Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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On the West Coast

August 6th, 2009 · No Comments

Just flew in to San Francisco tonight.  On Thursday morning, I’ll travel north with my leather family to Leather Levi Weekend (aka Summer Camp)!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Aug 6-12

August 5th, 2009 · No Comments

Harmony, Mark Davis, Beverly Hills and Mr. Pete on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, August 6
The Baroness‘ Emergency Room Medical Fetish Party

Friday, August 7
NYC Munch
DSF: “Extreme Body Modification w/ Ryoichi “Keroppy” Maeda

Saturday, August 8
Kink For All NYC 2
Body Archive: “Extreme Body Modification in Japan” Opening Reception w/ Ryoichi “Keroppy” Maeda

Sunday, August 9
NY Bondage Club

Monday, August 10

Tuesday, August 11
TES: ” S&M History Panel moderated by Lady Sabrina

Wednesday, August 12
TES Novice Group: Hot! Wax-Play & Blades w/ Sire Blue
Body Archive: “Extreme Body Modification in Japan” Party w/ Ryoichi “Keroppy” Maeda

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Adventures in traffic

August 5th, 2009 · No Comments

On Saturday, I played chauffeur with a Zipcar. It was an incredibly fucked-up traffic day in NYC.  But when you have good companionship, it’s all fine.  We made it to JFK with enough time to hang out in the cell phone lot to wait for our passenger.  I learned how to play Farkle with pretty sparkly dice.

Thor and mudcub sat in the back.  We spent a lot of time in that car.  It was a comfortable Scion XB.

We whisked Nayland off to the famous Roll N Roaster for their yummy roast beef sandwiches and then we brought him home.  He was very tired.

Mudcub was in charge of garbage.

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Blue, White, etc.

August 3rd, 2009 · 3 Comments

Violet Blue has interviewed my friend, Rose White, who is opening Wicked Grounds, a kinky coffee shop in the SOMA area of San Francisco. I can’t wait to visit.

I am disappointed with the nomination process for the Sexiest Bloggers of 2009 list at Between My Sheets.  I tried nominating several times but the commenting system was faulty and my nominations never went through. So, I will announce my favorite five sex bloggers for 2009 here:
Miss Calico
Little Submissions
Sugarbutch Chronicles
The Perverted Negress
Writing Dirty

The 3rd annual New York Leather Weekend will be Oct 10-11. But I think I will be at the National Equality March in DC that weekend.

Newsweek has a very good article on Polyamory.

Well, I like Chelsea’s essay, The Good, the Bad and the Anal.

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Find Lolita – August 2009 and beyond

August 3rd, 2009 · No Comments

Aaron Adams and CJ Madison on BoundGods.com

August 21-24 – Edison, NJ
Floating World: teaching Flogging, Stuff Yer Hole and Mummification

September 16-21 – Maryland
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp: teaching Kidz Rule!, Rope Bondage & Sex, Popping that Suspension Cherry, and The Well Hung Hand

September 25-27 – San Jose, CA
Folsom Fringe: teaching TBA

October 23-25 – Chicago, IL
Kinky Kollege: teaching Kidz Rule and CBT in a Nutshell

October 30-November 1 – Washington, DC
Black Rose: teaching Co-Topping (w/ Boymeat), CBT, and Decorative Bloodsports

January 22-24 – Phoenix, AZ
Southwest Leather Conference: teaching TBA

February 26-28 – Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching TBA

April 15-18 – San Francisco, CA
International Ms. Leather: teaching TBA and coordinating the Celebrity Auction

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BDSM Toy Review: Spandex Hood

July 31st, 2009 · No Comments

I always say that the best first hood you can get is a spandex hood.  They fit easily and are comfortable.  They are washable.  They don’t take up a lot of room in your toybag.  This spandex hood from The Stockroom is especially nice because it has a padded blindfold built in to really block out all the light.  And it’s on sale for just $15.20!  A really great deal.

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Happy Birthday Thor!

July 31st, 2009 · No Comments

Eleven of us went out to celebrate Thor’s birthday.  We started at the Chelsea Cinema for What’s Up Doc? Thor brought us all treats.  We laughed a lot.

Then we went down the street to RUB for barbecue.  Yum yum!  Some people were very tired on the way home.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: July 30-Aug 5

July 29th, 2009 · No Comments

Harmony, Tia Ling and Felony on whippedass.com

Thursday, July 30
TES Queer Group” “Co-Topping: the whys, wherefores and etiquette of working with couples” w/ Devin MacLachlan

Friday, July 31
TES Spanking Group – Spanking Group Social
TES “Let’s Play Doctor” Party Hosted by Lady Velvet & Mistress Trish
Paradise Lost

Saturday, August 1
LeatherFirst-NYC: “Gnothi Sauton: Know Thyself” w/ Justin John Costello
ClubFEM NYC Party

Sunday, August 2
MAsT Metro NY: “Navigating the Complexities of Gender and Orientation”

Monday, August 3

Tuesday, August 4
TES: “Ginger and Cinnamon Oil and Other Fun Stuff to Play With!” w/ Hawkeye

Wednesday, August 5
TES TEC “Presenting Piper Pony” w/ Thrash AKA Silk the Warhorse
Pleasure Salon

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Mina Meow

July 29th, 2009 · 1 Comment

My friend, Mina Meow, did one of Hogtied.com‘s Casting Couch auditions at Leather Retreat with Lochai.

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Mollena’s side of the story

July 27th, 2009 · No Comments

Wow!  Mollena Williams wrote a glowing post about her scene with me at Shibaricon.  She starts off with saying some really flattering things about me and then it reads like porn!  I love it!

My version is here.

Thanks, Mo!

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