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Don Quixote and I are both invited to the same party on Saturday night. Earlier in the week, he suggested that we have a play date at the party. On Friday he phoned.

I took the opportunity to ask what he wanted me to bring.
“I don’t know. What did you want to do?”

Ah, this is the bane of two switches hooking up. That back and forth of who is going to do what to whom. I nipped it in the bud. “You are going to top me!” I backed that up with, “You’re going to be bottoming on Sunday!”

He was in agreement with all that. So, I asked again, “What should I bring?”
“Whatever you want to play with.”
“Well, I am schlepping stuff for Sunday’s scene. I don’t want to bring too much more.”
“OK, what would you like to do?”
“Bondage, spanking, I could be your puppy or your captive or…”
He thought for a second, “I’m thinking you could be property.”
“Ooooh! I could bring a collar. I do have a few of those.”

My mind raced with the anticipation of being his property at the party. “Oh, I am so excited. I am going to jerk off as soon as I hang up.”
“I’m not.”
“Why not?”
“I’m saving it until Saturday.”
“Ha ha! Guys have to do that! Not girls. The more we come, the more we wanna come. I’m just priming the pump. Gotta go. Bye!”

After the phone call, I jerked off and thought about how I should make him save it until Sunday.

Met with friends for Dim Sum. It was yum yum. We walked to the Seaport.

I decided against buying a fake designer bag.

The weather cleared up and we rode the free ferry.

Went to IKEA and bought a pack of tealights. Such a deal!

Later I met up with other friends and we went to Philadelphia.. We had Taco Bell and then went to the Black Phoenix. It is really a nice club. I caned a guy. He liked it a lot.

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Thursday, August 7

Friday, August 8
ClubFemNYC Munch
DSF: “Spanking from A-Z” w/ a panel of spankers

Saturday, August 9
Desire Play Party

Sunday, August 10
Brooklyn Leather Munch
BYTE 4yr Anniversary – The Quadrennial
TRUCK STOP

Monday, August 11

Tuesday, August 12
TES: “Meet the Candidates” – TES Members Only
CineKink: Tawdry Summer Tryst

Wednesday, August 13
TES Novice Group: ” Fantasy and Roleplay” w/ Bo, Lady D and Skully

Is this a viral ad campaign? Or one with bacteria?

Man dies in bondage. He was left alone and suffocated.

Daddy! Give me a dollar! I wanna see the waterboarding!

Jefferson’s blog (sans archives) is back up and he is talking about the custody battle he is waging.

I just got an iPod. It’s my first one ever. So, I am exploring how it works. I like podcasts and have already subscribed to This American Life, The Ropecast and Polyamory Weekly. Do you have any recommendations? What podcasts do you like to listen to?

Claire Adams and Charlotte Vale on whippedass.com

My dolly was at Thunder. I went up to her room on Saturday night to pick out her clothes. I chose a sheer black loose dress and a black lace thong. Very simple, yet elegant and sexy. Like she could be a Barbie going to a nightclub.

I found the dolly later in the dungeon. She was a bit disheveled . My brother had played with her. I hate when he plays with my toys and messes them up. He doesn’t know how to play nice. Anyway, I grabbed her and brought her over to my Momma Bear so I could show off my pretty dolly. I was so proud of her outfit. I was proud until I lifted her dress to show off her pretty panties and saw they were missing. Oh, no! Boymeat is so dirty. He took off her pretty panties.

I grabbed the dolly and stomped over to where he had played with the dolly. I wanted to find her panties. That’s when this other bully boy grabbed the panties and put them on his head and wore them like he was a ninja sex poodle or something.

I just wanna say that boys are stupid and I hate them.

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #144? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Anti-Porn Protest Gets Weird
“People get very excited about their causes and lack the sense to see if the information backs them up. ”

The Come Shot
“You don’t see their bodies going blotchily red and hear them howling like a banshee.”

Third Time’s a Charm
“If I lift my kilt on Bourbon Street I’m much more likely to get arrested than if Elizabeth takes off her top.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
In My Office

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The game is afoot!!
I Look Good Naked
It is a Journey that Defies Labels
My Doppelgänger Wrote About Me!
My First Peeping Tom
Perfect vs Good
Why I hate threesomes
You Say Po-tay-to, I Say Po-tah-to

Sex & Politics
Musings on Masculinity: Gabe
Prostitution: To Legalize Or Not?

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
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Cam Lover is addicted to CamWithHer clips
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Fuck me like your bitch boy (pic)
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Half-Nekkid with a New Toy
Jodie Marsh in Hot Party Dress Spilling Out her Boobs
Ms. Elle with Lash
Phone Sex Grandma
Satine Phoenix Forced To Cum On Fucking Machines
Tits for Troops
Where are the women?
X Marks The Spot

Sex Advice
Study The Master: How to Flirt, The Dean Martin Way
Thai green curry is the way to a spicy sex life

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
20 Questions With Tina Tyler
Andrew Blake Thinks He’s Stan Brakhage
Interview with John of Leather Thorn Paddles
Perpetuating Stupid Stereotypes
Review: The Clover Plug
Sextoy Review! The GIGI “Pleasure Object” by LELO
Win A Vollers Corset From Mio Destino Lingerie

