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Entries from April 2008

Poofy gets in the way

April 16th, 2008 · No Comments

Steve Holmes and Trina Michaels on sexandsubmission.com Has Gay lost its Magic Charm? When gay boys don’t feel that they have to be so gay and straight guys don’t have to worry about being perceived of as gay, is there less difference between them? Susannah Breslin writes about Ira Isaacs, a pornographer who was indicted […]

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates April 17 – 23

April 16th, 2008 · No Comments

Adrianna Nicole and Annie Cruz on thetrainingofo.com Thursday, April 17Staten Island Kink Munch Renegades Dungeon Party Friday, April 18LSM: Flames Of Desire Tantric Fireplay w/ Barbara CarrellasDSF: “Erotic & Sensual Fireplay” w/ PyroSadist Apple Munch SWITCH women/trans/genderqueer bdsm party at PADDLES Saturday, April 19Brooklyn Leather Munch TES Spanking Group: “Pervertibles for Spanking and Beyond” with […]

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Wasted time

April 15th, 2008 · No Comments

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Who needs Pearl Paint these days?

April 15th, 2008 · 2 Comments

This is part of the Crochet Coral Reef project. Helle Jorgensen made this fire-coral from plastic bags! Does anybody need a computer monitor? I am offering a Dell 15” monitor – not the flat kind. It’s yours for the taking – free! Please email me (lolitasir at gmail) or comment here. Going postal: this letter […]

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Sugasm #127

April 15th, 2008 · No Comments

Monique on hogtied.com The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #128? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. This Week’s PicksMy life as a Female“His reply was instant: “You are a […]

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A subtle shift

April 14th, 2008 · No Comments

It’s Sunday morning. I’m propped up with pillows in Don Quixote’s bed. A cane is lying next to me. I have extracted it from the case he keeps next to the bed. DQ comes back into the room. Naked, bearing two mugs of coffee, he eyes the cane. “What’s with the cane?” “I am going […]

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How much pain can you take?

April 13th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Ryan Knox and Lexi Love on meninpain.com Axe recently pondered how he should answer this very question. In my opinion, the only proper answer would be, “It depends.” “It depends“ is most likely not the answer that the person who posed that question would want to hear. But really, it is a flawed question to […]

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I am Wrestling with my Taxes

April 11th, 2008 · 4 Comments

Amber Rayne, Samantha Sin, Ariel X and Alexa Von Tess on ultimatesurrender.com Audacia Ray demonstrates how to turn a condom into a dental dam using her teeth! Do you regret that hook-up you had? Get over your shame. The Order of the Serpentine. Kink.com has now enabled the new PicLens 3D technology on their sites. […]

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Nazi Fantasies

April 11th, 2008 · 2 Comments

I went to see Stalags on Wednesday night at the Film Forum. It is a documentary that explores the phenomenon of the fantasy porn books based on the Holocaust. These were hugely popular in Israel in the early 1960’s, the time of the Eichmann trial . It also tells about how some of that fantasy […]

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References and Recommendations

April 10th, 2008 · 2 Comments

96th Street Traverse, NYC I feel that I need to expand on what I wrote in this post. Ignorantia non excusat: If someone uses my name as a reference, I advise you to ask me about them. Some people bank on you not asking me about them. People drop names as a reference and think […]

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