Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Graydancer
(There was no photography allowed at the event
so this was pulled from my archives.)

While I was at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire, I was interviewed by Graydancer for his Ropecast podcast.  It was certainly not all talk, no action.  I spanked him while we were taping!  He’s been added to the 100 Divas list.   You can hear the interview here.

Another big addition to the 100 Divas list is Patricia Johnson!  I got together with her and Mark Michaels at the event and it was a really hot spanking.

DOWF was really fun for me.  I did a lot of play and got to hang out with lots of friends.  Tristan, Colton, Greg and Karri really know how to put together a fabulous event.

I had a fabulous birthday weekend.

Taught singletails at LSM Friday night with a great demo bottom.  Went for a bite afterwards with the LSM crowd and then off to the Switch party.

Went to a protest on Saturday (another post about that soon).  Afterward went to someone else’s birthday party and splurged on chocolate cake.  Then dropped in on the NYboL bar night.

Sunday did dim sum with friends.  In the evening went for BBQ and watched the Oscars with Nayland and Thor.

On Monday we went to Spa Castle.  This place is incredible.  It is everything the website claims it to be.  This just might warrant its own entry

Edit:  Also, it was so nice to get so many birthday wishes from people.  Thanks!

Today is my birthday and so far it is great!  I have really wonderful friends.  Thanks to everybody who makes me feel so special today and every other day.

I do want to share this really cool gift with you all.

Hey, Lolita’s Birthday is coming up, and like so many other people in the scene, Lolita has touched my life too! Friend, mentor and leather yenta. Heck, Lolita even gave me the name Michael the Artist (OK, my parents gave me the Michael part). So, in Lolita’s honor, I am running a little fund raiser for NCSF.

From 2/20 to 3/31 all proceeds (that’s the part I make) from both my Zazzle.com and Spreadshirt.com stores will be donated to NCSF in Lolita’s honor. You can check them out at:
http://www.zazzle.com/michaeltheartist
http://michaeltheartist.spreadshirt.com/us/US/Shop/

Right now all of the gear is rope bondage related, but I’ll add broader spectrum of items as creativity and time allow.

Best,
Michael the Artist

This is a secret:  Michael told me he wants to make an age-play coloring book.  That has me very excited!

Thursday, February 19
TES Relationships SIG: Intersection of Love, Sex and SM w/ Lolita Wolf, Soulhuntre, & Lexi
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday,  February 20
DSF: “Vampirism/Dark Supernatural Play” w/ Mistress Dominae Drakonis
LSM: “Singletails” with Lolita
SWITCH

Saturday,  February 21
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group: “Romance and Spanking”
TES Novice Excursion
TES Mardi Gras Party w/ Antonia, Goddess Coko & Lady AliceSin
SPAM 7 Year Anniversary Party
Stimulate

Sunday,  February 22
ONYX-Pearls Northeast: “To the Point”
Suspension party
Brooklyn LeatherFolk Munch

Monday, February 23
CV Meeting: “The Physical Takedown in DS: A Lecture, Demonstration, and Optional Mini-Training” w/TD

Tuesday, February 24
TES: “Civility In Our Community” w/ Deb
Cinekink Kick-Off Gala & Fundraiser

Wednesday, February 25
TES TNG: Bondage 101 Bootcamp w/ Richard Cordage
CineKink
Book launch party for Palimpsest by Catherynne M. Valente

CARAS is currently working on an Educational Needs Assessment, inspired and requested by a number of BDSM/leather/kink community members who are teachers and producers of BDSM educational events.  One way the project will gather information is with an Internet-based survey. Take the survey here.

In their second book, Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes, Two Knotty Boys have teamed up with photographer Ken Marcus to give easy to follow a wide range of rope bondage techniques.  The 80 pages include more than 750 full-color photos to help you learn.  Now in stock. Only $14.96!

Rae Goldman is collecting stories and responses from and about other bearded women. Do you have stories to share?

I like kissing. But there are scientific reasons why kissing is sexy.

Bristol Palin says “Everyone should be abstinent – whatever – but it’s not realistic at all.” She’s sounds so stupid.

Dylan, Maestro and Aiden Starr on thetrainingofo.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #160? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing directly to radicalvixenatgmaildotcom

This Week’s Picks
The Annual Anti-Valentine’s Day Posting: 2009 Edition
“Ahh, Valentine’s Day. Sigh.”

Exposed
“We talk a lot about putting me on display, and it was even more intense in reality as it has been in fantasy.”

Yes
“At the edge of the precipice, my nerves rippling with electricity, i tumbled down into you”

Sugasm Editor
Sex Work And Compassion: A Call From Baghdad

Editor’s Choice
Stairwell

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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
A different approach to polyamory
Do vegetarians make good lovers?
Fantasies
Onesies and Twosies
Things I’ve Discovered I Like
Understanding Masturbation Addiction [podcasturbation]

Sex News, Review, and Interviews
20 Questions with Shawn (aka Syd Blakovich)
The Choices We Make…
Stars In My Eyes
Tribute to Milton

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Dakoda Brookes
Hearts -HNT
In the garden of lust
Kiki

BDSM & Fetish
25 Things, the Kinky Way
The Domme Experiment – The Result
Firsts, part 2
Permission
Single Minded Passion
“There is no ’should’” and the sex-positive “agenda”

Erotic Writing and Experiences
A Bossy Blowjob
Concrete
A Gift for Daddy
Guess Who I Came Across At The Weekend?
My Idea…
Naughty Rose goes bananas!
Petulant and Demanding
The Scream
While She was Waiting

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My favorite Valentines.

I am at Dark Odyssey Winter Fire! This is my first time. Many plans plus hopefully some extra time for a little spontaneity. It’s a whirlwind .

Luke Riley and Nick Moretti on boundgods.com

Thursday, February 12
Queens BDSM Munch

Friday, February 13
DSF: “Valentine’s Day BDSM Play Party & Arabian Slave Auction”

Saturday, February 14

Sunday, February 15
TES-TNG: “Bowling with TNG”

Monday, February 16
CV Meeting: “Furniture Bondage” w/ Erin Houdini

Tuesday, February 17
TES: “The Heart of Darkness: The Art of Sensory Deprivation” w/ Goddess Roze

Wednesday, February 18
TES Singles Group: “How to be a Dominant Diva” w/ Maitresse Scarletta Stangata

I definitely want to see Felice Shays in The Possibility Of Response.