It was a week before we were going to leave for Dark Odyssey Fusion. I called Don Quixote to discuss bedding and stuff. And then I sprung it on him, “I think you should be in the chastity device.” There was a pause. “Really? Now? Until Fusion?” He was incredulous. “Yes!” He began to explain [...]
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It was a Sunday, I locked Don Quixote into the chastity device. We would not see each other again until Friday. He didn’t complain. He knew that I had the right to control him in that way. He did, however, mention that he had a date. One of those kinds of dates. A date for [...]
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Everyone is invited to a Sex Positive Pansexual Play Party hosted by the Friends of Play House and Baltimore TNG to be held at Play House in Baltimore on Friday night, July 30th from 9pm until 2am. I will be presenting a workshop about how to have more successful poly relationships at 9:30pm and open [...]
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Come to my class! “The Greedy Pig Battles the Green-eyed Monster” At Center for Sex & Culture 1519 Mission Street San Francisco, CA Thursday, April 15 — NOTE THE TIME: 6-7:30 pm $12-25 sliding scale Buy tickets at Brown Paper Tickets Jealousy can destroy a poly relationship. Feelings of insecurity and fear of abandonment lead [...]
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by Gloria Brame Tonight, I want to talk to you about the past, the present and the future. I’ll start in the 1980s, because that’s when I started going to SM clubs and events. To people of my generation, leathersex and sadomasochism were forbidden, hidden, radical activities. The guilt and shame about it were crushing. [...]
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She emailed me two months before the party. “I know your dance card fills up so I am asking you now for a playdate.” I told her yes. I ran into her a couple of weeks before the party. “Don’t forget that we have a playdate.” I assured that I certainly did remember and that [...]
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Check out Franklin Deveaux’s Poly Glossary. I still can’t find the word I’m looking for. May havbe to make one up. Lumpo tries to make sculptures with balloons and fails miserably. This guy is amazing. Maybe Lumpo can learn from him. Award-winning filmmaker Tony Comstock is looking for women age 36-48 wanted for a new [...]
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In addition to the NY Times coverage of Poly Pride, there was also an article in the NY Post. Kink.com is now hosting Andrew Blake’s Contempt. Tilda waits for it. I also love the anticipation. And here’s why I use maximum security handcuffs. This is I where I live. Go see my review of the [...]
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I love this photo of me and Nayland Blake at the Sexies. It was shot by Thor, who seems to take the best photos of me. The first annual Sexies, or more properly, The Sex-Positive Journalism Awards, took place on Saturday night at Splash. It was a lot of fun. The crowd was a mix [...]
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Hooray! I am Winner #1 in Violet Blue’s Sex + Advertising Contest. Wow! The NY Times has a great fashion spread about lolitas. The clothes! The clothes! My story got Fleshbotted! Sir Stephen has been talking about this project for a while and it is finally up and running: The Master/slave Development Center The NY [...]
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