Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Only an expert can deal with the problem

July 29th, 2008 · No Comments

Max Mosely won his case against the tabloid newspaper. The judge said, “Mr. Mosley had a ‘reasonable expectation’ of privacy for sexual activities that took place on private premises and that did not involve violations of the criminal law.”

And, now,the prodom who exposed him to the press apologizes. A lttile late.

Registration for The Floating World closes on August 1 and there are no admissions at the door.

Taffeta Von Trapp is part of my leather family. Well… in a different incarnation, very different. Some of you may be able to guess.

Vote for me!

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Bound Gods

July 29th, 2008 · No Comments


Nick Moretti and Dante on boundgods.com

Nick Moretti and Dante on boundgods.com

BoundGods.com will launch on August 1. You can preview the first shoots before it launches here.

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100 Divas adds Claire Adams

July 29th, 2008 · 1 Comment


Sabrina Fox and Claire Adams on whippedass.com

Sabrina Fox and Claire Adams on whippedass.com

Claire Adams is now on my 100 Divas list! On Friday night at Thunder in the Mountains, I approached her and her master, Damon Pierce, to ask if I could spank her. I felt so awkward asking and explaining about my 100 Divas list, but I have to ask for what I want. And lucky for me, I got what I wanted.

Damon was very gracious and Claire was very clear about what worked for her. She did not top from the bottom, rather she guided me so that I would know what she liked and what would get her off. She likes being spanked hard and she loves having her hair pulled. I had such a delightful time with her over my knee!

I really admire Claire, not just for her beauty; in addition to being a strong flexible bondage model, she is a skilled top and extremely competent rigger. And she is also a really down to earth, sweet person.

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Join me at Kinky Carnage

July 28th, 2008 · No Comments

Come to Kinky Carnage at the Black Phoenix Dungeon in Philadelphia on Saturday, August 2nd at 9pm.

Demonstrations by Lolita Wolf, Jocasta of Venus Ropes, Zelda, PyroSadist and others. Rope Suspension, Caning, Fire Play, Flogging, Spanking and Whippings. Games and prizes. Venus Ropes will be giving away 1000 feet of nylon rope throughout the night.

At midnight, you can participate in a game of Shibari Twister where you’ll get tied up! Other games include CBT Marble Toss, Human Pinata, Clothespin Contest and Latex Painting. Yes! We will be looking for volunteers to participate! Come and learn, experience and have fun!

Buy your tickets in advance here. Dungeon location will be emailed after ticket purchase. Please print out a copy of the receipt and bring it with you to show proof of payment. All attendees will be expected to sign a waiver and show proof of age. I hope to see you there!

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The End of an Era

July 25th, 2008 · 2 Comments

I used to be a total fiend about collecting quarters. I would spend my pennies, nickels and dimes in a way to maximize the amount of quarters that I would receive in my change. I would never ever spend any quarters. Those would be saved for pinball, shooting pool, pay phones, parking meters and laundry machines.

It is rare these days that I find myself in bars with pinball machines and pool tables. I have a cell now, so my need for pay phones is nonexistent. And I got rid of my car; even so, muni meters are replacing parking meters.

The last reason to hoard quarters was my laundry. Laundry prices rose and I became militant about every quarter. Boymeat would always laugh at me and my strict rules about keeping all quarters. But I always had enough quarters to do my laundry!

So, last month my building renovated its laundry room. The machines now take a card which has a microchip that records the money that I add to it. $5’s, $10’s and $20’s. Paper money that I always have on hand. Currency which I do not have to work my life around.

I now I am free to spend my quarters willy nilly without worry. Today I bought Boymeat a Homie out of a gum ball machine. He said he got a good one.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates July 24 – 30

July 24th, 2008 · No Comments


RubberBoy and Claire Adams on meninpain.com

RubberBoy and Claire Adams on meninpain.com

Friday, July 25
Le Cercle des Dommes
DSF: “Interactive Demo on the Violet Wand” w/ Master Jay
Phuk It! Play Party

Saturday, July 26
TES-TNG Invasion of the Paddles Munch

Sunday, July 27
Onyx-Pearls Northeast

Monday, July 28

Tuesday, July 29
TES: “Sensation Play: Up Close and Personal” with Sir J

Wednesday, July 30
TES-TNG: Booted Domination” with Avivokhai and Kyle

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Black Phoenix

July 23rd, 2008 · 13 Comments

On the way to Baltimore, we stopped in Philadelphia at the Black Phoenix. This is the new BDSM play club opened by Shibari Warrior. Located on the top floor of an industrial building in an industrial area, there’s a big freight elevator to bring people up. The space is open Wednesday through Sunday with classes, discussion groups, and play parties. You can buy a quarterly membership or you can pay as you go. There are opportunities to work and get free passes.