Erotic Writing and Experiences
After tapas
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part 3
Can you keep quiet?
Contrast (a love song)
Fiction: Hipster Girl
Hard times, hard-ons, hookers, & strippers
I need to fuck Amanda.
A Little Tingle
Marcy(fantasy)
Mister McIntyre’s Secret – Part One
Mrs. Kink Gets Kinky Email From D
No reservations. part 6
“Once there was a boy and he was beautiful… “
One Track Mind
Pre-MILF II
She danced into my fairytale-Part Three
She Kissed Me
She-some
Slut in the park
Try not to scream…
View From The Balcony

Sex Humor
Taking the Piss Out of the Internet, One Golden Shower at a Time

BDSM & Fetish
Amber’s Wedding Day Confession (Part Three/Continued)
Catalina loves FetLife
Chained
Famed Dom Sgt. Major Brings His Slutty Friends To Backdoor Bondage
Fine Art 101
The locks are broken
A Master And Femdom Cane A Slut Who Kneels On Frozen Peas, While In Bondage
Prelude in E (for Embarrassment)
r’s naughty thoughts on a scene with his Mistress and Ms. Nikki Nefarious
Strap On Play Is Not Just A Fetish, It’s Fun!
Sub night
The Tea Party
A virgin does Thunder, part II
Weekend, part two: dancing
A Wicked Tease

I was walking down 23rd Street the other day and saw this box attached to a tree. It was garbage that had been collected from the tree well on two previous dates and then mounted in a butterfly specimen display box.

As we walked down the block we saw that every tree had a box with a little garbage collection in it. And then we came upon a guy who was attaching a box to another tree. I asked him if he was the artist and he told me his name is Mike Knierim and he’s doing a residency this summer at School of Visual Arts and he’s in the MFA program at Northern Illinois University. I told him I would put up a photo in my blog.

The installation was only up for a day. However, garbage in tree wells seems to be a renewable resource here in NYC.

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Paddles, the BDSM club in NYC, has been opening on Wednesday for the past few months. For various reasons, I hadn’t been on a Wednesday. However, last Wednesday, I was given an opportunity to play with two really cool women. I met up with them there. There were several couples and a bunch of single men there watching. There were some prodoms there, one playing with a client. Later in the evening there were more women, some of them young and eager to learn and talk with us. Otherwise the place was pretty quiet which meant that there was lots of room for us to play.

We wanted to do a rope suspension scene. Paddles does not have great equipment for that. They do not have a overhead beam or a chain hoist, but they do have a wire winch with a hand crank. I also think they may have repositioned it. It is too close to the column now. When the bottom is up, you have to worry about them banging their head into concrete. The entire set up is not easy for that kind of play. But we got her up. It was her first time and she enjoyed it. Afterwards we caned her.

Right now Paddles is the only BDSM club in NYC. On Wednesdays, they open at 8pm and charge $5 for women and $25 for men (a membership card for TES or DSF or any other group gets you a $5 discount). I would go back on a Wednesday night but only if I had a play date.

Madeline Glass gets interviewed by Rachel Kramer Bussel and she says a lot of nice things about me!

Hooray! Dildos remain legal in Texas, for now.

Slydial is a solution for when you have to call, but don’t want to talk.

Pierce/Ink has their new website up. You can see my pretty cutting if you click on the Extreme link. Mine is the one with the overalls.

The Huffington Post has an article about Jefferson’s custody battle.

An important member of the sex-positive community
urgently needs our help.

Jefferson—blogger, educator, and friend to so many of us—is at this moment fighting a court battle with his ex-wife, who is seeking full custody of their three children.

Jefferson’s love for his children has been well-documented on his blog One Life, Take Two for years. His ex-wife has stated in court that he is a “great” father who loves his children.

However, among her claims is that his
bisexuality makes him an unfit parent.

Jefferson needs our help now. As a writer, his resources are limited. The costs of fighting this case are mounting quickly—and will certainly run into the tens of thousands of dollars.

As of today, there is an urgent and immediate need for at least $20,000 to cover costs associated with attorney fees and those of the law guardian who has been appointed to represent the children.

If he is unable to pay these fees by August 11, he will be forced to relinquish custody of his children.

This case is of concern to anyone whose sexuality does not fit the standard mold—because it could happen to you. This case is of concern to all writers, because Jefferson’s blog is being used as evidence against him—and that could have repercussions for our First Amendment rights.

Here’s how to help:

Make an ANONYMOUS, TAX-DEDUCTIBLE contribution to Jefferson’s legal defense by visiting the Sexual Freedom Defense and Education Fund at:

www.sfldef.org

There you will find out how to donate to Jefferson’s Defense Fund via PayPal or if you prefer, check or money order.

Please note that you MUST mention that your donation is to be used for the JEFFERSON LEGAL DEFENSE FUND.

In the coming days, www.onelifetaketwo.com will be relaunched with information about Jefferson’s ongoing case. Be sure to visit his blog for updates. In the meantime, you can contact Jefferson directly at friendsofjefferson@gmail.com.

Thanks very much for your time and concern.

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