th, 2007 · No Comments

Molly came to town. We made a date with Barbara Carellas. The two of them wanted to give me an Erotic Awakening Massage. I think they were a little surprised at how easily I said yes. Duh! I like them and trust them and I knew that whatever it was, it would be good. There […]

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Going to the Windy City

November 9th, 2007 · 3 Comments

So, I am leaving for Chicago to visit with AJ and to reach Age Play at GD2.The class is free – even if you are not a member! You just have to RSVP. If I weren’t going out of town I would be going to the Modified Eros opening tonight. I am featured in Barbara […]

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Goofiness

November 7th, 2007 · 1 Comment

So, let’s just go back to a goofy moment that Sunday night at Dark Odyssey when Molly and I were topping Marcus. At some point during our little escapade, I spied a toilet plunger next to Becca’s bed and I picked it up, “Oh, wow, fun!” People were a bit confused, but I knew what […]

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