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As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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New Site

November 19th, 2008 · No Comments

There’s some very dirty girls over at pissing.com!

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Things I Loathe #5 (in no apparent order)

November 18th, 2008 · 2 Comments

I’ve written before how I despise John Catsimatidis and Gristedes Supermarkets, but today I want to write about Associated Supermarkets. I went into their store at 97th Street and Amsterdam Avenue on Friday, November 14 and they were playing Christmas music! It was that stupid drummer boy pa-rum-pum-pum-pum crap. It’s too early for this. What’s wrong with these people? Can’t I have a nice Thanksgiving first? Santa comes out on his sleigh at the end of the Thanksgiving parade and then you can start with everything.

I am not anti-Christmas.* It’s a timing thing.

*I’ll be Lolita Claus on December 9 at the TES Annual Holiday Potluck & Grab Bag Social. Ho ho ho!  Later!

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Rope w/ Mac Koehler – NYC Wed 11/19

November 18th, 2008 · No Comments

TES Bondage SIG
presents
“Tie Me to the Ends of Love” with Mac Koehler
Wednesday November 19 in NYC

Join Mac Koehler for a riff on Leonard Cohen of which the poet himself would approve. The ends of love have known many means: chocolate, diamonds, war…. bondage? Well, maybe not so much. Until now. From ancient myth to modern neuroses Koehler explores what love might have in store for us and how rope helps pin it down. Carve into your desire to bind or be bound and what it means to your ideas of yourself, your partner, your intimacy and the ends of your being. Go straight to the top to get to the bottom of some pretty big issues, expect the usual big words, a little Q&A, maybe a few gratuitous visual aids, and maybe to leave with some new ideas. Koehler has rigged for many bondage web sites, writes on bondage esoterica at ropespringseternal.com and teaches privately.

$4 for members of TES and other SM/leather orgs; $8 for others
260 West 36th Street, 3rd floor
Doors open 7:30pm (no early arrivals please!); meeting begins at 8pm
TES

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East coast time

November 18th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Alessandro Del Toro, Rico, Van Darkholme on boundgods.com

Adam Winrich does some impressive whip throwing on Time Warp on the Discovery Channel. They do some slow motion so you can see the whip breaking the sound barrier.

I did not know that Michael Landon had passed until I saw this. He was a nice guy. Sad.

This is very funny. Someone stitched together Keith Olberman in a minute.

Dark Odyssey Winter Fire registration is open. The first 50 people to register get a special rate.

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Pleasurists #4

November 18th, 2008 · No Comments

Hollie Stevens, Lorelei Lee, Ariel X, Bobbi Starr and Harmony on whippedass.com

Adult product reviews from the last seven days from all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #3? Read it all here. Do you Have a review for Pleasurists #4? Submit it here before Sunday November 23rd at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own blogs if listed.

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.
Betty’s Blog-A-Versary Swag Contest deadline November 19th.
Swag Contest: Crave Ankle and Wrist Restraints deadline November 21st 11:59pm MST.
Why I Heart Yes Contest! deadline November 24th at 12 midnight AST.
Bondage Photo Contest deadline November 25th.

On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick
Tantus Ripple (small) by Epiphora
“The sensation was what I predicted—it certainly felt like bulbs popping in and out—but it was super pleasurable, much more so than the sensation of leaving a butt plug in my ass. This, I thought, is what they mean when they say anal play feels amazing.”

Madame Editrix
Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek

Vibrators
Cadillac of Vibrators by Ansley Agnello
Sweet G by Ansley Agnello
Rabbit Pearl Vibrator Review by Shasta
A Wand in Hand is Worth… by Natt Nightly
Mia: by Lelo by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
Buzz Bunny by Adriana
Oh! Magnificent Vibrating Glove by Domina Doll
If You Desire a Petite Rabbit by Beautiful Dreamer
Briana Wicked Curves by Beautiful Dreamer
Babeland Slimline Vibrator by Radical Vixen
Fun Factory Paul and Paulina by Ellie Lumpesse
Vibropod by Ellie Lumpesse
Hitachi Magic Wand by Epiphora

Dildos
Wild Angel Harness and Dildo by J.D. Bauchery
The Champ by David
Cyberglass Felicity by Ellie Lumpesse

Toys for Boys
Great toy to use on a cock by Lolita Wolf
A Real Man’s Cock Ring by Beautiful Dreamer
A Sex Toy Named Bob by Em & Lo

Lube/Massage Oil
Kama Sutra Massage Therapy Kit by Essin’ Em
Wet Body Glide Original Gel Lubricant by Shasta
Warming Lubes for A Cold Winter’s Night? by Domina Doll on Viviane’s Sex Carnival
Universal Lube by Catalina Loves

BDSM/Fetish
Leather Leash by Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek
Under the Bed Restraints by Betty Rocket

Erotic Books
Raunchy Review: Hydrophidian by Curvaceous Dee

Adult DVDs
Real Butch Lesbian Dykes by J.D. Bauchery
Porn 4 Pussies: Crash Pad Series, Volume 1 by Domina Doll
Femme Film Fridays-Superfreak by Domina Doll
Playgirl: Indulging in Lust by Beautiful Dreamer

Miscellaneous
For Your Nymphomation XL Adult Toybox by Ang
Silver Handcuff Nipple Rings by Betty Rocket

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Foot Long Case

November 18th, 2008 · 12 Comments

Viviane is so nice to me. She gifted one of her Friday night raffle prizes to me. It is a foot long case from For Your Nymphomation. It is a black textured pleather with a water-resistant lining. The lining is very important for me because I have a tendency to spill things inside of bags. The case is perfect for when I travel with my Acuvibe and it has room for more sex accessories like gloves, lube, a dildo, a butt plug, nipple clamps, etc. The bag has some cool details like glow-in-the-dark zipper-pulls and a really nice lock with two keys.

