So, last night I was watching this video of this guy talking about how he went in to the Mr. S store in San Francisco and got lucky with one of the salesmen there. Well, it got me thinking that here I am working in the premiere fetish store in NYC and I just do not get hardly any fun sexy experiences when I’m working there.
My luck turned around today. Don Quixote walked in. It was day six for him wearing this chastity device, which he purchased from Mr. S. I was towards the back of the store lacing a customer into a corset but I yelled over, “Show Al your chastity device. She needs to see it because we are getting those in soon.”
I didn’t watch because I was busy lacing the corset, but the customer had heard me speak and was now interested as well. She wanted to see it, too. I did not want to be rude to a customer, so, I called out to him, “DQ! Come back here and show your device to my customer!”
DQ came into the back area. He was blushing so much. But he obediently dropped his trousers and showed it to her. My customer was very curious and DQ had to show her the underside as well.
This device is very discreet. Nobody knows that DQ is wearing it under his clothes. Unless, of course, I decide to show it off.
Legal disclosure: If you click on the chastity link and buy a device of your own, I do get a small commission.
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Friday: Dov teaches “The Art of The Singletail” at DSF.
Sunday: It’s a three day weekend so you can party late on Sunday at Impact.
Tuesday: It looks like an interesting TES meeting: “Taming The Shrew with Blyss.
Maitresse Madeline and David Chase on DivineBitches.com
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August 31st, 2010 · 1 Comment
“I want to be an object at some point during the weekend.” Don Quixote told me.
An object? I thought about that. The first thing that popped into my head was a footstool. That’s classic. But it is also boring. I thought about what kind of object I really wanted and an idea came to me: a robot!
I love when DQ tells me what he wants, but does not tell me specifics. It allows me to be creative. I do love to think things out and plan. My robot could not be too complicated because he would not be able to take too many different commands. I planted two remote control bullets on him. One was vet-wrapped on to his balls. This was the stop and go command. The other was vet-wrapped to his chest. This was the command to turn right. Having just these commands kept things very simple. So, he was a New Jersey robot. In order to go left, he would have to make three right turns, like a jughandle.
My robot was very pink. He wore hot pink frilly pettipants. The vet wrap holding the vibrating bullets in place was also hot pink. I used more hot pink vet wrap to wrap his head so that he could not see. I layered rope on his chest pinning his arms above the elbow. I could manually move his lower arms so that he could hold things. I had him carry my water bottle for me. I also added rope over his frilly pettipants and a bar wrap between his ankles so that he could not take big steps. As a finishing touch, I decorated my robot with brightly colored glow sticks bands. Because every robot needs to have lights!
When my robot was put together, I took him for a spin in the massive dungeon. I tried out the commands and he was very responsive. My remote controls worked up to 25 feet away so at first it was not apparent to onlookers that he was being controlled. There were quite a few confused people. “How does that work?” I showed them the controls that made him stop, go and turn. They were very amused.
My robot was not perfect. First of all, he did not walk perfectly straight. He seemed to always go off a little to the right. Also, his right turns were not perfect 45 degree angles. It took quite a bit of navigation skills to maneuver him through the dungeon. I could not allow him to walk through people’s scenes! Most of the time I had him on a zigzag course, like a sailboat tacking against the wind.
This was my most favorite scene at The Floating World.
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Saturday: Last chance to see Shine at 2pm. Great show. See it! There’s also a Submit Party.
Sunday: Suspension party where you can play outside on the roof of The Delancy.
Wednesday: My favorite monthly bar night is Pleasure Salon.
Tommy Defendi, Nick Moretti, Drake Jaden and Derek Pain on BoundGods.com
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CunningMinx posted about the gender differences in jealousy.
The Leather Institute for Education (LIFE), a Metro-Detroit based Leather Educational group has been named the beneficiary for LLC2010. They received over $2000.
Applications, contest rules and requirements are now available at to enter the Mr. & Ms NJ Leather Contest on Oct 15 and 16.
Jay Wiseman‘s Closing argument on Breath Play.
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Thursday: Andrea Zanin aka Sex Geek is visiting NYC from Toronto and teaching Strapping It On at Purple Passion.
Friday: Switch party at Paddles for people who identify as women, trans, genderqueer, multi-gender, gender non-conforming, gender variant, gender fluid, etc.
Saturday: Two good parties: Stimulate and TES.
Tuesday: Grant will be teaching Variations on a Quick Harness at TES.
Lorelei Lee and Kristina Rose on WhippedAss.com
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Darque de Sade was a New York based Fetish photographer. His Indigo Blaque Project was dedicated to portraying kink oriented women of color in a positive light. He published two books and his website can be seen at http://www.indigoblaque.com/
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These days, everyone can have a dick of their own – or two, or three! But how do you pick one, and what do you do with it once you’ve got it? Come learn how to choose a cock and harness that best suit your body and your purposes. Then we’ll dive into the nitty-gritty of where you can stick it and how to enjoy it – givers and receivers alike. We’ll cover packing (everyday cock-wearing) as well as playing with a variety of techniques and orifices, with a focus on pleasure and safety.
Thursday, August 19, 2010
7 to 9pm at Purple Passion
211 West 20th Street, between 7th and 8th Avenue
$20 (and enjoy a 15% discount on shopping before or after the class)
Class size is limited so prepaying is advised. Our last class was sold out. Don’t be turned away. Reserve your spot at the store: 212-807-0486
Andrea Zanin , a.k.a. Sex Geek, pretty much writes and talks about sex all the time unless she’s eating, sleeping or having it. She lives in Toronto and is an organizer, educator and writer within the queer, polyamory and BDSM/leather communities, as well as being an active trans ally. She frequently speaks about alternative sexuality for universities, colleges, sex shops, community groups and conferences in Canada, the States and internationally. Andrea also writes alternative-sexuality news and commentary for the Montreal Mirror, Xtra! Toronto and Outlooks Magazine, as well as blogging at http://sexgeek.wordpress.com.
She has a background in women’s studies and sexuality studies from Concordia University, and is pursuing an MA in those same fields at York University with a focus on Canadian leatherdyke history. Andrea has judged a number of leather title contests, including GLLA Bootblack 2008, International Ms. Leather 2009 and Mr. Leather Toronto 2010. She co-organizes the annual Canadian leatherdyke weekend An Unholy Harvest, runs a book club called the Leather Bindings Society, and occasionally writes erotic fiction on the side. She can be reached at veryqueer3@yahoo.ca
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August 14th, 2010 · 1 Comment
Rachel Kramer Bussel has a sexy new anthology called Fast Girls
. Rachel says:
I named this book after a song called “Fast Girls” by an indie pop/rock band called Sarge*. That song is a feisty, punk-rock ode to a hot girl who is captivating in all kinds of ways.
I’m sure you know a girl like that. Or a woman. Or a lady. Or a butch. Or a femme. Or…you get the idea. She’s the kind of babe who takes no prisoners, who owns her life and her sexuality and not only doesn’t apologize for them, makes sure you notice her and what she’s all about.
You can hear Mia read one of the stories, Five-Minute Porn Star by Jacqueline Applebee, on one of my favorite podcasts: I Want Your Sex.
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