Anita Wagner talks about how NCSF helped the Folsom Street Fair.
Eric Leven talks about the Ali Forney Center. It’s a small charity that does a lot of big work. They need help right now. Donate if you can.
Rachel Kramer Bussel talks about Christmas cookie bukkake! Wild!
Audacia Ray talks about The International Day To End Violence Against Sex Workers on December 17. Go out and support them (and wear red).
Gloria Brame talks about using a keyring. I urge you to always have a back-up key. Or call me and I’ll help.
Tags: Links and Stuff
December 12th, 2008 · 2 Comments
My friends, Barbara Bell and Anna Lorentzon, have a new feature length documentary called Graphic Sexual Horror. It is all about Brent Scott (aka PD) and Insex.com. This film will make its World Premier at Slamdance, held in Park City, Utah, January 15-23 at the same time as Sundance.
The website is still under construction, but you can watch the trailers now.
Princess Donna is in the film and will be at the festival. Lorelei Lee (also in the film) may be there, too. The cast also includes Brent Scott, Peter Ackworth of Kink.com, Matt Williams of Hogtied, Cyd Black of Devicebondage, Claire Adams, Barbara Nitke and many others.
They are sending me a screening copy. I can’t wait to see it! Of course I will write here about it.
Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Reviews & Recommendations
He brought his sleepsack to the party. He was hoping to find someone to put him into it. He had a definite good shot at that because there were some other bondage aficionados there. And he wasn’t even the only one there with a custom Mr. S sleepsack!
Well, being one of those bondage freaks myself, I had him bring the sleepsack over to a massage table. I told him to undress. He sat up in the sleepsack while I laced him into his leather hood and then I helped him slip his arms into the inner sleeves and I zipped him up really tight. I used rope to tighten the sack even more. He wouldn’t be able to move at all.
I then slipped a Mini Bullet vibrator between the rope and the zipper. I have several of these. They’re cheap and very small. There’s one in every toy bag I own. He began to moan when he felt the vibrations. The bullet is small, but pretty intense for its size.
I then unsnapped the tit flaps which exposed his pink perky nipples. I pulled and twisted on them. After a while I added some clamps. I always keep a couple of clamps in every toy bag. It’s just another little staple that’s always handy in almost any scene.
Next I directed my attention to his crotch. One big long zipper goes all the way from feet to neck of the sleepsack. It is brilliantly designed with three zipper pulls so that you can open a section in the middle while all else stays zipped shut. I opened the zipper slightly and dug out his cock and balls, pulling first by the scrotum. Where the scrotum goes, the balls will follow; and then the cock will, too.
I used my hot pink parachute cord to stretch his balls really tight and then I tied his cock to his balls. I took the Mini Bullet vibrator and put it in a black latex glove and shoved it in between his cock and balls.
Afterwards, he told me that this time in the sleepsack was most intense of all. I was surprised by that, but he explained that every other time had been very quiet and not at a party with a lot of other scenes happening at the same time. Hearing the sounds of play in the dungeon was pretty freaky for him.
Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Scene Report
Tags: Sugasm
Tis the season for holiday parties and grab bags. I went to two of them this year: one at Pleasure Salon and another at TES. For both grab bags, I put in For Your Nymphomation’s 5-incher toy case and filled them with condoms, lube, clamps and a 6 foot length of paracord.
cocobuttr found this funny Christmas video.
The Master/slave Development Center has announced a one day seminar for Masters with four workshops in the Central NJ/Philadelphia Metro area on Saturday, February 21. It is open to anyone who identifies as a Master regardless of gender or orientation.
One BDSM club sues another in Florida. Yuck!
TES has a new website. It’s about 75% up; it’s a work in progress. I think it looks great!
Tags: Links and Stuff · Uncategorized
Betty Page has passed at 85.
She always looked like she was having fun.
Tags: Links and Stuff
This is my incomplete and totally biased BDSM/Sex Toy Gift Giving Guide for the Holidays. There’s everything from Stocking Stuffers on up!
