Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Saturday night with the boys

November 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment

I love the New York boys of Leather. I am an Associate Member. I especially like the monthly bar nights at the new location, The Stonewall Inn. Jake is VP of NYboL and Mr Eagle NYC 2009. The evening’s theme was Gummi (rubber/latex) and Thor geared up. Later, he took off the coat and we [...]

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Tags: Event Reviews · NYC

World Laundromat

November 11th, 2008 · Comments Off

For so long I have yearned for the opportunity to go to the World Laundromat. My jealousy created anxiety for me. It’s such bad poly. Finally, we went. It was just to pick up dry-cleaning, but I think I am okay with that.

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New York Leather Weekend – Sunday

October 16th, 2008 · 25 Comments

At New York Leather Weekend‘s street fair Jessi HolmanAhart, IMsL 2005, is incredible eye candy. Michael Colon was named Mr NYC Leather 2009. Nayland Blake and Boymeat hang out. Thor and mudcub enjoy the day. Thrash did a single tail demo. Tip did a mummification demo.

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New York Leather Weekend – Friday Night

October 15th, 2008 · Comments Off

On Friday night of New York Leather Weekend, I volunteered at the Leather Lounge Meet & Greet. I was working together with Moose. They had a nice little buffet. Thor was a judge. He was unhappy with his tiny cup of ice. Thor was happy once mudcub arrived. Michael Edges, IML 2005 and Jessi HolmanAhart, [...]

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The Sexies 2008

October 8th, 2008 · 1 Comment

I love this photo of me and Nayland Blake at the Sexies. It was shot by Thor, who seems to take the best photos of me. The first annual Sexies, or more properly, The Sex-Positive Journalism Awards, took place on Saturday night at Splash. It was a lot of fun. The crowd was a mix [...]

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Tags: Event Reviews

Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2008

September 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Number one highlight: Thor sent us cookies! The pink ones are Pretty Pretty Princess Cookies. Thanks, Thor! I’m back from Dark Odyssey. Once again, it was an amazing event where I could connect with people, expand my boundaries and grow, and play a lot and have fun. Oink cabin rocked! We did have to paddle [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

Hair

August 22nd, 2008 · 2 Comments

Acquiring free tickets for Hair in Central Park means getting to the park really early to be in line. The park opens at 6am and people start lining up outside the park before that. On weekends, they start at 2am! Crazy! I arrived at the “reasonable” hour of 6:45am. Who does that? Well, Veronica Vera [...]

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Tags: NYC

My IML 2008 Trip – Part 13

August 1st, 2008 · Comments Off

International Mr. Leather 2008: Gary Iriza, Mr. Palm Springs Leather 2008 1st Runner-up: Bob Firth-Tessier, M. Cuir Montreal 2008 2nd Runner-up: Scott Melton, Mr. Ramrod 2007 International Mr. Bootblack 2008: Bootdog, of the Alameda County Leather Corps The contest is the centerpiece of IML weekend, but I’d rather tell you a story from afterwards. Thor [...]

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Thor’s Birthday

August 1st, 2008 · Comments Off

On Thursday night a group of us celebrated Thor’s birthday. We went to Chelsea Cinemas to see The Ritz, which was very funny. Thor brought caramel popcorn and candy to share. Ray won a raffle prize. Afterwards we went to Moonstruck. Thor likes the food and the service there plus we could get a big [...]

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Many times removed

July 9th, 2008 · Comments Off

on the bandwagon All women are invited to a free day at a firearms range in NJ on Saturday July 19th. There will also be rifles, shotguns, and instructors for all. You don’t have to support the politics or the mission of the NRA to enjoy the FREE day at the range. They provide the [...]

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