Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don’t just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Embarrassed at The Eagle

August 15th, 2009 · No Comments

So, I met up with Pup at The Eagle Friday night. He’s got a nice new boyfriend who lives here in NYC. Very cute. Giggles when he gets clothespins put on him. So, I punched Pup and then began flogging his chest. I got a bunch of [...]

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Tags: BDSM

Permission

February 9th, 2009 · 8 Comments

She emailed me two months before the party.  “I know your dance card fills up so I am asking you now for a playdate.”  I told her yes.
I ran into her a couple of weeks before the party.  “Don’t forget that we have a playdate.”  I assured that I certainly did remember [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships · Scene Report

Lolita’s Holiday Gift Giving Guide

December 11th, 2008 · No Comments

This is my incomplete and totally biased BDSM/Sex Toy Gift Giving Guide for the Holidays. There’s everything from Stocking Stuffers on up!
Chrome Mini Clothespin $4.50 each
This is a real top of the line clamp. For nipples, nether regions or anywhere. Shiny and heavy.
Mini Bullet One Touch Vibrator $8.00
Keep one handy in [...]

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Tags: Reviews & Recommendations

Talking in my sleep

December 9th, 2008 · No Comments

People For the American Way has a petition to dump DOMA. Sign it here.
My friend, Sarah Sloane, is running for IMsL. Her first fundraiser will be held January 24 at The Crucible.
There’s been a bit of a shake-up at IML. Bill Stadt has resigned and R.J. Chaffin is taking his place. I’ve met R.J. a [...]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Back from Baltimore

December 8th, 2008 · No Comments

I’m back from my Baltimore trip. The flogging class had a small yet enthusiastic attendance. None of them were novices so I could jump ahead to the meat of the class and we had time for lots of hands-on coaching. Kathryn met me up with me on Friday and [...]

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Flogging Class and Play Party – Friday – Baltimore

December 4th, 2008 · No Comments

Power Flogging Workshop with Lolita Wolf and Pansexual Play Party at Play House Studios in Baltimore this FRIDAY, Dec 5th from 9pm until 1am.
Hi Everyone – Lolita Wolf from NYC will be visiting Baltimore this weekend. Please join us at Play House Studios for a special Friends of Play House Pansexual Play [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Find Lolita

Mr S at Folsom

October 1st, 2008 · No Comments

On our way into Folsom Street Fair, we stopped in to Mr. S. And look who’s living in San Francisco and working for Mr. S! Kirk! We were so happy to see him.

We did not shop too much. We wanted to get to the fair. But Mr. [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

Fucking and Flogging

September 29th, 2008 · 20 Comments

This is another Dark Odyssey story.
I saw Stew at Midnight snack on Thursday night. He gave me a big hug and a kiss hello. He’s really cute. We had met at camp last year. “I would love to try a flogging. Would you flog me?”
I looked at his big eager smile, and said,”Sure!”
We walked up [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report

Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2008

September 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Number one highlight: Thor sent us cookies!
The pink ones are Pretty Pretty Princess Cookies.
Thanks, Thor!

I’m back from Dark Odyssey. Once again, it was an amazing event where I could connect with people, expand my boundaries and grow, and play a lot and have fun.
Oink cabin rocked! We did have [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

Not a masochist

September 3rd, 2008 · 18 Comments

She told me that she was not a masochist, but she wanted to be beaten until she cried. We started with floggers and she could take quite the beating! I finally got her crying with a single tail. It ended as an intense and beautiful scene.
Later, we all went back to her hotel [...]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report · Sex