Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don’t just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Cookies = Love

October 9th, 2009 · 1 Comment

I was at the airport on a long layover and I was listening to a conversation between these two guys who had just started talking. Not eavesdropping – just, it was loud enough for everyone in earshot to hear.
The one guy offers the other guy some home-made cookies. “They’re really good.  A [...]

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Tags: Relationships · friends

Spankings at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire

February 24th, 2009 · No Comments

Graydancer
(There was no photography allowed at the event
so this was pulled from my archives.)

While I was at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, I was interviewed by Graydancer for his Ropecast podcast.  It was certainly not all talk, no action.  I spanked him while we were taping!  He’s been added to the 100 Divas [...]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Spanking

Princess Donna at Dark Odyssey

November 26th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Nina, Isis Love, Monica, Bobbi Starr, Moxxxie, Kylie Ireland and Princess Donna on wiredpussy.com

That’s Princess Donna on the left.  She’s going to be presenting at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire.  I wonder what she’s like.  She’s very sexy and she looks like she may be a lot of fun.  I’m going to be [...]

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous

East coast time

November 18th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Alessandro Del Toro, Rico, Van Darkholme on boundgods.com
Adam Winrich does some impressive whip throwing on Time Warp on the Discovery Channel. They do some slow motion so you can see the whip breaking the sound barrier.
I did not know that Michael Landon had passed until I saw this. [...]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

The big dodge

October 30th, 2008 · 25 Comments

It was Thursday night at Dark Odyssey and we were hanging out on the porch of Oink. We had just finished the second and final part of a ritual scene where a boy had earned a pair of leather gloves. It was a perfect night. Momma Bear had gone into the cabin [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews · Spanking

My big Saturday night date

October 13th, 2008 · No Comments

Our Saturday dinner ran late at Dark Odyssey. Oink and friends had forgone the camp dining hall. Glenda had barbecued steak, fish, vegetables and fresh corn on the cob. Dessert was grilled pineapple and peaches. It was quite a yummy contrast to the regular camp food.
So, it was late. My hot [...]

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Tags: Event Reviews

Take back your mink

October 8th, 2008 · No Comments

I am happy to see the NYC prodoms fighting back. I hope that their PAC can change the laws.
So romantic. I love their stories.
Glenn Greenwald talks about the Max Headroom verdict and contrasts it to the Bush administrations definitions of torture.
Ahren Wolf has a selection of Dark Odyssey Summer Camp ‘08 photos up at his [...]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Fucking and Flogging

September 29th, 2008 · 20 Comments

This is another Dark Odyssey story.
I saw Stew at Midnight snack on Thursday night. He gave me a big hug and a kiss hello. He’s really cute. We had met at camp last year. “I would love to try a flogging. Would you flog me?”
I looked at his big eager smile, and said,”Sure!”
We walked up [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report

Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2008

September 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Number one highlight: Thor sent us cookies!
The pink ones are Pretty Pretty Princess Cookies.
Thanks, Thor!

I’m back from Dark Odyssey. Once again, it was an amazing event where I could connect with people, expand my boundaries and grow, and play a lot and have fun.
Oink cabin rocked! We did have [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

Lipstick

September 10th, 2008 · 1 Comment

The porn world has “gay for pay” actors. Now are we seeing “gay for play” ball-players?
The Exxxotica New York convention moves from Secaucus to Edison, NJ in the same space that hosted TES Fest 2006 and Floating World.
TES Election results: Parliamentarian: Nayland
Arbiter: Lady Velvet
Board 2 year terms: Thrash, Goddess Coko, Wes, [...]

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Tags: Links and Stuff