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Lolita’s NYC Picks of the Week: November 4-10

November 4th, 2010 · No Comments

Thursday: Midori is teaching Erotic Humiliation at Purple Passion, but it’s sold out. She’ll be back in 2011. Get your spots early! Friday: “Artistic Needle Play” with Mistress Sade Ami at DSF. Saturday: Head down to Philly for Philadelphia Leather Pride Night. Sunday: The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue returns on a new night (first Sunday of […]

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The Kissing Party

October 27th, 2010 · No Comments

On Thursday I went to a kissing party held in the private upstairs of a bar. The hostshave a bunch of rules (like “Ask before you touch,” which is exactly the kind of rule I like having at a party) and they require that everybody attends with a Pal. You are responsible for your Pal’s […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · NYC · Reviews & Recommendations

e[lust] #20

October 16th, 2010 · No Comments

Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #21? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to […]

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Lolita’s NYC Picks of the Week: 14-20

October 15th, 2010 · No Comments

Thursday: Bondage or Impact? New York boys of Leather presents a Basic Rope Bondage Demonstration with Scot Laney or… choose my Flogging 101 class at Purple Passion. Friday Oct 15: Laine teaches “A Servant’s Toolkit – Guide To Being Prepared” at LSM. Then go to play at the Switch party Saturday is the Mr American […]

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Lolita’s NYC Picks of the Week: Oct 7-13

October 8th, 2010 · No Comments

This week is all about the NYC Fetish Tribe Experience. There’s parties four nights in a row and plenty of daytime activities including a shopping trip to Purple Passion with 20% off everything in the store. Tuesday: TES presents “A Tale of Two Histories” with Justin John Costello. He’ll discuss the histories of both the […]

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NYC Fetish Tribe Experience

October 5th, 2010 · No Comments

From the Creators of the Ultimate Afterparty-Vegas, Bondage bus Montreal, Suspension & Impact NYC comes the… NYC Fetish Tribe Experience Save the dates, October 7-11 Four nights of fetish fun in The City That Never Sleeps! The NYC Fetish Tribe Experience is an innovative approach to expanding your kinky horizons while simultaneously providing the most […]

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Lolita’s NYC Picks of the Week: Sept 30-Oct 6

September 30th, 2010 · No Comments

Thursday: SESSIONz is a good little event for play at CHINA1. Friday: Master Vito is teaching Beginner to Intermediate Bondage at DSF. Saturday: CineKink presents “A Taste of Kink: Bite The Apple,” a special screening of film and video shorts from New York directors. Sunday: MAsT Metro NY presents: Discipline, Punishment, Correction: Correcting Behavior Monday: […]

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Lolita’s NYC Picks of the Week: Sept 23-29

September 23rd, 2010 · No Comments

Thursday: Sinclair Sexsmith will be teaching “A Dyke’s Secrets for Cunnillingus” at Purple Passion. Friday thru Sunday: 2nd annual Sacred Sex Roundup. I’m teaching a class on Sunday. Saturday: LSM meets for dinner and socializing before going to Submit. With the Butch Voices Conference in town, the Submit Party will be hopping! Sunday: Suspension party […]

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Lolita’s NYC Picks of the Week: Sept 16-22

September 15th, 2010 · No Comments

Thursday: The TES Queer SIG hosts an open forum about “The State of New York Queerdom.” Friday: Eric Pride will be at DomSubFriends with a demo at Paddles on “Interrogation: The Border Between Play & Reality.” Also at Paddles later in a separate space is the Switch party for women and trans. Saturday: Two good […]

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Consenting Adults across Communities

September 14th, 2010 · 1 Comment

My neighborhood has been invaded with politicians recently as they campaigned for the primaries here in NYC. I took an opportunity to speak face to face with one of the more liberal guys in my district. I asked him abut several NY State issues, like the death penalty, marriage equality and the Ground Zero Mosque. […]

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Tags: Activism & Politics