Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Laura’s Antoniou’s Latest Abomination

March 17th, 2013 · 2 Comments

  What is going on with that Laura Antoniou? Have you seen the latest book of hers? She has totally jumped the shark with this one. For those of you who don’t know whom I am talking about, Laura is the author of the highly acclaimed Marketplace series and she is a very popular speaker […]

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Tags: Books · Reviews & Recommendations

Say Please

April 26th, 2012 · No Comments

Today is my day on the Say Please virtual book tour and I feel like I have messed up and not finished my homework. I have not read the whole book.  But I love what I’ve read so far. Say Please is an anthology of Lesbian BDSM erotica edited by Sinclair Sexmith. There’s lots of […]

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Tags: Books · Reviews & Recommendations · Spanking

A Review of Fetish For Fashion

February 14th, 2011 · No Comments

I had a blast bartending before the show started.  It gave me a chance to say hi to everyone.  Many of them were people I had not seen in a long time. Sylvia Tosun started the evening off with some songs. It was her first time wearing latex. The Leather Man showed some very well-fitted […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · NYC

Ask the Man Who Owns Him

January 9th, 2010 · 1 Comment

Ask the Man Who Owns Him: The real lives of gay Masters and slaves by david stein and David Schachter I recommended this book to Rusty and she wrote this report: Master Jeff and slave sparky, San Francisco; 15 years together Master Jeff picked “Master/servant” to express the dynamic of their relationship because the servant […]

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Wicked Grounds

December 1st, 2009 · 2 Comments

On my California trip, I made sure to stop in at Wicked Grounds in San Francisco. They are located in the heart of the Soma district on 8th Street right off Folsom. It’s a wonderful cafe that serves gourmet coffee, tea and soda along with delicious artisanal pastries and sandwiches. It’s also BDSM themed with […]

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Tags: BDSM · Reviews & Recommendations · travel

Sex Toy Review: P Style

October 22nd, 2009 · 2 Comments

I’ve always had penis envy.  Don’t get me wrong.  I like being a girl, but there are times when I wish I had a cock.  I really wish I could just open my fly, whip out my cock and pee anywhere.  It’s convenient and sexy.  So, when Babeland gave me the opportunity to review the […]

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Sex Toy Review: G Curve Dildo

August 28th, 2009 · No Comments

Babeland sent me the new G Curve Dildo.  It’s a very pretty pearlescent dark purple and the silicone material is soft, yet firm enough for thrusting.  It has a futuristic phallic design with a nice head and ridges along the top of the shaft that feels good going in and out of any hole.  It’s […]

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BDSM Toy Review: Spandex Hood

July 31st, 2009 · No Comments

I always say that the best first hood you can get is a spandex hood.  They fit easily and are comfortable.  They are washable.  They don’t take up a lot of room in your toybag.  This spandex hood from The Stockroom is especially nice because it has a padded blindfold built in to really block out all the […]

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Sex Toy Review: Acuvibe Mini

July 24th, 2009 · 2 Comments

I was once a Hitachi girl.  That was my favorite vibrator and it was the one that would get me off without fail.  It still does – Don Quixote has one.  A few years back, when my Hitachi died, my ex-girlfriend recommended the Acuvibe.  It is similar to the Hitachi with a big flexible head […]

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BDSM Toy Review: Scott Paul Humiliator Gag

July 16th, 2009 · 20 Comments

At Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat, I told Don Quixote that he should be available to me on Saturday night. I dressed up in the new girdle he bought for me and then used some pink nylon rope to fashion a strap-on harness for my big brown cock. I had learned the rope skills from Lee […]

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Tags: BDSM · Toy Reviews