Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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Hair

August 22nd, 2008 · 2 Comments

Acquiring free tickets for Hair in Central Park means getting to the park really early to be in line. The park opens at 6am and people start lining up outside the park before that. On weekends, they start at 2am! Crazy! I arrived at the “reasonable” hour of 6:45am. Who does that? Well, Veronica Vera does it, too. She was just a little ahead of me on line.

Tickets are handed out at 1pm. It’s a pretty long wait so I ordered an egg and cheese on a roll with a coffee. Andy’s Deli (212-799-3355 ) delivers to Central Park. I also brought along my arsenal of stuff:

  • Camp chair
  • Blankie
  • Water bottle
  • Diet Coke
  • Almonds
  • Cherries
  • iPod
  • Cell phone
  • Library book (Blood Noir by Laurell K. Hamilton)
  • Notebook and pen

I scored tickets and went home. Later I met up with Thor who brought us a picnic. Fresh roasted turkey sandwiches, his favorite dark russet potato chips, fruit and cookies. Thor is a connoisseur of good cookies. He knows where to find the best cookies in the city. And when he has time, he bakes. He made maple frosted bacon chocolate chip cookies and sent them in a care package to us at camp. </cookie tangent>

So, I loved Hair. The music is still great, even though some of the lyrics are a bit out of date.

LBJ took the IRT
down to 4th street USA
When he got there, what did he see?
The youth of America on LSD.

In case you didn’t know, the IRT is the 1/2/3 subway line (we also had the BMT and the IND).

Other lyrics never go out of style.

Good Morning Starshine
The earth says “hello”
You twinkle above us
We twinkle below.

Good Morning Starshine
You lead us along
My love and me as we sing
Our early morning singin’ song

Gliddy glub gloopy; Nibby nabby noopy
La la la lo lo…
Sabba sibby sabba; Nooby abba nabba
Le le lo lo…
Tooby ooby walla; Nooby abba nabba
Early morning singin’ song.

This musical debuted in 1968 (the Summer of Love was 1967). It was a different time back then. There was a draft and 58,156 Americans wound up dying in the Vietnam War. (As a comparison, 4142 have died in the Iraq War as of 7/16/08.) Everybody smoked pot. Everybody had a lot of casual sex. It was a revolution. What’s wrong with kids these days?

Scuse me while I … listen to some Jimi Hendrix.

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Not a lot of sleep at Floating World

August 21st, 2008 · No Comments

Somehow The Floating World event was weird for me. The timing was all off-kilter. It started with me teaching on Friday night at 6pm and then going to the Meet & Greet and having two drinks on an empty stomach and then passing out in my hotel room. I got to the dungeon and did not start playing until well after Midnight.

We slept in on Saturday and got back to the space in time to teach another class at 2pm and then shop the vendor area. After dinner my stalker couple disappeared because they were caught in a freaky traffic jam. We were so worried about them and they could not reach us because nobody was allowed to carry cell phones. This cell phone rule made it very difficult to communicate and find people. Hours later, they returned having never made it to their hotel. We all went to the dungeon late and then back to their hotel afterwards to continue our play. My date and I did not get back to our hotel room until 6am!

So, on Sunday, we slept long and got to the space around 4pm, taught at 6pm, went to dinner at 8pm and then started play at 10pm. That was early!  We did not get back too late.  But then the fire alarms went off at 6am and we had to get out of bed and go outside.  Oy!

It was nice that my date had a vehicle. It made going back and forth from the convention center and the hotel a lot easier. It also gave us more food options when we went out. On Friday, we ate at a nice diner near the hotel. Saturday it was a great Chinese restaurant with Ace of Hearts and my stalker couple. Sunday we went for Vietnamese with Michele and Delano. We managed our food really well. Luckily, our room had a microwave and a refrigerator which we totally stocked with healthy food. We had a bunch of little picnics and ate out for one really good meal each day.

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Can you dig it?

August 21st, 2008 · 1 Comment

Selina writes about a bunch of her adventures including her version of the Tea Party which sounds more sexy than my version.

