Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

I attended my first Shibaricon weekend and I had a great time.  I traveled and shared a room with Viviane and, once again, she proved herself to be a great travel buddy. I went to a lot of classes and learned a lot of new ways to tie.  Almost all the classes had a lot [...]

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Daddy! Look at what I got! I am soooo excited because I finally FINALLY got my own Hello Kitty vibrator. And it’s pink!  These were around maybe 10 years ago and were much sought after, but production stopped and some of these were going on eBay for a lot of money. Now Babeland is selling them again. Yes, [...]

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The big event on Friday night was Porn & Brownies, hosted by Cunning Minx.  Nobody was really watching the porn, because we were all too busy saying hello and catching up with folks.  Viviane and I went to bed a bit early because we were really exhausted.  Of course, right after we left, the sex [...]

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Babycakes Bakery (Yes, that’s Rachel Maddow’s photo on the counter!) When I originally heard about Babycakes, I sent the link to Rita and told her we needed to go here the next time she visited NYC.  This bakery makes items that are refined sugar-free, gluten-free, wheat-free, soy-free, casein-free, egg-free, vegan and kosher.  With these limits, you [...]

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Finally, it’s here!  David stein’s short story book, Boots, Bondage, and Beatings, is out and available on Amazon.  I love david’s writing.  I got my hands on an advance copy.  Like his novel, Carried Away: An S/M Romance (my review here), the stories are plausible, well-written and hot masturbatory fodder.  And I love the cover [...]

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Babeland is celebrating Tristan Taormino’s 10 years in the business with a new edition of the Tristan Plug.  Tristan helped design this plug.  I bought one many years ago when Tristan did one of her anal sex workshops.  I chose the hot pink color.  At the time, it was like no other plug on the market.  [...]

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You’ve heard about financial domination, right?  Well, I have a financial dominant.  It’s Mr. S.  Whenever I am in San Francisco, I can not stay away from the shop and I always spend money there. So, of course, I went to Mr. S with Don Quixote.  I’ve had my eye on their Stainless Steel Ball Weights for a [...]

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High end kinky retailer Kiki De Montparnasse sells these Smith & Wesson gold-plated handcuffs for $350. But, if you can forgo the chain and the complimentary fancy gift wrap, you can buy the same cuffs for $89.99 from Handcuff Warehouse.    They also offer personalized laser etching for an extra $3!

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I was in Phoenix last weekend for Southwest Leather Conference.  It is a very different event.  The workshops, and the event itself, has a major focus on Master/slave relationships and Spirituality.  I taught two classes and I went to three great classes: Electronic Stapling with Master Z of Dallas, Blood Splatter Play with WhipMaster Bob [...]

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My friends, Barbara Bell and Anna Lorentzon, have a new feature length documentary called Graphic Sexual Horror. It is all about Brent Scott (aka PD) and Insex.com. This film will make its World Premier at Slamdance, held in Park City, Utah, January 15-23 at the same time as Sundance. The website is still under construction, [...]

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