Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don’t just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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e[lust] #7

February 9th, 2010 · No Comments

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Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #8? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

UncoilingI slip the blade between your hip and the fabric of the undergarment, and slide. The pretty thing splits easily, and the panty leg opens, revealing your skin underneath.

Ahead of Time - I know you don’t like to know ahead of time when I’m going to let you out, but I just wanted you know that it’s going to be, well, a long time.

Blogging For Choice: My StoryShould I begin with Catholic high school? Sure, why not. I suppose that’s when I first began thinking about abortion, especially when the opportunity for double credit for community service hours rolled around.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Vignettes: Virtual Peep Show - I kept my bullet vibe on low to draw it out as long as possible for me as I stared, mouth open, at the two cute girls who loved to show off. I let the room in general, and the girls too, know that I was watching, appreciating and jerking off with them. I was encouraged by the greedy, horny men in the room to join them on camera.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

I missed you…I could smell your cologne as I reached past you, key in my hand to unlock the door. That smell always set me off and you knew it. Your eyes told me what you wanted. You saw in mine what I couldn’t say out loud.

See also: Pleasurists #62 and #63 for all your sex toy review needs.

Kink & Fetish

A hand in the…

Celery

Breaking Down

Buckling

Drop and Aftercare, A Discussion

Erotic Hypnosis

Erotic Zen: Masturbation Fantasies

Fantasy Vs Reality in M/s

Four kinksters, a wealth of toys

Spanking Story: Head of House

The Kink Club Dinner

The Devil Is In The Details

The Last Chip

Erotic Writing

A Surfer’s Story

Across a Crowded Room, Part 3

Cookie

Her Pleasure

Saturday with my Sweetheart

Sex Behind the Wheel (#5)

SexxxConfessions: Jumping the Fence with My Best Boy

sex sex sexx

Sold

Surprise

Taboo

The Slut Chronicles #12 ~ The Bar

Uninvited

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

“All men are potential rapists” breeds fear and mistrust. Not caution

JM Darling

NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar is Going National in 2011!

Sex Addiction

S&M video producer in Hungary raided by police

Tauntaun Porn

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationship

A Non Scene that went to a Bad Place

Blow Jobbing. Confession #413

Divorce

Hard Time Getting Wet

Hindsight

I Can’t Get No Contraception. Part 5

Innocent and Clueless? I Think Not!

Kegel Magic – For Men As Well As Women

Kyle’s Visit – Collaring My boy

One Year: The Story of My Rape

Swing Shift Volume 29- Maintaining Balance

Swallowing is overrated

The Tiger Way to Sex Rehab

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Lorelei Lee, Vanessa Naughty and John Henry on sexandsubmission.com

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Crowdle

February 4th, 2010 · No Comments

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An interview with HOM legend John Blakemore.

Psychology Today says that pornography is good for you.

CineKink NYC, running February 16-21, has all the details up!

Susan Sarandon spanking pigs at a concert.

Mistress Matisee interviews Kate Bornstein about how to do the wording for women’s parties.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Feb 4-10

February 4th, 2010 · No Comments

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Thursday, February 4
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue

Friday, February 5
NYC Munch
DSF: “Predicament Bondage” w/ Dov
Paradise Lost party

Saturday, February 6
NYC TNG General Munch

Sunday, February 7
MAst:MetroNY: “Life’s Lesson: Tears to Triumph…This is our story” w/ Master Steve & slave tami
New York Bondage Club

Monday, February 8
CV: “Japanese Rope Bondage” w/ Sebastian

Tuesday, February 9
TES: “”Strap-on Startup” w/ Mistress Clarissa

Wednesday, February 10
TES Novice Group: “Love in the Scene – From Poly to Monogamy”

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How to Pack for a Sex Party

February 2nd, 2010 · No Comments

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I went to a Chemistry party with a friend. While I want to be prepared for anything that came our way, I did not want to schlep a lot of stuff with me.

I decided to take my shiny red patent For Your Nymphomation Adult Toy Box.  It’s a nimble 12″ x 9″ and holds a lot of stuff.  Very cute!

Here’s what I packed inside it:

With a kit like this, I was prepared for many sexy possibilities!

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Women’s Leather History Project at the Leather Archives

January 29th, 2010 · No Comments

logoblack Womens Leather History Project at the Leather Archives

The Leather Archives & Museum (LA&M) is committed to collecting, preserving and providing access to the contributions, experiences, and histories of women in leather, BDSM, fetish, and related lifestyles. The Women’s Leather History Project (WLHP) represents the LA&M’s ongoing commitment to making the diverse voices of women in leather visible and heard. The WLHP will collect artifacts, stories, and other items that represent the experience of all women (straight, gay, bisexual, transsexual, transgender, women of color). The resulting collections will be featured in future exhibitions at the Leather Archives & Museum.

Please join the WLHP and the LA&M and ring in the New Year by becoming a part of this urgent and very important project of collecting and protecting Women’s Leather History!

The WLHP is a multi-year project. Our target fund-raising goal for 2010 is $10,000, and we hope to collect an additional $2,500/year for each additional year. Donations to the WLHP will only be used for program items related to the collection and exhibition of women’s leather history at the LA&M. Your donations will fund the hiring of a professional curator, the creation of museum exhibits at the LA&M, and the acquisition and storage of women’s leather resources including:

  • • Papers
  • •Video recorded interviews
  • • Personal histories—oral, film, and written
  • • Art and visual resources
  • • Media—books, magazines, films, and digital media
  • • Artifacts—organizational and personal

Spearheading the WLHP for LA&M will be Sarah Humble and Leigha Fleming. Says Humble, “I am so excited to be involved in leading this project. I have my video recording equipment ready. It’s so important that as women we take the lead in collecting and preserving our own histories!”