The play area is huge. It’s 10,000 square feet. In addition there is a 5000 square foot social area with a dedicated classroom area.

This photo is halfway into the play space. There’s a nice variety of equipment and a good amount of room between pieces. In the back, behind the screen, is a long whip area.

Here’s a photo of the comfortable aftercare area. Notice the three boxes of tissues.

There is an additional 10,000 square feet of junk that Shibari Warrior is working on cleaning out. He wants to eventually have 20,000 square feet of play space. Wow!

Of course, there are rules!

I look forward to going sometime to play in the space. Shibari Warrior and I are talking about the possibility of me teaching a class there. For more information, send an email to Shibari Warrior. There’s no website yet.

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Into the space between spaces

July 23rd, 2008 · 2 Comments

Now, that the iPhones are all sold out, it may be time for me to venture into an Apple store to buy myself a Shuffle.

Congratulations to Glenda Rider for winning Pantheon of Leather Women of the Year. And to Lady Sabrina for winning the Nortyeast regional Award. And to Leather Leadership Conference XI – Minneapolis, MN for Large Event of the Year.

The Bitch of Dupont Circle has always made jokes about beating someone “like a pinata — until SOMETHING comes out” . . . now, as if in answer to her prayers . . . The Big Ass Pinata. I think I would fill it with Tootsie Rolls.

These sex offender laws are so stupid! This woman was convicted at 17 for having oral sex with a 15 year old male classmate and now, 11 years later, she is being harassed wherever she lives. I’m glad she is suing the federal government about this. She’s not a predator.

It’s Restaurant Week. Who wants to meet me for a meal?

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Baltimore Trip

July 22nd, 2008 · No Comments

I joined Ace and Jocasta on a road trip to Baltimore. The main reason for our trip was the Erotic Arts Festival which was held Friday and Saturday nights. Jo set up a table there on Saturday night to sell her rope.

Friday night featured Annie Sprinkle, some burlesque and the 1950’s Cheesecake Contest. Saturday night featured more Annie Sprinkle, bondage and a hook suspension. Jo and I tied some people up. I also did a single tail scene. It was really hot and sweaty, because there was no A/C on the hottest weekend of the year. I once again approached Annie Sprinkle about my 100 Divas list and she was interested but there was no time. One of these days…

I got to hang a bit with Lee Harrington. I really loved his performance on Friday night. He emceed on Saturday night.

On Saturday, we did some shopping in the Mt Vernon area.

We went to Artscape, which is a huge outdoor fair. I saw something I really liked and it turns out the artist lives across the street from me.

We also enjoyed some great outdoor food.

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Bondage – Wednesday – NYC

July 21st, 2008 · No Comments

Daniel and Bobbi Starr on captivemale.com

Daniel and Bobbi Starr on captivemale.com

The TES Bondage Group meets this Wednesday July 23 and is pleased to present:

“Anatomy of a Scene” with Don Edwards

Whether your bondage serves as a means to an end or as an end in itself, we’ll explore the formal structures of effective scenes. From foreplay and warm-up to aftercare and afterglow, this presentation looks at just what it takes to get you “there”… and back again! Join us as we explore the role restraint and release play in the pursuit of mutually satisfying Sadomasochistic activities!

Don E. is a sadist who has been a longtime TES member,S&M community supporter and bondage enthusiast.

Doors open at 7:30pm; meeting starts at 8pm. Come at 7:30pm and socialize!
TES, 260 West 36th Street, 3rd Floor, between 7th and 8th Avenues, NYC
$4 for Members of TES and other BDSM/Leather groups; $8 Non-Members

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