Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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We have a winner!

September 5th, 2008 · No Comments

The winner of my spanking scenario contest is kinkoverdrive!

Here is her winning entry:

Lately, I’m digging “surprise spankings.” Previously I preferred the more planned out scenes, but of late I’ve experienced some out of the blue spankings–my boyfriend and I in the middle of a conversation tossing me down, over his knee, pulling down my jeans or up my skirt, and whacking the shit out of my ass barehanded.

And kinkoverdrive receives a copy of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica book.

Thanks to everybody who participated.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates – Sept 4-10

September 4th, 2008 · No Comments

Kimberly Kane, Wolf Hudson on meninpain.com

Thursday, September 4

Friday, September 5
NYC Munch
DSF: “Transition from BDSM to Master/slave” with Master Taino

Saturday, September 6
TES-TNG: “Back to School Excursion” w/ TNG co-facilitators Michelle Storm & Richard Cordage

Sunday, September 7
LSM: Safety & Orientation for Pledge Members
MasT: Metro NY: “Masters in Service” w/ Master Taino
NYboL Car Wash
Le Carnaval Fetish “Back to School”
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue Party and Latex Lovelies Competition

Monday, September 8

Tuesday, September 9
TES: Membership Meeting, Election

Wednesday, September 10
TES Novice Group: “Basic Skills…Female Domination – CBT & Other Terrible Things to do to Men” w/ Miss Calico

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Not a masochist

September 3rd, 2008 · 18 Comments

She told me that she was not a masochist, but she wanted to be beaten until she cried. We started with floggers and she could take quite the beating! I finally got her crying with a single tail. It ended as an intense and beautiful scene.

Later, we all went back to her hotel room. Three of them blindfolded me, tied me spreadeagled to the bed and tortured me. Then they flipped me over, fucked both my holes and made me suck cock.

We have plans for later this month.

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500 sheets in a ream

September 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

The Midwest Teen Sex Show did an episode on Fetishes. Excellent!

New York State can continue to recognize same sex marriages from other states. I would like to see these marriage performed here, too.

Some of the NYC community is coming together to raise money for a friend who is battling Lymphoma B cancer. The first event will be a Rope Share fundraiser open to all (beginner to experienced).

As pointed out here before, I really dislike John Catsimaditis and he wants to run for mayor of NYC. Here is another story of what a pig he is. He owns Gristede’s, which a court ruled has violated federal and state laws by failing to pay overtime to hundreds of lower-level managers at its supermarkets.

Hurry! My Spanking Scenario contest ends tonight at Midnight.

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Find Lolita – September 2008 and beyond

September 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

Felony and Derrick Pierce on sexandsubmission.com

September 10-15 – Maryland
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp: teaching Kidz Rule, Sensory Deprivation & Control, Caning: from Ah! to Zowie!!!, and Look Ma: No Rope!

September 19-21 – Chicago, IL
Kinky Kollege: teaching Caning: from Ah!” to “Zowie!!! and Stuff Yer Hole

September 26-28 – San Jose, CA
Folsom Fringe: teaching How To Play With Needles and Kidz Rule

October 4 – NYC
Sex Positive Journalism Awards: I am emceeing

Oct 31-Nov 3 – Washington DC.
Black Rose: teaching: CBT In A Nutshell, King Tut’s Kink: Mummification! and Contracts for Play or Serious Commitment

February 13-15 – Washington, DC
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire teaching TBA

February 27 – March 1 – Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching Decorative Piercing, Co-Topping and Metal Bondage

April 9-12 – Atlanta, GA
Frolicon: teaching three classes TBA

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Labor Day Weekend

August 29th, 2008 · No Comments

On Friday night I am teaching for TES-TNG. I have a lot of fun things to do.

It’s Amazing What You Can Find
Don’t have to have a lot of money to stock your toy bag? Mix a little imagination with ordinary, everyday items and you can have some fabulous SM toys. This workshop will cover finding, converting and using mundane items for SM play. Bring one of your own pervertibles for some kinky show-and-tell. Come on! That Paddleboro kitchen spoon is the most famous pervertible in the country.

On Saturday morning I will head out to the Pond House in West Virginia. No internet! And spotty cell phone service, if any. But there will be good friends, good food, good play and a hot tub…

Have a great weekend!

Political PS: I knew it! McCain picked a woman as his running mate. This is going to be a very interesting race. Sarah Palin may be female and young but she is very anti-choice. She’s not very friendly towards LGBT issues either. And she’s got some kind of Troopergate thing being investigated. I am Obama all the way.

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I believe in recycling but that’s ridiculous

August 29th, 2008 · No Comments

Have you ever lost your camera? Here’s a site that may help you find it.

An update from Jefferson about Wednesday night’s party. It was a lot of fun.

I am pretty surprised that only one person entered my contest to win a copy of Spanked. Contest closes on Wednesday. Go on and enter!

I recently polled my blog readers about whether I should join Fetlife and… survey says: 2 out of 3 readers think I should join! So, I did. I’m Lolitasir over there.

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Raggedy Ann

August 28th, 2008 · No Comments

How can you tell when somebody really really likes you? There are many ways. But this Raggedy Ann doll is one sure thing. It was custom made especially for me. See my name is embroidered on her apron? And the apron fabric is dotted swiss. Her hair is real wool. All the materials are top-notch. And her face and heart are embroidered. I had a Raggedy Ann doll when I was a kid. It was nice but nothing anywhere near as nice as this. That one was factory-made with a printed face and heart and cheap materials. This new one is really very nice. Somebody really really likes me! I’m a lucky girl! Thank you so much!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates Aug 28 – Sept 3

August 28th, 2008 · No Comments

Lobo and Sabrina Fox on thetrainingofo.com

Thursday, August 28

Friday, August 29
TES-TNG: “It’s Amazing What You Can Find” with Lolita Wolf
TES “Pirates of the Caribbean: At Summer’s End Party” hosted by Michelle Storm & August

Saturday, August 30
DSF: End of Summer BBQ & Slave Auction Party

Sunday, August 31
ONYX-Pearls Northeast meeting

Monday, September 1
Happy Labor Day!

Tuesday, September 2
TES: “Club / Event Closures and other Community Issues” with Susan Wright

Wednesday, September 3
TES Dominant Men/submissive women: “TNG Panel – What We Want From The Scene?”
Pleasure Salon

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Everywhere I go

August 27th, 2008 · No Comments

I love Kristin Chenoweth. Now she’s got a funny new song about crystal meth.

The NY Press had a write-up of the last Cat O’ Nine Tail fetish party.

Lesbian activist Del Martin dies at 87.

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