Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Happy Thanksgiving!

November 23rd, 2006 · No Comments

Sweet potatoes with marshmallows seem so very Thanksgiving, so American. Being American is very important to me. I am first generation American, the child of immigrants. My mother would never make that dish. She made sweet potatoes, but topping it with marshmallows was inappropriate. Even when other family members would host Thanksgiving, nobody made that […]

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First fuck

November 16th, 2006 · No Comments

“You need to leave. Now.” If I spoke that way to any other guest, it might be rude, but it was Boymeat, so it was okay. As soon as the door shut, Don Quixote grabbed me and started spanking me. We stumbled back into the living room where the spanking continued. “This has to come […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships · Scene Report · Sex · Spanking

Extrapolation

November 15th, 2006 · 5 Comments

At the start of the orgy, we sat in the living room as people arrived one by one. The boy with the bleach blond Mohawk brought out a bottle of blue nail polish and began to paint his fingernails. He spoke about how he used to hang out with the radical faeries and went to […]

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I grok cock

November 8th, 2006 · 2 Comments

Sometimes you just want bio cock. This was evident when I wrote about Marcus and Me at Dark Odyssey. I totally grok the need for bio cock. Dildos, fingers and hands are all very good but sometimes nothing but a bio cock will satisfy you. After my last breakup, in an effort to not get […]

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Tech Support

November 5th, 2006 · No Comments

So, as I said here in the Blindfolded story, my girlfriend had not been fucked in a while and I was going to take care of that for her. She was in town for some wedding and took an extra day to spend some time with me. We ate some dim sum and then went […]

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Bite me

November 3rd, 2006 · No Comments

Intimacy can be the most terrifying thing. There are different types of intimacy. The one that I find most terrifying and stress producing is inviting people into my home. I always fantasize about having people over and “entertaining.” I have the skills to do it. It really shouldn’t be such a big deal. But it […]

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What’s love got to do with it?

October 27th, 2006 · 2 Comments

Bearsir commented to me in my Sex and Dishes post where I discussed my idea of a fuckbuddy. He said, “This is interesting; I have been writing a lot recently about the sense, culturally that there is this dichotomy about sex: either you have monogamous, partnered sex or you’re having casual, anonymous sex. My sense, […]

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Don Quixote

October 25th, 2006 · No Comments

Don Quixote and I run into each other at various gatherings and events. He is friends with friends who are friends with friends of mine. Most often one or the other of us is busy and unable to attend. The sightings are merely occasional. He is so beautiful that I am unable to look at […]

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Neurosmitten

October 23rd, 2006 · 3 Comments

It was the late night show at Cinekink and I sat between Dude and Dudette. I enjoyed the movie and had my hand stuck down Dudette’s pants the whole time. I fiddled with her enormous clit. At the end of the movie, she turned to me, “You’re coming home with us.” I thought for a […]

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Asking

October 22nd, 2006 · 1 Comment

I wanted something and I asked for it. Straight up asked. No hinting. No beating around the bush. Just asked, very straightforward. And I got what I wanted. Wow! Of course, I am delighted, but why am I surprised? I see it happen all the time. I myself say yes to others when asked. I […]

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