Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Bondage at the Movies

March 23rd, 2011 · Comments Off

The TES Bondage SIG presents S/M at the Movies: Knotty Cinema and Unrestrained Restraints! Thor Stockman returns with a new installment of his popular S/M AT THE MOVIES film clips programs, this one featuring the best (and worst) of bondage scenes and situations in Hollywood and foreign cinema, ranging from highly proficient and erotic Japanese-style [...]

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Tags: Art & Culture · Bondage · events · NYC

In a Box

January 7th, 2011 · Comments Off

I am totally fascinated by the Ballz Gag from The Stockroom. This looks like it would be a lot of fun on either side. My New Year’s resolution is that I strive to check Facebook almost every day. Last year I mostly ignored Facebook and I missed a lot of stuff that was critical. Apparently [...]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

My birthday celebration has started

February 16th, 2010 · 1 Comment

With my birthday on February 20th and Nayland’s on February 5th, some friends have taken the opportunity to fete us together. On Friday night Thor and Mud took us out to see The Enchanted Pig followed by an amazing dinner at Mario Butali’s Otto.  What a great evening!  Thank you! On Saturday morning, Kathryn and [...]

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Tags: friends

Cookies = Love

October 9th, 2009 · 1 Comment

I was at the airport on a long layover and I was listening to a conversation between these two guys who had just started talking. Not eavesdropping – just, it was loud enough for everyone in earshot to hear. The one guy offers the other guy some home-made cookies. “They’re really good.  A variety, chocolate [...]

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Tags: friends · Relationships

Adventures in traffic

August 5th, 2009 · Comments Off

On Saturday, I played chauffeur with a Zipcar. It was an incredibly fucked-up traffic day in NYC.  But when you have good companionship, it’s all fine.  We made it to JFK with enough time to hang out in the cell phone lot to wait for our passenger.  I learned how to play Farkle with pretty [...]

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Tags: friends

Happy Birthday Thor!

July 31st, 2009 · Comments Off

Eleven of us went out to celebrate Thor’s birthday.  We started at the Chelsea Cinema for What’s Up Doc? Thor brought us all treats.  We laughed a lot. Then we went down the street to RUB for barbecue.  Yum yum!  Some people were very tired on the way home.

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Tags: friends

Oink loves Thor!

July 2nd, 2009 · Comments Off

How lucky am I to have Thor in my life?  He baked cookies and sent them to camp.  Thor has become a legend to all of Oink.  Nom nom nom! An incredible assortment.  All scrumptious! Rose and Boymeat love Thor’s cookies. Nayland loves Thor’s cookies. The Monster (aka Glenda) loves Thor’s cookies. Jason and Sue [...]

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Tags: Event Reviews · friends

Leather Pride Night: Whew!

June 22nd, 2009 · Comments Off

I can finally stop yakking about Leather Pride Night, because it happened and it rocked! The turnout was a bit smaller this year which made it more easy to navigate. However, I think the auctions did well. It will take a while to get the full numbers. I loved seeing so many people out in [...]

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Tags: Event Reviews

Off campus

February 27th, 2009 · Comments Off

Thor reviewed the delicious BBQ we had on Sunday. I got a Virtual Gift as a birthday present. It shows up on my LJ profile for the next week! Thanks! I am totally digging this video. I want that dress and petticoat! In France, straight people are entering into civil unions originally meant for gays. [...]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Life and death

November 19th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Eileen and Maymay think there’s not enough art depicting submissive men. To wit, they have started a great new site. Sweden removes sadomasochism, fetishism, fetishistic transvestism, sexual preference disorders and gender identity disorder from the official disease registry. In the USA, NCSF has a petition to the American Psychiatric Association (APA) to revise its Diagnostic [...]

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