Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Sex Toy Review: ShowerBabe

March 26th, 2009 · 2 Comments

The ShowerBabe is one of Babeland’s own vibrators. I first tried using it on a dry bed. I was surprised at how much power it had for a vibrator that takes just two AA batteries. I was again surprised when I pushed the On/Off button a second time and realized that it had two speeds. Sweet! […]

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Mar 26-Apr 1

March 26th, 2009 · No Comments

James Deen and Riley Shy on sexandsubmission.com Thursday, March 26 Alphabet Soup Friday,  March 27 DSF: “Relationships in the BDSM World: Psychology of a scene- Connection, Passion & Play” w/ LordSteven & Kristin Le Cercle des Dommes LSM Spring BDSM Play Party for Women and Trans Saturday, March 28 GMSMA Workshop: “From Tits to Balls” Sunday, […]

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IMsL 2009

March 25th, 2009 · No Comments

Lamalani, International Ms. Leather 2009 First Runner-up Sarah Sloane and Mina De Sade-Fatale Pony, International Ms. Bootblack 2009 slave tabitha and x-ina I had a wonderful weekend.  I took some photos of the contest, but, for me the weekend centered around time with family and friends.  It was very good that the jellybean was there, […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Mar 19-25

March 19th, 2009 · No Comments

Aiden Starr and Laci Laine on whippedass.com Thursday, March 19 TES Switchables Group: “Personal Goals & Guidelines for a Happy Poly Life” w/ Pete Mosq Staten Island Kink Munch Friday, March 20 DSF: “Advanced Genitalia Torture” with Mistress Nona SWITCH Women/Trans/Genderqueer BDSM Party Saturday, March 21 Brooklyn Leather Munch TES TNG: Fun Time Excursion to […]

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San Francisco here I come!

March 18th, 2009 · No Comments

I leave for IMsL in a few hours.  I’m pretty excited about seeing so many of my peeps in one place.  I have a lot on my plate: Thursday: I am teaching Fantasy Role Play at The Citadel. Friday:  I am teaching a Mummification intensive class that will last 4 hours.  I am hoping we […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews · travel

Sushi Samba

March 18th, 2009 · No Comments

On Saturday a group of friends and I visited Sushi Samba for lunch.  The 7th Avenue South location was bright and sunny, the wait staff was very attentive and the food was very good.  I got a lunch special for $20.09, Samba Sashimi Seviche: tuna seviche, Neo Tokyo roll, tuna, salmon and eel sushi and […]

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Tags: NYC

Green

March 17th, 2009 · No Comments

Slave Rick has retired from a 30 year federal career in human rights working with refugees.  He will now more fully devote himselself to his private counseling practice.  “It is important to me that those in need of support from our community are not ‘pathologized’ merely for their lifestyle.” David Lawrence is pre-selling his second […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Question #6

March 17th, 2009 · No Comments

What’s your favorite class to teach? That’s a difficult question because it really depends. A lot depends on what person is bottoming to the class.  A fun bottom can make a class more like I scene where I have invited the class in to my scene (of course, I include education and safety – it’s not totally just fun and […]

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous

SPLF 2009 Mini-Keynote

March 17th, 2009 · No Comments

This year, South Plains Leatherfest asked five people to deliver mini-keynote speeches.  I was honored to join with Mark Frazier, Midori, Master Skip and Master Larry on the podium.  This is a pared down version of what I said.  I did quite a bit of ad-libbing and the speech was longer, but this is the general gist […]

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Jack Restaurant and Pampliset

March 16th, 2009 · No Comments

On Saturday night I went to Jack Restaurant, which is an “occasional” restaurant that sets up about one night per month at the Brooklyn Lyceum.  The chefs are Danielle Sucher and Dave Turner. She’s a lawyer and he’s a programmer and they do this on the side.  Every meal is different depending on what’s available […]

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