Says Fleming, “We will be present at events, scheduling interviews and soliciting donations to make this project a reality. Vi Johnson & Jill Carter have become our first individual donors and SouthEast Leatherfest has become our first event donor.

We will begin accepting donations for this exciting public history project on January 1, 2010. The Leather Archives & Museum is a 501(c)3 charitable organization, therefore any contribution you make to this project is tax deductible in accordance with IRS regulations. Donations can be made via the LA&M website or by mailing a check/money order to: Leather Archives & Museum 6418 N. Greenview Avenue, Chicago, IL 60626. Please mark your contributions “women” or “WLHP.” If you have any questions, please email women@leatherarchives.org

You can visit the Women’s Leather History Project on the LA&M website.

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The Last Chip

January 29th, 2010 · 1 Comment

phx The Last Chip

Don Quixote and I ate dinner at the Empire Diner with an old friend of his. I had the grilled salmon, he had the chili and the friend had guacamole. The waiter had the same snotty attitude that most Empire Diner waiters throughout time seem to have. But the food was good and the conversation was lively.

Both the chili and the guacamole were served with chips. As DQ picked up the last chip on his plate, I took it from him, “I want your last chip,” I announced and bit into the crunchy goodness.

The friend had many chips left on her plate and offered me some of hers. “No, thank you, I just wanted his last chip.”

She then offered her chips to DQ. I waited to see if he would accept her offer. He didn’t think about it too long. “No, thanks,” he said.

He’s so smart. He knew I wanted his last chip.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Jan 28 – Feb 3

January 28th, 2010 · No Comments

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Thursday, January 28
Alphabet Soup

Friday, January 29
TES-TNG: “Rope Share”
TES College Night Toga Party
Paradise Lost

Saturday,  January 30
Rope Share
Submit

Sunday,  January 31
New York Bondage Club
NYC TNG Party Night
Suspension party

Monday,  February 1
One of the Most Important Tests You’ll Ever Take
CV: Erotic Writing as a Tool for Seduction and Negotiation with Jack Stratton

Tuesday, February 2
TES: “Punishing Holds: Dominant Wrestling Holds to Learn and Enjoy” w/ Damien TD & VeVe

Wednesday,  February 3
TES “TEC@TES: Blue Ribbon Round-Up”

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Mickey Mod, Maitresse Madeline, David Chase, Madison Young
and Martin Lorenzo on divinebitches.com

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There were bells

January 28th, 2010 · No Comments

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Yes, those are bells sewn onto my chest. I was at Southwest Leather Conference this past weekend and participated in the Dance of Souls, where some people have bells and ornaments sutured onto their bodies and others have hooks embedded which are then pulled. There is a group of about seven drummers who contribute to the energy.

I very much enjoy how SWLC with it 530 attendees, educational classes, vendors, contests and dungeon parties combines BDSM, Leather, Master/slave dynamics and the deep woo woo of many spiritualites to make this event feel so different from any other major regional conference in the country.

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Dance:208 Fetish Ball

January 27th, 2010 · No Comments

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Fetish Ball
Saturday January 30
9pm
DJ Bill Coleman
Go-Go Torez

$10/$6 (Center Members/Before 10pm)
Fetish attire $6 all night!

208 West 13th Street
212-620-7310
www.gaycenter.org

Dance:208’s Fetish Ball returns with the rockin’ nasty beats of DJ Bill Coleman (Eagle, Sugarland, G Lounge, Bootleg, The F Word) and remixer of everyone from Cazwell, Colton Ford, Ultra Nate, Amanda Lepore, Daisy Spurs). Bill has spun Fetish for us before and there’s a reason why…if anyone can get you movin’ in your gear, he can! The Fetish Ball brings together all parts of the fetish community to dance, sponsored by NY Leatherman among others!

This will certainly be another wild and funky evening, celebrating everything kinky and freaky with live performers and go-gos while you dance.

Get ready to serve and be served!

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The Lust Chronicles

January 21st, 2010 · No Comments

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The Lust Chronicles Anthology The Lust Chronicles is edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel and features one of my stories. Now, in addition to being available as an audio book and an ebook, you can get it as a regular paperback book.

“Rachel Kramer Bussel has created her own type of erotica. An earthy, true-to-life style that draws her readers in and keeps then focused until the very last word”—Alison Tyler The Lust Chronicles takes readers inside the minds of men and women who know how to get their kink on. Fantasies are fulfilled as they go to orgies, join the Mile High Club, seduce sexy strangers and do all the naughty things they’ve always wanted to try. In “Luke Lushious,” Lolita Wolf attends a summer sex camp and finds the man of her dirtiest dreams, while Alex M. Quinlan learns “The Consequences of Complaint.” Here you’ll find an ode to older women, lust for a girl in a fedora, one woman’s love affair with public sex, and several passionate paeans to the lovers you just can’t forget. Readers will identify with their cravings for over-the-top sex, and get off along with the narrators as they recount every last intimate detail. Proving that truth is far hotter than fiction, the Lust Chronicles authors bare all, letting you live vicariously through their steamy, 100% true stories.”

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