Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates August 21 – 27

August 21st, 2008 · No Comments

14 NYC Weekly Leather Dates August 21 – 27

James Deen and Alexa Von Tess on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, August 21
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, August 22
Le Cercle des Dommes
DSF: “ The Art of Seduction” w/ Peter Tenorio

Saturday, August 23
TES: “The Art of Caning Workshop” with Mistress Trish
C.O.R.E. Gear Bash

Sunday, August 24
TES Nude Beach Excursion hosted by Joannie Bird
Queer Fetish
Suspension play party
Cat O’ Nine fetish party

Monday, August 25

Tuesday, August 26
TES: “Fire Cupping” with Brian (aka Pyro Sadist)

Wednesday, August 27
TES Switchables Group: “Heavy Hitting from Both Sides of the Fence” with Natasha
Friends of Jefferson party

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Congratulations to Lochai!

August 20th, 2008 · No Comments

3 Congratulations to Lochai!

Lochai and Isobel Wren on hogtied.com

Matt Williams has been promoted to Creative Director of Kink.com. Lochai is hogtied.com’s new Director. Lochai is extremely talented and a really nice guy. Congratulations, Lochai!

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Spanks and Prizes - August 27

August 20th, 2008 · 1 Comment

DetailsFinally Spanks and Prizes - August 27

Join the Friends of Jefferson
on August 27, 7 p.m. to 10 p.m.
at
Happy Ending Lounge
302 Broome Street, NYC • B or D to Grand Street
J, M, Z to Bowery • F to Delancy

$20 suggested donation—but pay what you wish

Come and get your spank on at the Spanking Booth!

Enter to win:
Babeland gift certificates
Books • DVDs
Venus Ropes Whip-and-Cane Bag Set and Rope
A Scene or Lesson with Boymeat
The Erotic Art of Spanking DVD w/ book by Lolita Wolf
Hitachi Magic Wand
Home Depot Pervertibles Kit
For Your Nyphomation Flogger Trunk
A Scene or Lesson with Lolita Wolf
and more!

100 percent of door donations and raffle proceeds benefit
the Friends of Jefferson Legal Defense Fund,
which is administered by the
Sexual Freedom Legal Defense and Education Fund

[Graphic by Lynsey]

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Fuck or Pass

August 19th, 2008 · No Comments

I never do memes, but, as they say, there is an exception to every rule.

Fuck or Pass game.
The rules are simple.
If you want to fuck the person who posts this, send them a reply saying “I’d fuck you.” But then, you have to post this in your journal, in exchange.

And we can have a wide definition “fuck.”

(Comments will be screened and will remain unpublished.)

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The last straw hat

August 18th, 2008 · 3 Comments

4 The last straw hat

If you like rubber and fetish, Kink.com is now hosting the Marquis videos from Germany.
The White Room series is now available. Very slick!

Tinkerbelll, Cinderella and Snow White were arrested and handcuffed!

Dark Odyssey Summer Camp just posted their finalized list of presenters and classes. Rates go up August 25.

Modern marriage. Some people get married or (divorced) because of health insurance.

The Blade article claims that many gay folk in the bondage and SM scene relate more to the leather community than the LGBT community.

The Newark Star Ledger infiltrated The Floating World. They mention classes on gagging and power flogging… maybe they went to one of my classes.

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Mixed Space

August 16th, 2008 · 7 Comments

So, in addition to the big general dungeon here, they have a men’s space, a women’s space and a mixed space.  I think it is great that they have men’s and women’s space but I am not sure what mixed space is.  What does that mean?  Does that mean there’s no same sex couples allowed in there?  Like is this the homophobe area?  I don’t get it.

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I’ll remember that

August 14th, 2008 · No Comments

alwaysuse Ill remember that

I’m off to The Floating World.  I am teaching three classes and I’ve got a way hot date for the weekend.  Don’t be shy. We’re open to meeting others and socializing, so do say hi!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates August 14 – 20

August 13th, 2008 · No Comments

08 NYC Weekly Leather Dates August 14 – 20

Otto Bauer and Trinity Post on fuckedandbound.com

Thursday, August 14

Friday, August 15
DSF: “Spanking from A-Z” w/ a panel of spankers

Saturday, August 16
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group: “Spanking!” with Rachel Kramer Bussel
TES Novice Excursion hosted by Lady D & Bo
TES “Kinky Casino Night Party” hosted by Tony and Mary Ann
SPAM PARTY
NYboL Bar Night

Sunday, August 17
BYTE 4yr Anniversary - The Quadrennial
TRUCK STOP

Monday, August 18

Tuesday, August 19
TES: “An Evening” with Cecilia Tan

Wednesday, August 20
TES Relationships Group: “End of Summer Social”
Grapple Den

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Taken to task

August 13th, 2008 · No Comments

5 Taken to task

Madison Young on hogtied.com

Ab fab. Hot hot hot!

I want some of these treats!

An engaging 1998 interview with Dirk Dehner where he talks about Tom of Finland.

The Bush administration just can’t end soon enough. Now they’re trying to have contraception defined as abortion. That’s crazy! Read about it and sign the petition.

And, now, here’s a poll:

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My IML 2008 Trip – Part 14 – Final

August 13th, 2008 · 1 Comment

After the contest I took a boy up to my room and poked him with needles. It got him all high and goofy. He had a pair of hinged handcuffs with him but forgot the key at home. Of course I had a key so I locked him in those and took him downstairs through the lobby, socializing on the way, and then up to his room. I put him to bed with instructions to bring us coffee in the morning.

The next day the boy went a bit overboard. He and a room service waiter knocked on our door and wheeled in an entire breakfast! How luxurious! Of course, such behavior needs to be acknowledged, so I took care of it the only way I know how.

2760531203_6c403d36d8 My IML 2008 Trip – Part 14 – Final

I love coffee and caning!

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