Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don’t just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Ask the Man Who Owns Him

January 9th, 2010 · 1 Comment

Ask the Man Who Owns Him: The real lives of gay Masters and slaves by david stein and David Schachter
I recommended this book to Rusty and she wrote this report:
Master Jeff and slave sparky, San Francisco; 15 years together
Master Jeff picked “Master/servant” to express the dynamic of their relationship because the servant [...]

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Wicked Grounds

December 1st, 2009 · 2 Comments

On my California trip, I made sure to stop in at Wicked Grounds in San Francisco. They are located in the heart of the Soma district on 8th Street right off Folsom. It’s a wonderful cafe that serves gourmet coffee, tea and soda along with delicious artisanal pastries and sandwiches. It’s also [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Reviews & Recommendations · travel

Sex Toy Review: P Style

October 22nd, 2009 · 2 Comments

I’ve always had penis envy.  Don’t get me wrong.  I like being a girl, but there are times when I wish I had a cock.  I really wish I could just open my fly, whip out my cock and pee anywhere.  It’s convenient and sexy.  So, when Babeland gave me the opportunity to [...]

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Sex Toy Review: G Curve Dildo

August 28th, 2009 · No Comments

Babeland sent me the new G Curve Dildo.  It’s a very pretty pearlescent dark purple and the silicone material is soft, yet firm enough for thrusting.  It has a futuristic phallic design with a nice head and ridges along the top of the shaft that feels good going in and out of [...]

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BDSM Toy Review: Spandex Hood

July 31st, 2009 · No Comments

I always say that the best first hood you can get is a spandex hood.  They fit easily and are comfortable.  They are washable.  They don’t take up a lot of room in your toybag.  This spandex hood from The Stockroom is especially nice because it has a padded blindfold built in to really block [...]

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Sex Toy Review: Acuvibe Mini

July 24th, 2009 · 2 Comments

I was once a Hitachi girl.  That was my favorite vibrator and it was the one that would get me off without fail.  It still does – Don Quixote has one.  A few years back, when my Hitachi died, my ex-girlfriend recommended the Acuvibe.  It is similar to the Hitachi with a [...]

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BDSM Toy Review: Scott Paul Humiliator Gag

July 16th, 2009 · 20 Comments

At Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat, I told Don Quixote that he should be available to me on Saturday night. I dressed up in the new girdle he bought for me and then used some pink nylon rope to fashion a strap-on harness for my big brown cock. I had learned the rope [...]

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Leather Pride Night: Whew!

June 22nd, 2009 · No Comments

I can finally stop yakking about Leather Pride Night, because it happened and it rocked! The turnout was a bit smaller this year which made it more easy to navigate. However, I think the auctions did well. It will take a while to get the full numbers. I loved seeing so [...]

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Shibaricon

May 27th, 2009 · 1 Comment

I attended my first Shibaricon weekend and I had a great time.  I traveled and shared a room with Viviane and, once again, she proved herself to be a great travel buddy.
I went to a lot of classes and learned a lot of new ways to tie.  Almost all the classes [...]

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Sex Toy Review: Hello Kitty Vibrator

May 16th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Daddy! Look at what I got! I am soooo excited because I finally FINALLY got my own Hello Kitty vibrator. And it’s pink!  These were around maybe 10 years ago and were much sought after, but production stopped and some of these were going on eBay for a lot of money. Now Babeland is selling [...]

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