Chrome Mini Clothespin $4.50 each
This is a real top of the line clamp. For nipples, nether regions or anywhere. Shiny and heavy.
Mini Bullet One Touch Vibrator $8.00
Keep one handy in every toy bag for those hard to fit spots.
Opening Up by Tristan Taormino $11.53
This is the best book of 2008. Covers poly relationships from so many angles.
Slipinside #1 $11.99
Great soft nubby masturbation sleeve for men.
Gun Oil Lube $14.50
Long lasting silicone lube with Vitamin E and Aloe.
Pig of The Run $19.95
It’s a card game with a BDSM theme.
Japanese Clover Clamps $19.95
On a chain. Tight and they get tighter when you pull on them.
DVD/Books by Lolita Wolf $31.16
Educational and fun! Spanking and CBT in a Nutshell
Hitachi Magic Wand $39.95
A classic vibrator. Most powerful of all.
Cane Case $44.99
This case is 42″ long to fit your long canes and it locks, too.
Cunnilingus Expert Kit $49
Violet Blue’s book plus all the tools you need. Practice often!
Njoy Pure Plug $55-$75
Best butt plug evah! Heavy weight and smooth. And it stays in
Aircraft Aluminum Suspension Ring $60
So light and big and pretty and shiny.
Rope Kit $65
Solid braid nylon in beautiful hand-dyed colors including Lolita Pink!
Grip Cuffs $120 and up
Danny makes the best and most versatile bondage cuffs. Pay an extra $5 for the detachment feature.
Floggers and cats $135 and up
Heartwoods are the best being made at this time. Really Get one custom just for you.
Kindle $359.00
This reader is the wave of the future as writers and editors such as Susan Wright, Rachel Kramer Bussel and Susie Bright are now publishing ebooks.
Tags: Reviews & Recommendations
Thursday, December 11
Friday, December 12
DSF: “Erotic Bondage Suspension” w/ Master Vito
Eagle Holiday Party and Art for Life
Saturday, December 13
Womens Rope Share
DSF: “Shibari rope bondage and suspension workshop” w/ Master Vito
Manhattan Spanking Association
Sunday, December 14
Brooklyn Leatherfolk Munch
Monday, December 15
Tuesday, December 16
TES: ” Sensual Hot Wax” with Lady Sabrina
Wednesday, December 17
TES Dominant Women/submissive men’s Group: “Pre-Winter Solstice Social”
Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates
December 10th, 2008 · 8 Comments
The Butterfly Temptress is a sex blogger who is fighting Stage 4 cancer. She has no insurance benefits and her family makes too much to get Medicaid, but not enough to pay for her treatments. I have joined in the effort to help her by pledging to donate my December Babeland commissions to her.
I am able to offer you a 10% discount for online shopping at Babeland when you enter the code Butterfly at checkout. Offer expires December 31.
You can also donate directly to The Butterfly Temptress via Paypal.
On top of all that, I am giving away an I Rub My Ducky vibrator. Just comment here and I’ll pick a winner. Be funny. Make me laugh. No purchase or donation necessary. Contest ends December 22. Please note that Babeland will only ship this prize in the domestic Unites States.
Tags: Really Miscellaneous
Dylan and Maestro on thetrainingofo.com
David is the winner of my Kink.com Porn Contest.
This is what he wrote:
“I enjoy all the sites but my favourite is Training of O. Of all the activities I’m interested in, I can attribute it to my craving for power exchange. From the time I discovered my kink, which was very young, I’ve been fascinated by the Story of O. One of the first pornographic images I saw was based on the novel. That picture depicted two subs, one male and female, who accompany their masters to a party. The subs are in the middle of the room, naked, putting on a show for the rest of the party guests are dressed in their best evening wear. Ever since then, I’ve had fantasies based on that image. Sometimes I’m one of the subs, forced to service the other sub or the guests. Sometimes I’m the master, watching my favourite pet service my guests. The Training of O brings together many of my master/slave fantasies.”
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