My buddy Delano teaches a Frog-tie Hog-tie and then tickles Tambo in Twisted Monk’s latest video.

Naked clowns! This will be my calendar for next year.

For those that prefer hunky half naked firemen instead of naked clowns, there’s the 2009 Firefighters FDNY Calendar.

Glenn Marcus had his conviction overturned. Seems that he was convicted under a law that was passed after he broke that law.

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FOJ Clarification

August 21st, 2008 · 2 Comments

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Links Aplenty!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates August 21 – 27

August 21st, 2008 · No Comments

James Deen and Alexa Von Tess on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, August 21
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, August 22
Le Cercle des Dommes
DSF: “ The Art of Seduction” w/ Peter Tenorio

Saturday, August 23
TES: “The Art of Caning Workshop” with Mistress Trish
C.O.R.E. Gear Bash

Sunday, August 24
TES Nude Beach Excursion hosted by Joannie Bird
Queer Fetish
Suspension play party
Cat O’ Nine fetish party

Monday, August 25

Tuesday, August 26
TES: “Fire Cupping” with Brian (aka Pyro Sadist)

Wednesday, August 27
TES Switchables Group: “Heavy Hitting from Both Sides of the Fence” with Natasha
Friends of Jefferson party

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Congratulations to Lochai!

August 20th, 2008 · No Comments

Lochai and Isobel Wren on hogtied.com

Matt Williams has been promoted to Creative Director of Kink.com. Lochai is hogtied.com‘s new Director. Lochai is extremely talented and a really nice guy. Congratulations, Lochai!

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Spanks and Prizes – August 27

August 20th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Join the Friends of Jefferson
on August 27, 7 p.m. to 10 p.m.
at
Happy Ending Lounge
302 Broome Street, NYC • B or D to Grand Street
J, M, Z to Bowery • F to Delancy

$20 suggested donation—but pay what you wish

Come and get your spank on at the Spanking Booth!

Enter to win:
Babeland gift certificates
Books • DVDs
Venus Ropes Whip-and-Cane Bag Set and Rope
A Scene or Lesson with Boymeat
The Erotic Art of Spanking DVD w/ book by Lolita Wolf
Hitachi Magic Wand
Home Depot Pervertibles Kit
For Your Nyphomation Flogger Trunk
A Scene or Lesson with Lolita Wolf
and more!

100 percent of door donations and raffle proceeds benefit
the Friends of Jefferson Legal Defense Fund,
which is administered by the
Sexual Freedom Legal Defense and Education Fund

[Graphic by Lynsey]

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Fuck or Pass

August 19th, 2008 · No Comments

I never do memes, but, as they say, there is an exception to every rule.

Fuck or Pass game.
The rules are simple.
If you want to fuck the person who posts this, send them a reply saying “I’d fuck you.” But then, you have to post this in your journal, in exchange.

And we can have a wide definition “fuck.”

(Comments will be screened and will remain unpublished.)

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The last straw hat

August 18th, 2008 · 5 Comments

If you like rubber and fetish, Kink.com is now hosting the Marquis videos from Germany.
The White Room series is now available. Very slick!

Tinkerbelll, Cinderella and Snow White were arrested and handcuffed!

Dark Odyssey Summer Camp just posted their finalized list of presenters and classes. Rates go up August 25.

Modern marriage. Some people get married or (divorced) because of health insurance.

The Blade article claims that many gay folk in the bondage and SM scene relate more to the leather community than the LGBT community.

The Newark Star Ledger infiltrated The Floating World. They mention classes on gagging and power flogging… maybe they went to one of my classes.

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Mixed Space

August 16th, 2008 · 7 Comments

So, in addition to the big general dungeon here, they have a men’s space, a women’s space and a mixed space.  I think it is great that they have men’s and women’s space but I am not sure what mixed space is.  What does that mean?  Does that mean there’s no same sex couples allowed in there?  Like is this the homophobe area?  I don’t get it.

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