Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Marriage does not equal Romance

January 5th, 2011 · 3 Comments

So, I just read Man Attempts to Restore Romance to NYC With Blog Admitting Interest in Marriage. Ya know, marriage is not the ticket to romance. Sure, getting married is romantic. Oh, the engagement! Oh, the wedding! Oh, the big white wedding dress! Oh, finding “the one!” Being together forever and ever. Dreaming of what [...]

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Tags: friends

Boymeat and Tim hit the mainstream media

September 29th, 2009 · 1 Comment

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Tags: Event Reviews · friends · travel

The Magic of DFW

March 7th, 2009 · Comments Off

How fortunate that NYC had a big snowstorm on Monday so that Boymeat and I were stuck at DFW airport for an extra 10 hours! We were able to have extended schmoopy time with Kathryn. We had two lovely gourmet experiences: T.G.I.Fridays and Chili’s. We rode the Skylink 5 times and explored terminals C, D and [...]

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Tags: travel

You don’t know how lucky you are, boy

December 24th, 2008 · Comments Off

My plane landed at 9:40pm on Saturday night and I was at the New York Boys of Leather Bar Night at the Stonewall Inn before midnight. I quickly reassimiliated myself back into NYC and got to hang out with my NYC friends. Vacation is nice but it’s good to be back! Boymeat and Jake

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Tags: Event Reviews · NYC

Faidley’s

December 9th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Whenever we go to Baltimore, we try to go to Faidley’s in the Lexington Market. Not always so easy because they close at 5:30 on Saturday and are not open on Sundays. It’s a stand-up kind of place. I get a broiled lump crabcake. The hushpuppies are not on the menu. You have to ask [...]

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Tags: travel

Black Rose 2008 Recap

November 6th, 2008 · 1 Comment

I had a really good time at Black Rose this year. It was good to be back after skipping a year. I got to see lots of people (family, old friends, new friends) and spend quality time with some of them. I taught three classes which went well, volunteered some time at the NCSF table, [...]

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Tags: Event Reviews

New York Leather Weekend – Sunday

October 16th, 2008 · 25 Comments

At New York Leather Weekend‘s street fair Jessi HolmanAhart, IMsL 2005, is incredible eye candy. Michael Colon was named Mr NYC Leather 2009. Nayland Blake and Boymeat hang out. Thor and mudcub enjoy the day. Thrash did a single tail demo. Tip did a mummification demo.

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Boymeat’s Boots

October 1st, 2008 · 17 Comments

In our hotel room at Folsom Fringe. Boymeat has sexy new Wesco boots. Not so easy to get them off. On the bus to Folsom Street Fair. Luckily, he once again had help getting them off. At Folsom Street Fair. Even more lucky, there were some people who got off on Boymeat’s boots.

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Fuerza Bruta

August 26th, 2008 · Comments Off

Boymeat, Dara and I went to see Fuerza Bruta. Boymeat and I had enjoyed De La Guarda a few years back and this was produced by the same people. We waited in line for about two hours for rush tickets. They sell 20 tickets two hours before each performance for just $25. We scored our [...]

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Tags: NYC

What I did on Saturday

August 7th, 2008 · Comments Off

Met with friends for Dim Sum. It was yum yum. We walked to the Seaport. I decided against buying a fake designer bag. The weather cleared up and we rode the free ferry. Went to IKEA and bought a pack of tealights. Such a deal! Later I met up with other friends and we went [...]

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Tags: NYC