Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Just Play

November 23rd, 2011 · No Comments

This weekend, I’ll be at Just Play, an event designed to bring women and transfolks together to play and socialize and learn from each other. The event takes place at Play House Studios in Baltimore, MD. You must rsvp to Glenda for the address. Friday night is open play from 9pm to 2am plus an […]

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Tags: BDSM · events · Find Lolita · Spanking · travel

The Ultimate Guide to Kink

October 18th, 2011 · 1 Comment

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge I have a chapter in this book! It’s Chapter Two and it covers Spanking, Caning and Flogging! The list of contributing authors to this book reads like a Who’s Who of BDSM: Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, […]

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Maymay’s BDSM Presenter Bingo

June 8th, 2011 · No Comments

    Ever go to a BDSM class and wince when the presenter says or does certain things? I’ve seen it often. Now you can print out a Bingo board and play along.  With the ingenious random board generator, you can print out a bunch of different cards to play Bingo with your friends.

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Safety Scissors

April 19th, 2011 · 1 Comment

You never need them until you need them. And at some point, you will need them. Trust me, you will. I needed them about 10 years ago with two bottoms who were tied up together. One of them got nauseous. I cut the rope in time so he wouldn’t throw up on her. Unfortunately, it […]

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Midori comes to NYC in March

March 8th, 2011 · No Comments

Thursday March 17 at Purple Passion Interrogations & Military Scenes Friday March 18 at Lesbian Sex Mafia Hands-On Rope Body Harness Workshop Saturday thru Sunday March 18-20 Rope Dojo – sold out but there is a waiting list

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Behind The Scene at Cinekink

March 2nd, 2011 · No Comments

  Tonight at 7pm, Wednesday March 2, is the Cinekink season opener which features the 74 minute movie, Kink Crusaders, a profile of the IML contest weekend. It is preceded by the world premiere of the 24 minute short, Behind The Scene, which profiles me and Lady D! In a first-time flogging, Lolita Wolf and […]

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Tags: Art & Culture · BDSM · events · NYC

e[lust] #23

February 23rd, 2011 · No Comments

Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #24? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to […]

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Felice Shays Tears Through NYC

February 11th, 2011 · 1 Comment

Thursday February 17th at Purple Passion Playing in Dangerous Neighborhoods: Advanced Rough Sex Face slapping. Teeth sinking into flesh. Kicking someone when he’s down. Gang bangs, Knives going where god never intended them to go. Fists flying. Rape. Fingers gripping. Gasping for breath. Forced blow jobs. Crawling and begging… If combining these things with pre-negotiation […]

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20 inches of Snow and Making Summer Plans

December 28th, 2010 · No Comments

NYC just got hit with 20 inches of snow and what am I doing? I am planning my fun for the summer! And summer 2011 is starting to look kinda crazy! In addition to some great events out west, like Shibaricon in Chicago and Thunder in Denver, I’ll be going to three events at Ramblewood. […]

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Tags: BDSM · events · Find Lolita

e[lust] #21

December 26th, 2010 · No Comments

Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #22? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to […]

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