Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Saturday June 6 was a gloriously sunny day to head down to Asbury Park, NJ for Foreplay, a BDSM-Leather-Bear block party. Kathryn, Boymeat and Grant work the NCSF/Leather Pride Night table. In addition to helping out at the table, Jake also set up his barber shop. Grant brought his flogger.  Boymeat put it to good […]

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I attended my first Shibaricon weekend and I had a great time.  I traveled and shared a room with Viviane and, once again, she proved herself to be a great travel buddy. I went to a lot of classes and learned a lot of new ways to tie.  Almost all the classes had a lot […]

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Saturday night, a group of us from Sex 2.0 went to dinner at Chrisfield’s.  The conversation was lively and fun. Kate Bornstein, Barbara Carellas and Mollena Williams Service was slow so I got to the Cinekink screening a little late.  But I loved the films that I did get to see.  Afterward, Match, this year’s […]

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The big event on Friday night was Porn & Brownies, hosted by Cunning Minx.  Nobody was really watching the porn, because we were all too busy saying hello and catching up with folks.  Viviane and I went to bed a bit early because we were really exhausted.  Of course, right after we left, the sex […]

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Last weekend I went to CLAW.  That’s an acronym for Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend.  The weekend is open to everyone but attracts mainly gay men.  Even though there is no contest at CLAW, titleholders come from all over.  This is the big pre-IML event for them to shop and network.  The event also attracts a […]

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On Saturday night, the NY Boys of Leather hosted their annual boy auction at The Stonewall Inn..  Over $1600 was raised to benefit Safer + Saner and Callen-Lourde.  It was also a lot of fun. Kwame was the auctioneer. Kevin offered his services as a latex polisher and closet organizer. Scott offered to bake a cake […]

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I taught a four hour Mummification intensive on Friday at IMsL and this is one of the works of art that the class did together.  It was a lot of fun!

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Lamalani, International Ms. Leather 2009 First Runner-up Sarah Sloane and Mina De Sade-Fatale Pony, International Ms. Bootblack 2009 slave tabitha and x-ina I had a wonderful weekend.  I took some photos of the contest, but, for me the weekend centered around time with family and friends.  It was very good that the jellybean was there, […]

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I leave for IMsL in a few hours.  I’m pretty excited about seeing so many of my peeps in one place.  I have a lot on my plate: Thursday: I am teaching Fantasy Role Play at The Citadel. Friday:  I am teaching a Mummification intensive class that will last 4 hours.  I am hoping we […]

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This year, South Plains Leatherfest asked five people to deliver mini-keynote speeches.  I was honored to join with Mark Frazier, Midori, Master Skip and Master Larry on the podium.  This is a pared down version of what I said.  I did quite a bit of ad-libbing and the speech was longer, but this is the general gist […]

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