Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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The Lamborghini – much more subtle

May 12th, 2008 · No Comments

The view from Leslie’s suite TES Fest presenters will include Boomer, Boymeat, Flagg, Glenda Rider, GrayDancer, Lochai, Lolita Wolf, Master Larry and slave barb, Nayland Blake, Q, Rae Goldman, Rita Seagrave, Sarah Sloane, Sharrin Spector, Whipmaster Bob and Bootpig. This guy is a poly poster child. And she is “exploring.” Carly Simon talks about how […]

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My lips are sealed

April 29th, 2008 · No Comments

A NY Times article about how different states view marriage after one of the partners has transitioned. It all makes my head hurt. Wednesday April 30 is 31¢ Scoop Night from 5pm to 10pm at Baskin Robbins. In addition, Baskin Robbins will donate $100,000 to the National Fallen Firefighters Foundation. I’ll be on a plane […]

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I am Wrestling with my Taxes

April 11th, 2008 · 4 Comments

Amber Rayne, Samantha Sin, Ariel X and Alexa Von Tess on ultimatesurrender.com Audacia Ray demonstrates how to turn a condom into a dental dam using her teeth! Do you regret that hook-up you had? Get over your shame. The Order of the Serpentine. Kink.com has now enabled the new PicLens 3D technology on their sites. […]

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Feeling safe

April 4th, 2008 · No Comments

Years ago (maybe it was in 1999), I spent a few days visiting with one of my favorite couples down in Maryland Dungeon Country. The Phoenix Society had just lost their new clubhouse in Baltimore, so my couple stepped up and hosted The Phoenix Society party at their home. Of course, I was there even […]

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Flowers that bloom in the spring, tra la

March 27th, 2008 · No Comments

Spencer Tunick at The Four Seasons Kathryn wrote up our Saturday night scene. My age play class at Frolicon was reviewed. TES Fest is planning 60 classes, 30 vendors and 24 hours around the clock play. And that’s all I know at this time. My gayest look has been added here. Portugal, Flamingo; Bierko, Malkovich.

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Improbable History

March 19th, 2008 · No Comments

Thom and his new tattoo Selina wrote about the spanking I gave her … and more. Suddenly, I want to eat more fruit. Wedded to variety. You might call the arrangement “awfully messy.” Or you might call it by its proper name: polyamory.

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Ahead of the curve, behind the 8-ball

February 18th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Princess Kali and her doggy at Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 2007 Photo by Ahren Wolf – see his new website here. Perhaps this is what all those submissives who yearn to be trained are looking for. The Fifth Circuit Court of Appeals has overturned the Texas statute that made it a crime to “promote or […]

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The Green-Eyed Monster

July 16th, 2007 · No Comments

For the past few weeks, I’ve been working on my presentation for Thunder. It’s “The Greedy Pig Battles The Green-Eyed Monster” which is about jealousy in poly relationships. I had a lot of really good stuff, but holy shit! I have dug up some stuff while researching and now I am putting some stuff together […]

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Poly thoughts for today

July 6th, 2007 · 2 Comments

You can be very careful about picking your poly partners, but there’s nothing you can do about the poly partners that they pick. Sometimes you totally luck out with people like Viviane, Madeline or Atreyu. Other times, it is just a little bit of a challenge. So, here’s another exercise in poly. All three of […]

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New Classes

July 4th, 2007 · No Comments

So this month I will debut two new classes: M/s: Getting Started Can the fantasy turn into reality? And just what is realistic? Are limits appropriate? Is a contract beneficial? What is abusive? What’s all this about protocol? How can M/s work with the rest of your life? We’ll start with these questions and then […]

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