Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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A Review of Fetish For Fashion

February 14th, 2011 · Comments Off

I had a blast bartending before the show started.  It gave me a chance to say hi to everyone.  Many of them were people I had not seen in a long time. Sylvia Tosun started the evening off with some songs. It was her first time wearing latex. The Leather Man showed some very well-fitted [...]

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Tags: Event Reviews · NYC

Ask the Man Who Owns Him

January 9th, 2010 · 1 Comment

Ask the Man Who Owns Him: The real lives of gay Masters and slaves by david stein and David Schachter I recommended this book to Rusty and she wrote this report: Master Jeff and slave sparky, San Francisco; 15 years together Master Jeff picked “Master/servant” to express the dynamic of their relationship because the servant [...]

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Tags: Books · Reviews & Recommendations

Wicked Grounds

December 1st, 2009 · 2 Comments

On my California trip, I made sure to stop in at Wicked Grounds in San Francisco. They are located in the heart of the Soma district on 8th Street right off Folsom. It’s a wonderful cafe that serves gourmet coffee, tea and soda along with delicious artisanal pastries and sandwiches. It’s also BDSM themed with [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Reviews & Recommendations · travel

Sex Toy Review: P Style

October 22nd, 2009 · 2 Comments

I’ve always had penis envy.  Don’t get me wrong.  I like being a girl, but there are times when I wish I had a cock.  I really wish I could just open my fly, whip out my cock and pee anywhere.  It’s convenient and sexy.  So, when Babeland gave me the opportunity to review the [...]

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Sex Toy Review: G Curve Dildo

August 28th, 2009 · Comments Off

Babeland sent me the new G Curve Dildo.  It’s a very pretty pearlescent dark purple and the silicone material is soft, yet firm enough for thrusting.  It has a futuristic phallic design with a nice head and ridges along the top of the shaft that feels good going in and out of any hole.  It’s [...]

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BDSM Toy Review: Spandex Hood

July 31st, 2009 · Comments Off

I always say that the best first hood you can get is a spandex hood.  They fit easily and are comfortable.  They are washable.  They don’t take up a lot of room in your toybag.  This spandex hood from The Stockroom is especially nice because it has a padded blindfold built in to really block out all the [...]

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Sex Toy Review: Acuvibe Mini

July 24th, 2009 · 2 Comments

I was once a Hitachi girl.  That was my favorite vibrator and it was the one that would get me off without fail.  It still does – Don Quixote has one.  A few years back, when my Hitachi died, my ex-girlfriend recommended the Acuvibe.  It is similar to the Hitachi with a big flexible head [...]

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BDSM Toy Review: Scott Paul Humiliator Gag

July 16th, 2009 · 20 Comments

At Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat, I told Don Quixote that he should be available to me on Saturday night. I dressed up in the new girdle he bought for me and then used some pink nylon rope to fashion a strap-on harness for my big brown cock. I had learned the rope skills from Lee [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Toy Reviews

Leather Pride Night: Whew!

June 22nd, 2009 · Comments Off

I can finally stop yakking about Leather Pride Night, because it happened and it rocked! The turnout was a bit smaller this year which made it more easy to navigate. However, I think the auctions did well. It will take a while to get the full numbers. I loved seeing so many people out in [...]

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Tags: Event Reviews

Shibaricon

May 27th, 2009 · 1 Comment

I attended my first Shibaricon weekend and I had a great time.  I traveled and shared a room with Viviane and, once again, she proved herself to be a great travel buddy. I went to a lot of classes and learned a lot of new ways to tie.  Almost all the classes had a lot [...]

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Tags: Bondage · Event Reviews