Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

I leave for IMsL in a few hours.  I’m pretty excited about seeing so many of my peeps in one place.  I have a lot on my plate: Thursday: I am teaching Fantasy Role Play at The Citadel. Friday:  I am teaching a Mummification intensive class that will last 4 hours.  I am hoping we […]

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This year, South Plains Leatherfest asked five people to deliver mini-keynote speeches.  I was honored to join with Mark Frazier, Midori, Master Skip and Master Larry on the podium.  This is a pared down version of what I said.  I did quite a bit of ad-libbing and the speech was longer, but this is the general gist […]

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On March 13th, TheTrainingofO.com will be broadcasting a LIVE one-of-a-kind dinner party where members will join Peter Acworth, the Kink.com directors, Dominatrix Maitress Madeline and Guest of Honor Laura Antoniou (author of The MarketPlace Series) as they welcome the first official trainees that have petitioned The House to enter the Slave Class of Service on […]

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I have heard so many good things about the Suspension parties, but I’m either out of town or need to get up early the next day.  But now they are starting at 9pm.  I plan to go to the next one on March 29th.

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High end kinky retailer Kiki De Montparnasse sells these Smith & Wesson gold-plated handcuffs for $350. But, if you can forgo the chain and the complimentary fancy gift wrap, you can buy the same cuffs for $89.99 from Handcuff Warehouse.    They also offer personalized laser etching for an extra $3!

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KinkForAllNYC (KFANYC) was a real success.  Over 100 people showed up for some portion of the day.  It was an “unconference” and that means that those who showed up determined what would happen and made it happen.  The crowd was a mix of familiar faces and lots of people I had never seen before.  A […]

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I am liveblogging from kinkforallnyc. Check out the live feed at maybemaimed.com. I’ve been posting photos in the Flicker pool.

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If you can’t make it to KinkForAll tomorrow in NYC, you can follow some of the action online! 1) http://kinkforall.pbwiki.com/KinkForAllNewYorkCityLive – This is already a stream of tweets from Twitter Search and a thumbnail view of the most recent Flickr photos. It also has a chatroom. 2) http://maybemaimed.com – This is Maymay’s personal site which, […]

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Okay, I’ll bite: Can you end up suffering from the Stockholm Syndrome when you have an intense monthly BDSM session with the same Pro Domme for years? Not about me, of course, but a friend. First, take a look at the definition of Stockholm Syndrome.  Stockholm Syndrome is a defense mechanism that allows a victim […]

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The International Master/slave Contest 2009 was held at South Plains Leatherfest this past weekend.   The winners are Daddy Ken and slaveboy Tim of San Francisco, Northwest Master and slave 2008.

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