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At his house

November 17th, 2008 · 19 Comments

Bobbi Starr on fuckingmachines.com

“Get naked and then put some of these candles around the living room and light them.”

“How many is some?” I asked  If Don Quixote was giving me orders, I needed him to be specific.

“Five,” he answered as he left the room.

I quickly set out the candles and grabbed a lighter from the bowl of lighters.  I tried one after the other, but none of them worked.  Broken?  Out of fuel?  Flint?  Or maybe I was just too stupid to figure out those fancy cigar lighters worked.  I did not want to flub an assignment that was supposed to be so easy.  I looked around some more and found a book of matches.  Okay, I could do this.

“Good!”  He had returned, inspected the candles and approved.

He sat on the couch and gave me the next set of instructions.  “Go into the kitchen, pour me a bourbon – two ice cubes, three fingers – and pack a pipe.”

I went into the kitchen.  A glass, a pipe and a bag of tobacco were on the table.  I was relieved that I did not have to be searching for things.  But how was I supposed to pack his pipe?  He had shown me months ago but I had never done it.  I strained to remember the proper way.  Was it tight/loose/tight or loose/tight/loose?  I made a quick guess to the latter and carefully prepared the pipe.

Next, the bourbon.  It was three fingers and how many ice cubes?  I scolded myself for not paying more attention to the instructions.  I went with my first instinct and grabbed the ice from the freezer.  I looked at the bottles he had, picked a name I recognized as one of his favorites and poured.

I brought him his pipe and bourbon.  He lit the pipe and was pleased. “Good girl! Now go get your Hitachi.”

For the record, anybody that tries to say “Good Girl!” to me is really playing on the edge.  But DQ knew that this was the right circumstance for it to be a hot thing to say.  So, yeah, it was hot.

I came back with the Hitachi and he motioned me to the other end of the couch.  “Play with it.”  He sat calmly drinking the bourbon, smoking his pipe and watching me get myself off.

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Saturday night with the boys

November 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment

I love the New York boys of Leather. I am an Associate Member. I especially like the monthly bar nights at the new location, The Stonewall Inn.

Jake is VP of NYboL and Mr Eagle NYC 2009.

The evening’s theme was Gummi (rubber/latex) and Thor geared up.

Later, he took off the coat and we could see his suspenders and waders.

Ernie stripped down to his new jock strap. Only takes a little encouragement.

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LPN at GMSMA

November 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment

On Saturday, Leather Pride Night hosted its Flea Market at GMSMA Leatherfest. It meant that I had to miss the protest downtown, but this was a different kind of activism. Thanks to Emilie, Nayland, Terrence, Christine, Monika, Fred, kitty, Fluffy, Georgina, Wendy Blackheart, Moose, Mike, Lisa, Natasha, Doc, Ernie and Greg for helping me Sigrid, Boymeat, LaRubia and JiffeLube. We raised $1387.

Greg and Ernie provided some much needed muscle.

It was a team effort.

Boymeat and his new girlfriend.

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Sugasm #152

November 16th, 2008 · No Comments

Renae Cruz and TJ Cummings on fuckedandbound.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #153? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom

This Week’s Picks
Sugarbutch Star: Maze – The Girl in the Red Dress
“She’s the kind of girl who brings out the worst in me.”

treat or … fuck
“He looked like I had just given him a car for Christmas and he gently took my hand and led me upstairs. ”

A Life Exposed and Amplified
“We were breaking the rules and being dirty.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
I told him I loved him. He gave me a pen.

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Break On Through
Eiffel Tower
Fast Jenny
A Few Orgasms Before Bed
Geisha
Goodbye, my Love
lustlustlust
Mexican Girlfriend
Mixing business and pleasure
Mistaken Identity
Unblemished

Sex Advice
How to Have Anal Sex with a Big Penis
Is Fantasizing Wrong?
Is Sex Without Oral a Dealbreaker? You Decide.
Lasting Longer in Bed

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Georgia Jones wants to go for a ride
HNT. Forest Nymph
HNT! (One more cherry, popped.)
Kamila – The Restoration
More from the knee socks series
PSA: Breast Cancer Awareness
Seductor

Sex Work
Dating Civilians 101

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
A New Twist on an Anal Sex Toy
On Tuesday, Vote for Equality

BDSM & Fetish
-3 Days
Bad Girl
The big dodge
Blind date: Impressions of a Dom
Dirty Boy
egg scissors
Do you want to cum? How bad?
Jake gets Punished in Spanking Movie
Kneeling In Style
Long Night in Thee Cow Shed
Marked: An Open Letter
Mistress by Proxy, part 2 : the slut
The New Bath Brush
Pimping him out
Pondering Piercings
Quickie

Sex Humour
Friday Poem: Achy Achy Cunt

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
HNT-Time
Hubby’s Halloween Hit. Confession #167
The Space Between
Two women, two stories

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