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Entries from April 2012

Say Please

April 26th, 2012 · No Comments

Today is my day on the Say Please virtual book tour and I feel like I have messed up and not finished my homework. I have not read the whole book.  But I love what I’ve read so far. Say Please is an anthology of Lesbian BDSM erotica edited by Sinclair Sexmith. There’s lots of […]

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Tags: Books · Reviews & Recommendations · Spanking

Q&A Number 3: Childhood BDSM Fantasies

April 19th, 2012 · No Comments

Q.  OK as a kid I read this bizarre sci-fi comic story in Judge Dredd…the 22nd Ctry NYC cop…the story was called ‘The Stupid Gun!’ It was about 2 futuristic criminals who steal a ‘ray gun’ that could completely wipe clean a persons brain, reducing them into the IQ of a baby…happily drooling, real ‘goo-goo’ […]

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Tags: Advice · BDSM

e[lust] 35

April 16th, 2012 · No Comments

Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust].  Want to be included in e[lust] #36? Start with the newly updated rules, come back May […]

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Q&A Number 2: Professional Domination

April 8th, 2012 · No Comments

Q.  Hi I’m trying to break into the world of being a dominatrix but I am not sure where I should get started. I was going to post ads but I don’t know where. I was going to have the meetings at hotels but I was concerned about safety. Also I wanted to know all […]

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Tags: Advice · BDSM

Q&A Number 1: Play Partners

April 5th, 2012 · No Comments

Q.   On FetLife and on various party/club invites they refer to the term “play partners.”  What does that mean?  Can one be happily married, yet have a separate “play partner?”  Is that necessarily sexual?  Does that sometimes lead to adultry and divorce?  I am both intrigued and frightened. A.   A play partner can be a […]

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Tags: Relationships